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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

She's 'kinda seeing someone'...should I stay interested or just end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I met a girl a few weeks ago and really like her. I asked her out, she said she would love to go out, but she was kinda seeing someone. Understandably I was very disappointed, but a few days later she texted me a random "how you doin?", ever ...

After a whirlwind courtship, he suddenly decided to end it..what happened?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 57, female. I recently started dating a guy whom I met 40 yrs ago. He said he had the biggest crush on me when I was in high school, so we had a couple of dates and he said all the right things, we spent lots of time together...

I'm not sure I wnat to marry her. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - Okay you may remember me, the guy with the fiancee' with the visa. She wasn't sure if she wanted to marry and I didn't know what to do since we only have 90 days to marry. Well now that she is here she does want to be my wife and get married but ...

How come he used me and not her? How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I am really depressed and therefore i decided to open my heart to someone as this situation is totally eating me from inside...well last christmas i went for a holiday at a friends to improve my english and met this really great guy. at first i ...

Could I be prosecuted for this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I got in a relationship at the beginning of this year after we had been dating we started to do sexual things to each other a month later I myself turned 16 but we didn't stop our sex life. A couple of days ago we fell out and my partner's parent...

A year on and I can't get over my gay boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I am gay, had a boyfriend for 4 years - I went away for a year and when I got back things weren't the same at all - we had totally grown apart, so I ended it. It's now been 7 months and all I can do is think about him - I think about him each and ...

Why is my boyfriend's mate saying he loves me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hey, I need help. I have been dating my recent boyfriend for 11 months and am very happy with him, however recently we had a stupid argument and split up for a couple of days. During those couple of days one of his best mates started texting ...

Help! should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - help! should i take him back? I broke up with my ex 2 months ago, and still can't get him out of my head and love him to pieces, we where together for a year, then he decided to steal my jewellery worth thousands and sell it, to pay a debt off h...

I'm worried I'm missing out on something huge this weekend.....or do I really wanna jsut bump into the ex?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My prob sounds a bit silly but its getting me down!! Ok, theres a big event on saturday night which EVERYONE is going to except me. My ex, his new gf, my mates and basically everyone is going. I cant go cos tickets have sold out and couldnt go even ...

Now that I've let him go, will he come back to me after we spend some time apart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - hello everyone, ive been having trouble dealing with my recent breakup. two months ago my ex broke up with me out of the blue because he said he felf 'disconnected' from me and that the distance between us was too much (im going to a university in ...

I miss company after I broke up with my boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - hi im finding my life at the moment really hard,when i was with my boyfriend i was constently out with him or over his house or talking to him on the phone,where now i hardly go out, hardly talk to him and i hate not sharing a bed with anyone, ...

Possessive boyfriend that makes no sense!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have recently broken up but he seems to be really possesive over me. He always checks my texts and my phone call list to see who i've been talking to. When im out he'll call me up to see who im with and where i am. One day he'l...

Am I being stupid by making all the effort?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi me and my boyfriend have been split up for about 8 weeks and hes now involved with someone else anyway we agreed to try and stay mates even tho the girl hes now involved with dosent like me one bit, so he says for me to ring him which i do but t...

Is he just trying to keep me sweet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - HELLO guys A bit of a problam hear after spliting with my guy so he can go back to his ex the mother of his child, he said we could stay mates and that he would really like to, but not sure if she would let him be friends with me, He cheated ...

'They're not together but spending time together' - what does he mean by that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi everyone im new to this posting stuff so bear with me, Basically around 2 weeks ago i split with with my guy over the fact he couldnt gt over his ex he always had to see her because of the child they have together, anyway he said we can still be...

Based on her past - can I trust her? Can she trust me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I'm 27, she's 23. We met six years ago and had a beautiful baby girl three years later while she was in her last year of high school. A year later we split up because of differences and infedelity on both our parts. The fight was so huge that both ...

Should I get a divorce or stick it out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I have been considering a divorce for some time (years). My husband and I have been together for almost seven years and he has a son from a previous "one night stand" that we see often because of me. He lives on the other side of the country, but ...

I want to get over him so badly but don't know how! Help, need some advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - im very upset at the moment over some guy..we were kind of together for about a month..we just hadnt made it official yet. he even said he loved me and how much he liked me..but then things changed and i was basically just his booty call for about 4 ...

Everyone wants me to divorce him, but I love him so much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid , My name is Randee, I married a 42 year old man when i was only 18, and everybody wants me to get divorced. But i love him too much, we also had a baby together. He also did drugs. What should i do?...

I'm confused and I really need you to help me decide what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend sometimes seems like when were not hanging out, it seems like he doesn't like me. Like when we talk on the computer (I know sometimes you can't really tell how people mean to say things) but on the computer, he seems mad at me or like ...

Should I give him back his ring?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - okay this is going to sound REALLY dumb after my last post I just did... but my bf of 9 months dumped me last night.. He didn't even have the courage to tell me in person, or even through a phone call! He did it over texting, around midnight...