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writes:I left my husband, he sent divorse papers to me. He has a girl friend, i don't have a boy friend. Before he gave my family member the divorse papers he told me on the phone he need to meet me to give me my belongings back.he will stay silent then surprise me all the time.he will use people as tools and then surprise me. i do not speak to him, i cut every thing off, i will follow up on the divorse but on my terms.Please help me on how to deal with family and my ex.
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reader, michelleAKAmandi +, writes (28 September 2008):
 By the way Lipstick, can I ask what you left him for? Was it the girlfriend?
Michelle
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reader, michelleAKAmandi +, writes (28 September 2008):
How is he using people as tools? and you're not giving enough information about what the issue with your family and what you mean by dealing with them. Are you saying he's using your family to get to you?
If so, you could ask that your family please stay out of it, that this is between you and your soon to be ex. If a family member seems to be siding with him, ask if they could understand your side... if they don't, then you'll have to separate yourself from them/the family member to merely NOT deal with them until later.
As far as your husband, deal with him legally/through the courts and that's that. You make the choice to deal with him any other way and any other way can cause such frustration and aggravation.
I hope this helps...
Michelle
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