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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

It's killing me waiting for her to move on....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - My gf and I broke up 6 weeks ago. She hasn’t gotten over it (i.e. she keeps sending me emails and we keep “accidently” running into each other) and I miss her a lot. I don’t think she’s the one (she's not a life partner - too irresponsible, ...

Have a given him too many chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Well this might be a pretty long story but please take sum tim to read it and please give me sum advice... Well the thing is, my ex split up with me just over a month ago and now hes asking for me bk but i dno cos let me tell u wat happend wen we w...

I'd love to have him back in my life again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - My partner has moved out our home 3 months ago after 5 years together. At the moment he is living with his parents. He says he needs time and space and I know it is no point to make him stay or beg him. I said I understand and agree to let him go, ...

I don't want to break his heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I wrote before about my boyfriend, and I am sure I want to break up with him. The thing is, he loves me like hell and I don't know how to do it! I know I sound desperate, but is there a way to break up with him without breaking his heart? xxx...

She said there was no physical attraction...can we overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Hi All I'm a nice normal guy in his early 30s who's never had a long term relationship and a few short term. I have interests and don't feel I meet the right sort of person for me. I recently went out with a girl from work for just over 1 m...

Can you ever REALLY be friends with an ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - We were together for about 6 months and I lost my virginity to him. I admit that I still DO have feelings for him, and on some level always WILL since he was my first, but I would really like to be friends and not have him simply disappear out of my ...

Will this have a bad ending?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I have been divorced for 10 years and have had an off and on relationship with a woman for the past 5 years. The first time we split up, I think , after 2 years. I feel that we moved in together too fast and it created problems for us both. The ...

Where and when did I become public enemy number one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Here is one for you.. You see a girl for two years, she sees someone’s, you say fair enough ask no questions and say if its what you want good luck with it, heartbroken you get on with it. Weeks later she cries saying it is all a mess you are kind ...

Is it possible to change someone's mind about being single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - In what way is it possible to change somebodys mind about been single at university? This girl inparticular isnt like alot of other girls. She wants to be single to have fun with her mates, be able to only have to think about herself and not ...

Is she giving me mixed signals to play hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend split up about 5 months ago now. We were together for 1 and a half years ish. I believe it ended because she didnt want to be with me because of how i had become, how my life revolved too much around her, how controlling ...

What is going through her head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - my girlfriend left me one day and went to australia a week later. she has two sisters there. she never verbally told me she was going but i did get a letter stating why the break up and why she had to go to australia. two months past and i went down ...

Am I wrong for letting him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - My heart is SO heavy...i was seeing this guy for almost a year now.Things were going great between us but we never spoke about what's going on btwn us, we just went with the flow!im not very good with ambiguity in relationships cos if things are ...

This break up has really messed me up...help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Im feeling so rubbish at the moment, so many feelings and emotions are getting to me. My boyfriend left me a month ago, we had been together for about 2 and a half years, and he was my everything. we split up once before and then got back together ...

He is ignoring my texts...should I carry on and forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of a couple of months broke up with me a week ago, he originally said he couldnt handle the long distance relationship (whihc was never an issue before) and eventually i dragged it out of him a few days ago that he thought our ...

My bf says he loves me but he's really better off single. I don't get it *guys opinions please*

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - ok iv been on and off with my boyfriend 3 times now and he has recently said to me that he is not happy being with me and that he was better off single and i asked him why and he said because i feels like i dont love him and i said 'if you're so ...

She doesn't want me! I need a solution, besides just moving on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I am in love with my first cousin and have been through a lot with her in a few months of our relationship. We start of well and now in a long distance relationship. I am a posseessive and full of insecurities and that messed up our relationship. ...

I have personal issues about this woman from his past! Why am I like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I love my Fiance, and we are getting married in 5 months. There is a relationship in his past that really bothers me. She was divorced and with a child. She was a bartender at a trashy young bar and lived at home with her parents. She also ...

We got involved and she went to break it off with her bf! Haven't heard from her..should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I started to see a girl 3 months ago thing escalated pretty quickly she practically lives at my place over 5 or 6 nights a week its great we started as friends and i knew she had a boyfriend oversees after on month of friendship it turned into t...

He's not fulfilling his promises to me...should I still date him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Ok so I work in the nightclub industry as a dancer for three years, and have begun to really hate it. Then about a month ago, I met a guy in there whom i liked, and he promised to take care of my bills and whatever i needed, so long as i didn't ...

I don't understand why he broke up with me but still wants the emotional connection? What's up with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - My BF broke up with me two months ago, and we didn't talk for five week, but now he is calling me two or three times a week and if I didn't cut off the conversation after 30 or 40 minutes, he would just keep on talking. I'm confused. He said he ...