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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I was at my happiest with this boy. How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

15 October 2008 (?) - the only time in my life when i was truly happy and even that didnt work out , and i do not know why ! you see this lad that ive got history with just isnt leaving my head atm. in summer he liked me, ill admit it he grew on me, then that didnt work ...

Nearly 35, single and child-less - HELP!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hello there - I am typing this after yet another failed relationship! I am nearly 35 and can't seem to meet anyone to settle down with. I'm attractive, fun, have a wide circle of friends and generally love life, but after one failed relationship ...

Love him still and confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Ok so my first love and I broke up almost 11 years ago. I always have had him in the back of my mind...We both moved on. I never got married but have been living with someone and had children. We are about to separate. I recently got in touch with ...

She thinks I'm over sensitive to a lot of things...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - So I was with this girl for 2 years, we broke up for 4 months and have just recently started talking and being intimate, possibly getting back together. However there are some things coming up that bother me a lot. She thinks I'm over sensitive to a ...

On the road again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hope this is not the end. And although nothing has happened yet I would like a bit of insight. My boyfriend and I started originally as a long distance couple. He had ties to where I am..a few friends and his company's HQ were where I live. ...

He wants to get back with me but I don't know if it's wise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Me and my ex recently broke up one month ago, and I don't know exactly why. Me and him were together since before my freshman year in high school. But he hurt me so bad, and now he comes back to me, trying to get back together with me, I told him I ...

He broke up our long distance relationship and now I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of over 2 years just broke up with me a few weeks ago and I'm going crazy. Our entire relationship has been long distance.. but we made it work. We talked every night for two years and this summer he started going out with friends all ...

I don't want to get hurt by my ex again and feel we're getting too close.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Early last year me and the ex split up and two weeks later he started going out with another girl, claiming he wasn't ready for a relationship. He cheated on her a few times with me and broke up with her twice. We had a few fallings out but were ...

There's no sexul chemistry, am I right for wanting to take a break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I need advice, I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years to the day. He is an awesome person and he treats me like a queen, however I have never felt a strong chemistry with him, especially in the bedroom. Recently I met someone with whom I have a ...

How can I get over my abusive boyfriend without turning to alcohol?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I went to a friends place because i was worked up about my now ex because he beats up on me. My best friend had thought i needed a drink to clear my head and calm down. She gave me 4 shots and a couple of big glasses of alcohol 9 percenters. I got ...

My husband left me, had me arrested and now I have a restraining order on me and he has a new love!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - my husband left me 2 weeks ago.he has his own place that he never gave up the entire 2 years of our realtionship.anyway,i went over and went in without permission and although i didn't find proof of infidelity,i found out he had a pay increase by 4k ...

Does he want me or his girlfriend? He can't have both.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I ended things with my ex over a year ago, it was hard and hurt me, but I had to becasue he wouldn't commit to me, in the way I wanted him to. He wasn't happy, and asked if we could jsut carry on etc, etc, I couldn't do it, even though I still felt ...

Is it unreasonable of me to ask her to stop contacting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I went through a recent breakup. We were separated for several months. During this time she dated someone briefly. She denies it but I know she was very attached, if not in love, with this guy. He was involved with someone else ...

We've broken up, and he's moving to iraq for a year - will we have a chance when he comes back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hey there everyone! Well, me and my boyfriend broke up 5 weeks ago,( we argue alot over stupid staff) after dating for a 3 years. We still see euch other, go to dinner, he is telling me that he still loves me, but he just want to be firends with me. ...

We've broken up because we're different religions and she wants me to change...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - hello.._ im win.im a half japanese phil. im from japan.. im not good speaking english sorry if i will miss_ i need help;_; i have a problem right now.. and i dont know what to do... im very very sad... because of my girlfriend.. today we...

I've lost my faith in relationships. Are all men going to hurt me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have just got out of a relationship that lasted just under five years. We were extremely close, never ran out of things to talk about, loved spending time together, shared many interests and we always put each other first. Things were, as far as I ...

Whats your opinion on me kicking out my lazy, work shy, immature partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have several problems with my partner of 4 years, we have a child together, I have a son from a previous relationship and he has 4 other children from other relationships that don't live with him. One major problem is that he is irresponsible and ...

We split up 5 months ago but he won't move out!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I split with my boyfriend (and father of my 3 year old twins) 5 months ago after years of him lying and stealing from me but he still won't move out. Nothing has changed, I still do all the cooking and cleaning and look after the twins by myself, ...

Now that I am single and make a few stupid decisions does that make me a bad person?

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15 October 2008 (M) - I am 18 years old. Me and my ex girlfriend went out for 7 months, and it was the best 7 months of my life. Before her, I had not had sex before, she was my first. She had slept with 2 others before me. She broke up with me, and after that I was ...

How do I get out of a GOOD relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - im 18 years old and im dating a girl that is 17. We started dating 2 years ago as of march 3rd 08. ok so iv been dating her for a while as you can see and she is great. shes cute, kinda funny, sweet, and we have alot in common. she was ...

His porn viewing makes me feel like nothing!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

15 October 2008 (?) - hey my boyfriend looks at porn and lies about it and it makes me feel like nothing and not good enough and insecure and upset and it was going on for way to long so i broke up with him. if it is making me this upset is it right for him to continue ...

Should I just stop talking to this guy I met, online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I met a guy online and chatted for months before eventually meeting, we got on really well and met a few times. i am moving away with work (only a few hrs away), something he was aware of but he still met me. after meeting the last time i ...