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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

My girlfriend has terrible mood swings and has just broken up with me by text, I'm so hurt, what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - dear cupid readers, ive posted on here about 5 months ago about my ex and son all that is sorted out!! now this may seem strange but even after having a son with my ex i have never felt this love that im feeling for my girlfriend!!we have a wanderfu...

I desperately need to get out of this house and find a place of my own.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm still in same situation I was last time I left a question, a few of you said I should move out if husband won't. Is there anyone out there who has been in same situation, council house in both names he won't move so I need to know how to go ...

He's been distant the last couple of days - is it the divorce? the kids? or me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Ok, first off I do not want to be slandered on here, I am truely asking for an opinion. My husband and I have been apart for almost 5 months. We filed for divorce last week. During the first 3.5 months I done everything in my power to get him back. ...

Should I return my ex-bf calls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - My ex-bf and I broke up a month ago. I want him back but he did not want to, he said just want to be friends. He called me several times before but we ended up arguing. Last time he called we were okay. He called me again yesterday, I did not pick ...

She says she doesn't want to be with me - so why all these texts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid I broke up with my girlfreind about 6 weeks ago, because we had moved in a flat, and were both really home sick and not happy living together. We were both really distraught about it and a couple of days later, after we had both moved b...

I feel so alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I'm feeling so alone right now. It's been several months now since I broke it off with my ex boyfriend, he was heavily into drink and drugs, emotionally abusive and once physically abusive. I stayed with him because of the good times - he could...

I am being emotionally blackmailed and harassed by my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I am being emotionally blackmailed, and harrassed by my recently ex boyfriend. We work together. I broke up with him a few weeks ago because i was interested in this other guy. My boyfriend and i were only going out 4 months, and it was more a fl...

My brain keeps hanging on to the past, how do I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Hey, thanks to anyone who reads this. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend about 4-5 months ago now and it's been a slow process moving on. I've had other girlfriends before her, but she was what I consider my first love. Although I think about he...

She left me and taken the kids to go out with a barely legal teen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - my 27 year old girlfriend has left me for a sixteen year old boy,we have two children together and two more from her previous relationship.im not sure if she see's a future with him or if she is having some sort of mid life crisis.she's drinking on ...

Did my constant questions push them back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I'm scared I can't get over him, after our split which was nearly 6 days ago, he's already moved on with going back to his ex having already slept with her, meeting her after work and stuff, so guess he's already moved on leaving me feeling really ...

Why did he break it off with me? It doesn't make sense.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I was seeing someone for 3 months, at first he was very attentive, calling texting every day/night. We worked together and he never wanted anyone to know we were seeing each other and he said he liked to keep his personal life private. He never in...

His porn hurt me so much, but I kept going back. How do I stay strong now I threw him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - dearcupid, because of my husband, i have put up with crystal meth and porn for seven years. about 2 years ago is when i started leaving. i have left my husband for those two reason many times, and at one point joined the army to get rid of him. ...

I've been through so much, will I ever be happy again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I'm looking for someone to help me through this stressful period in my life. I got out of a relationship a couple months ago, we dated for a good eight months. I loved him. I gave him my virginity. We went there hell and back together. Break...

We broke up two months ago, can't make the pain stop or go away, any support or ideas of moving on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - How long does it take for a broken heart to heal? Hurts so much and I cant make the pain stop or go away..I cant get her out of my mind.. I was with someone else for a night and all I though was of her and how guilty I felt..we broke up 2 months ...

I am majorly confused over his committment issues! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - He and I have spent a long time together, two years this month. He decided to move out two days ago. We've stayed together longer even got a place together. Throughout our time of getting back together, he would always talk about marriage. I was so ...

We broke up, mainly because of my actions, now a mutual friend wants to be my man. I feel scared to hurt my ex but also so happy, how can I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - ok i broke up wit my "ex" cuz things were never going well i done some things wrong didnt respect our relationship *** if u know what i mean *** cuz he was never paying attention and he just wouldnt care about anything important i had to say and ...

Still devastated with what this man did to me! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - my husband left me for another woman after 11 years of marriage. Worst of all its a woman we knew from our sons baseball team. I am still devastated at all the horrific things he's done to me since we separated. We have two kids, 10 and 2, and he ...