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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

He told me he did not love me anymore and I am heartbroken.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I was married for 10 years and have 3 boys. I left my husband a year and a half ago and the boys too. I met my boyfriend a few weeks before I left my husband. Our marriage was already over long before this. It was instant attraction. I was falling ...

Why do I still feel jealous when he flirts or looks interested in another lass??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - ahh omg just really confused i dont understand why i feel this way, i should'nt feel like this. Well supose i better get to the point. right well my ex and i broke up over 1 month ago now, and i have a new bf, but my ex still loves me and wants me...

What made the matter worse...he cheated on me twice!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My husband sent text messages to my sister before as if he's courting her. I confronted him and he said it was just a joke and no big deal. Recently, he played "Peeping Tom" to my youngest sister. What would I do? I'm thinking of leaving him, but...

Should I walk away or should I wait? Is there any insight into my madness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - i dated a girl for about 2 1/2 years and we broke up about 3 months ago. we broke up because she found out that i had cheated on her. she asked me about it one day and i confessed everything. i know you are immediately thinking that i am an assh...

3 weeks ago my partner and I split up and I'm going mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Help me I'm going mad, after my 3 week split with my partner, well let's just say he has a new woman, basically I know that they are seeing each other but are not in a relationship yet just seeing how things are going. Anyway about 3 hours ago I ...

He wants to make another go of it with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi people Having just got off the phone to my ex we split on Thursday he said he's gone back to his ex, the mother of his daughter, she already has a daughter from a another ex and he said to me that he would like to stay mates she won't let him ...

Should I STAY with my boyfriend even though it's not fair on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I had a really rough weekend, there was this party and it turned up really wrong. Friend invited some boys, there was alcohol and I ended up sleeping with one of them, twice. 30 mins after crying about my boyfriend. He doesn't live in UK, so we ...

She's decided to give away what seemed to me to be a blossoming relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of nearly a year told me a bit over a week ago that she was leaving me as she'd accepted a job in the country after going on a trip, and she's leaving in a few weeks. It was a very big shock to me as we had honestly been getting on ...

What do I say to tell him I really DO want to break up with him for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I split up with my boyfriend about a week ago today because I needed space and he keeps texting me every day and it's starting to feel like he's smothering me. I asked him to wait for me while I sort my head out and now I think I have come to ...

Should I meet up to put "closure" on things like he's asking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi all.. I posted this question a few weeks ago http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-i-can-make-things-work.html Well now, thing is that my (ex) lover and I had a very productive conversation recently (over the phone) and we go...

What if he wants to get back with me... should I say yes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi all Bit of help please, me and my boyfriend split last week. He's saying he still had strong fellings for his ex, and that he liked me but didn't love me after 9 months together, thing is she's still with her current boyfriend. My ex and her ...

I am so insecure about "down there" after he asked me this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Sorry if this is graphic but I have always been a little uncomfortable with myself in that area but now I am so self consious about sex!! My "lips" are large, especially the right side and they are a darkish color, like gray/purplish. My now ex ...

What do I need to do, to make things right again? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My now-fiancée and I have been together for 4 1/2 years (We broke up one time for 6 months – back in 05) So actually only 4 years together. We had taken a couple small breaks in the past, but within the past year, we have stayed together and things ...

Is it wrong for me to just want to walk away? Has he changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I've been in a live-in relationship for three years. In year 2 I became depressed and thought I was losing my mind and I realized just recently that it was because I was in a bad situation. My partner asked me to stop drinking out of respect ...

I'm an emotional basketcase here! Need advice on how to recup from this break up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - I'm in an emotional mess and slowly moving on from for all I know, the messiest break up that I have ever heard of happening to anyone. I'm in a doctorate program in a small college town meaning my society of friends are extremely small. Being a f...

She says she's showing signs of a pregnancy and is threatening to sue me for child support! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - I thought I had feelings for a girl but I realized that I didn't after we got naughty in the car. However she was telling me that she was on birth control and that I shouldn't have to worry about it. I didn't ejaculate at all during intercourse and ...

Why does my ex bf insist on causing me misery..after he dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Why does my ex insist on making me feel miserable after HE DUMPED ME? He keeps insulting me and calling me names, I already have a very low self esteem and this only makes matters worse. He already dumped me because he said he was fed up with me, ...

He accused me of stealing money from him! How do I get past all this?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a man for two years. We recently broke up after he accused me of stealing money from him. Keep in mind I have handled thousands for him and this is over $100.00. He is an alcoholic and has become out of control. During the past 2 ...

I slapped him and he left me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I lived with my boyfriend for more than 3 years. For the period of time we lived together I am always the one initiate sex. I'm always hurt when he postoned to make love to me, coz he is always busy playing cards or playing with his Xbox. I know he ...

A boy I liked a lot, broke up with me, now likes my best friend, what do I do noe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi . Yeaa Im young , believe me i know it , but it seems lately that everything i hope for and anything that makes me happy , suddenly goes wrong for no apparent reason , i feel like im not meant to be happy :( I recently dated a boy that i reall...