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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I finished the relationship but now I feel so miserable.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - I hope someone out there can help me because I am a complete mess at the moment. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and now I am going crazy, I miss her so much and I'm scared she has met someone else. I'll start from the beginning. Th...

His mixed signals confuse me! Am I imagining that he's reconsidering his choice to break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi, My ex of 1.5 years and I broke up nearly two months ago. We had a very good, loving relationship, but a problem loomed as we are both approaching transitions in our careers that might take us to different places (we work for the same, very l...

Does this mean I still love my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Anyone been married for a while? I have for 14 yrs, i asked my husband for a divorce but i cant' do it. I have dated guys since then, its been2 yrs separated and i cant fill the papers out of for the divorce, anyone been in this situation????? ...

Breaking up after 6 years with no real reason? How can she suddenly say it's over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - Hi everyone, I have recently split up with my girlfriend after 6 years together. Everything was going fine, and we even went away on holiday together a month before the split, but suddenly she said to me, she doesn’t love me the way she has befo...

Would emailing him get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - My bf and i broke up a month ago today. since that we have started different uni's. i was devastated. but he said we were arguing about things too much. we were but i told him i loved him no matter what. i meant it. we always made up after, and even ...

The hurt increases everyday. I can't stop thinking about him. Should I email him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of seven years was deployed at least 3 times to the war in the last 4 years. He is divorced and has two grown up kids, I was never married and I don't have any kids. We live in two different countries, we kept in touch all the time ...

Is this fate...are we just meant to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - hey everyone :) i am really in love with one of friends (and have know for just over 3 years)...i like him from the day we met and initially i felt he felt the same way about me! anyways, we didnt really go out and ending up becoming really ...

Should I break up over long distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - My Question is: Should I break up with someone because of long distance? I've been seeing a guy for nearly a year now, but we're long distance. At first it wasn't so bad because we were between cities, but now it's across continents. I ha...

Although she treated me badly, I miss being with her! How do you get over someone that was bad news for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - I have just come out a relationship with someone i always knew was capable of being quite vindictive and nasty towards me. When we broke up my fears came true and she treated me terribly. Now the dust has settled and I have had time to see exactly ...

My girlfriend's been acting weird since last month, did I handle this the wrong way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - Since last month, my girlfriend been acting weird. She no longer has things to talk to me. When we agreed to talk online, she didn't show up and the next day, she didn't tell me what happened. After some days, she text me, saying she been waiting...

Five years together and sixteen years between us... Does he still want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I have a partner (we're supposed to be engaged) we have been together for over 5yrs. Its a 16yr gap between us but he is one of them big-headed ppl. He also loves being center attention and has alot of confidence. I have non at all,very shy ...

I can't get over my ex. Please help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - How do I get over my ex boyfriend? I am misrable and I can't get over him because I love him so much. I feel like I am stuck in this box and I can't get out of it. All I do is cry cry cry....

We each feel rejected by the other so neither of us want to make the first move verbally. Should I say something?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I was the victim of a "player". That's how it started out. Then he got another girlfriend, and I was hurt. Instead of allowing myself to continue the hurt, I decided to play him back and did back to him all the rotten things he did to me. Like, ...

I treated her the best I could so why do I feel so rotten?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - What im trying really to understand is why i feel so rotten at the moment, why i cant go on with my life or anything. i dated this girl for over 7 months and she really ment the world to me. gave all the love a girl could ever want.brought her Jewe...