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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I want him to have the freedom he needs but also for us to spend quality time together too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and 4 days ago he split up with me. The main reason for this is because of a problem that has plagued our relationship for a long time. He works away from home Monday to Friday. This means our ...

After 25 years, it is really over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Two weeks ago I came home from work and my husband told me he was leaving me, he had met someone at work and had been seeing her for the previous six months , he had packed his bags while I was at work. We had just celebrated our 25th wedding ...

She found it weird having a relationship with me as we were good friends before that, so she finished with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Hi I'm 16, I had a relationship with a girl who I think is amazing. She's funny, smart, gorgeous and has a personality to die for, but we broke up because she found it wierd as we were close friends before we started going out. I didn't find the ...

I am beginning to think that fate really does exist and departed loved ones really could be there watching over us and protecting us...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - The other week after being told by my girlfiend by text that it was over I drove for 2 hours to see her to try and speak to her to sort things out (mistake no.1) As she was ignoring all my messages and calls before I just turned up I messaged he...

Help me break up with him AGAIN... please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Kay , well ive been dating this guy for a year now and he wants to get married ... and im only 18 ! I cant get married !!!! Dont get me wrong ! I love him and everything but like Crap .... i need to focus on my life . AND ive already broken up...

How can she be so cold? Could I win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - About three months ago, I was madly in love with this girl I worked with. Turns out it was unrequitted. Beut, nether-the-less I still tried to get her. I sent her a valentine card and everything. Well, eventually she left, and I gave her a necklace ...

I feel he is having second thoughts about a relationship as he has become most distant and angry over nothing apparent.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I have recently split with my partner of one year. I am quite upset by this yes, however his best friend told me that he would be interested in starting a relationship with me. Having had strong feelings for him in the past I said I would be most ...

How to tell my ex that I want to get back together? He said it was my attitude and my arguing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - i finally broke up with him...we thought i was pregnat, i'm not..ok..so the same day i found out..i wanted to have sex, he was scared...which i could see where he was coming from, but his whole attitude had been changing...now...its like i miss him ...

Is this a definitive break-up or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - My partner is 27 years older and we have been together almost 2 years. Until a few months ago everything seemed to be as perfect as life can be. We were so much in love we wanted to live and spend the rest of our lives together. But since 3 months ...

Is it ever right to leave your husband for a new love? Or do I have to work on fixing my marriage to be 'right'?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I think I'm falling out of love with my husband of 12 years and in love with this man at work... Checked out advice everyone gives in such cases and the overwhelming majority says 'work on your marriage, forget the other man, it's just a crus...

How can I feel alive again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I was with my children husband for 26 y/rs I left him 1 1/2 yr ago. The relationship was abusive and he the past few yrs was diagnosed bipolar. I know I did the right thing to leave and so do my children. Last yr I quit my nursing career due to the ...

How can I change her mind about not seeing me anymore. I think I was too slow to propose!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - My partner (36 yo - I'm 39 yo) of 3 years just broke off with me again (4th time). She said she was "settling", was quite firm, said for me to make no contact and that we could no longer be friends. However, she said I ticked all the right boxes ...

How can I forget my ex, he was my first love and my fiance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - i broke up with my ex for about 3 months now and he was my first boyfriend. We were engaged and everything! but its over and im seeing someone else but i cant get over him... is it really true you'll never forget your first? i mean when im having ...

I wanted some closure - but do you think he thinks I want him back now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Does my ex think I'm trying to get him back? I broke up with my ex a year ago. Shortly after the breakup i changed my phone number so he would stop harassing me. He was emailing me up until July-so i changed my email in July. Well, on Saturday i ...

He tells me he's tired of me and my children, he treats me like a roommate now - but I don't want him to leave, I'm so miserable what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I'll try to make my story short. I have been living with my boyfriend for two years. He is younger than me. I am 25 and he is 23. I have children but they're not his. When we first got together everything was great. It all started because he wanted ...

I am bisexual and have a husband and a girlfriend - the problem is I am not attracted to my girlfriend and never really was. Now I don't know how to end it without causing pain - any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I'm in my 40's, married to a husband who encourages and supports my bisexuality. I have a girlfriend who is also married. The problem is that I have never been physically attracted to her because she is older than me and looks more like my mom than ...

I want her back more then anything in this world, even after shes hurt me like this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - K so where to begin.... me and my ex dated for a while and we were both in love and she truely was and so was i but i didnt show it enough, and one day we got in a huge fight and i said really mean shit , that i didnt mean. anyways we broke up for...

I want her to be with me but I don't know what to do or say. She feels we're drifting apart. Help please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - I'm 14 years old, my girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now. She told me just yesterday that she feels we're "Drifting Apart". She doesn't know what's happening or what we can do to help it. I love her so much and she says she ...