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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I change my behavior and my mindset so that I don't sabotage this relationship that I do not want to lose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm not sure whether to break up with my boyfriend or not. We have been dating for 2 and a half years, we live together, and we love each other. But I am very insecure, and needy. I rely on him a lot for reassurance, and I really am ...

What do I want? I don't want to be hurt anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - After a year and one-half of dating, my ex broke off our relationship six weeks ago. She sent me an email the next day saying he wanted to remain friends. I thought he was just trying to be nice. Two days ago, he called me and started talking ...

He seems to have completely removed me from his life and I don't know what I've done!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - He dumped me, didnt even care to tell me. Is it possible that I am at great fault and I should apologize, though I already did it once and he didn't get back yet? I miss him, love him. We were knowing each other for about 2 years.. since he was ...

If I do go back with I ex I don't want things to be the way they were, I'm so confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I am completely lost and confused. I don't know what to do and need help ASAP. I am currently taking a break from my boyfriend because I can't get over my ex fiance that I broke up with and my current b/f doesn't possess certain qualities I want - ...

Fight or Flight???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - If you love someone and you know its different simply by the way things are and the way they look at you and the history you have together, but it was for the best at the time you weren’t together. As time has moved on and those looks still exist, ...

I'm breaking up with my boyfriend who is also a family friend, how should I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - im breaking up with my boyfriend and ive never broken up with a boy before. i dont know how to do it. plus hes a family friend, will this make it akward when ever he comes over with his parents?...

I'm a attracted to a new guy but when I mention break up to my boyfriend he says he might commit suicide!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi, This may sound weird. I am going around with this guy for past 3 years. I met him online. Everythign was fine till 1.5 years back i met a guy in my office. We were gud friends and fond of each other, but my bf thought we both were too close a...

He has financial difficulties and I feel that is stoping him proposing to me... what should I do in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hello. I am running through the most terrible phase in my life. I have been dating a guy for over a year now and in the beginning he was really sweet and was coming on too hard on me. He tried everything till I let him in. After life 5 months he ...

Do I ride it out and see how it goes, and go to Japan with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Hi Everyone, Where do I start. Well I met this girl a while ago through a friend after I had gone through a rather emotional patch. She's Japanese and 30 years old - and I'm 23. She can't speak english very well at all and I communicate with her...

It's been over 2 months and I'm yet to hear from him. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - hi..i've recently had a sort of breakup...this guy whom i know since over a year and a half...whom i die for...has removed me frm everything...we've had up's and downs.. and we've had some real good time too. he was sure he liked me well, but ...

Is she really over me, or guilt ridden with what shes done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I have a girl, soon to be ex girl I guess, who Ive been with for about 5.5 years. We've had up and down romance for the entire time, I cheated on her about two years ago which she found out, and left me then took off to the other side of the ...

It's worse than cheating or drinking, I don't know what he thinks! Should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I think about leaving my husband everyday. I don't know what I should do , I just don't trust him. A Few years ago he started to have impotence, and his sexual desire was gone. He is ok medically,but he is just not ever sexy with me and stays soft. ...

She wants to have a 'break'. How long should I wait for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - My Girlfriend and I are on break, its been a hell of a week thou...Today, i went to her house and talked to her and saw her for the first time in a week. She says She loves Me and She promised To come Back and be my baby again. We Kissed And hugged ...