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How can I get my ex off my back without letting on that I have a new boyfriend?

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Question - (29 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello, well, my ex bf tell's me he still loves me, but i have a new bf now, but no one knows cos were keeping it quiet for a bit to see how it goes. so my ex bf dosn't know, and i can't tell him. but he keeps telling me he still loves me and tht he wants me back. he keeps coming around my house and telling me to my face to 'prove' he loves me, and he wont take no for an answer. he just wont give up.

I dont no wot else to do, i try to let him down easy and say i dont feel tht way bout him anymore, but he just wont take it. he constently tells me he still loves me. i no ur gonna think its sweet. but i feel bad for him cos i want him to move on becos i have.

But today on msn my bm told me he said he loved her to her, but he always says its a joke a dare to say it to her, im like wot the hell. also my ex is a user i think. ( but thts a long story to explain why)

hmm what should i do what should i say to him ?

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A female reader, kutie0712 United States +, writes (29 September 2008):

Ok this is really difficult but i went through exactly the same situation about 4 months ago. You need to tell him in a firm voice that you are not into him, you never will be again so he needs to move on with his life. Also you need to tell people you have a boyfriend, that might help your ex move on. Sounds like your ex is a user jsut from that but you just need to get your bm and u to be firm and tell him to get a life and get over you.

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