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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need to get over my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi so I wanna know how to get I've my ex. Ok long story shirt we were together for a couple months and we just recently broke up. He was sooo annoying towards me and my friends. None of my friends liked him and wanted me to break up with him I did but I didn't do it cuz my ... (169 words)

My ex boyfriend now claims he wants to be friends but I don't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago but at school he always stares at me and i'm trying to get over him but it's impossible bcoz he told me that he lied to me so many times and i dont rlly know how to handle it. what should i do? he said we should be friends but i don't wa... (80 words)

Has taking the hormone balancing pills done this to me? Have I gradually killed my sex drive this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship problem, but I'm curious about it anyway. Back when I was 18, I started taking a women's hormone balancer. I did this because I always felt I had more body hair than I should, my chest was underdeveloped, and I had an extremely high sex drive. So I ... (482 words)

I'm in love with her but she won't choose me over the other guy in her life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I will not take your much of time so lets start with my problem. I'm in love with a girl. Its been 3 years since I fell in love with her. I'm 22 years old and she is 20 years. I know her because we are family friends. So the story starts. One day I was trying to sleep ... (925 words)

Why aren't Christian guys ever interested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a second-year student at university and I converted to Christianity in my first year here. I've never really been the type to "sleep around" and don't want sex before marriage, and I'd prefer dating someone who shared my religious beliefs, too, but none of the Christian ... (364 words)

I'm depressed. I had an abortion 2 years ago and still haven't gotten over it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Two years ago I had an abortion. I don't agree with abortions, and I didn't want to at the time but my parents wanted me to and my boyfriend at the time was cheating on me with my friend. I really regret what I did, there isn't a day that goes by that I don't wish it hadn't ... (320 words)

I'm married and still in love with my boyfriend. How do I forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - what i do i m married n still loving my old boy friend amit raj but he rejeced me, i did marry because i was no options in my life but i dont love my husband i found hes greedy of my money n name n fame. i made his career but i want divorce i m hungry of sex. for time pass i ... (97 words)

Don't have a boyfriend and it's depressing me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had one my entire life. I've always been very ambitious and hard-working, and I have high standards regarding guys, but the type of guys I fall for always seem to have girlfriends or just aren't interested in me. They're also really rare (I go for personality and not ... (119 words)

My boyfriend seems obsessed with his low-life loser friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age - my boyfriend of 10 years recently got together with a friend he went to high school with. This "friend" Mark, cheats on his girl, hits on everything that walks (embarrasing - he is such a loser)and encourages my boyfriend to cheat (boyfriend says he does not). I can't stand ... (143 words)

Do guys like fake boobs if a girl practically has no boobs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I started losing weight about 2 years ago, now I am a gym rat but my boobs are getting smaller, I have gone from 36b to 34a. My sister who's 19 has bigger boobs than me! I'm 25. I got a nice tax return and will be in miami in 3 months,I'm seriously considering gett... (263 words)

I'm tired of being judged about my lifestyle

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all i just need some opinions so here we go im a 23 year old girl who was in a relationship with a guy a year younger than i. we had a baby together and he did not step up to the plate to be a good dad. just a typical dead beat, yes he love his baby but just could not keep ... (300 words)

Girlfriend accepted an offer to go for a drink with another guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

18 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Basically, my girlfriend works and there is a shop she visits everyday on her breaks. A new guy has been working there for a while till the end of the month and she was telling me there is a little flirting when she sees him. Anyway, one random day he asked her if she... (207 words)

Difficulty with intercourse

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My Vagina is too small and penis not getting in to this. When try to push it feeling burning sensation. Kindly suggest what should I do now.. ... (29 words)

How do you handle being around someone who doesn't like you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a relationship question but what I would like to talk about is how to deal with being around someone who doesn't like you/you don't like them. I usually get along with people and when I find out that someone doesn't like me it really does bother me and make... (201 words)

Disturbed Husband sleep with the alarm to drop of my Brother at work and I got sworn at!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My brother totaled his car recently, occasionally i would give him a ride to work as he have be at work for 6:00am. This morning my husband was obviously annoyed when my clock alarm at 5:am, when i returned home he starting yelling at me and telling me that he is tired because ... (119 words)

Does these questions mean something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is he asking me all these questions? Is weird? So I was hanging out with this cute guy that I've liked for months now. and he said I'm very mysterious, why am I like that? I said to him I don't know. He'd just have to figure it out once he gets to know me. He s... (179 words)

BF friend is begining to threaten my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I really hope I don't sound immature here but what I'm dealing with is I feel like I'm in competition with one of my boyfriends female friends. She is always trying to get my boyfriends attention and is always trying to talk to him. I even think she intenti... (362 words)

BF cheated, took him back but cant get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been in a relationship with the love of my life, but with every relationship there is a problem, he kept me a secret for 3 years and always had time for his ex he would never contact me when she was around and told me that she was just really close to his dad. I was young ... (356 words)

He says he's straight but I think he might be bi-curious

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

18 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a bi guy and I like this other guy who says he is straight, but I think he is a little bi-curious. The reason for me saying that is when we used to text each other he would always request gay porn pics to help him masturbate. We even have shared nude pics of each ot... (167 words)

How do you leave a step child that is 5, but the relationship is a dead end

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age - How do I leave my stepchild, who is just 5 years old and adores me? I just can't take any more. My relationship and life are terrible. Partner isn't violent or drunk or anything, it's just all the controlling and weirdness. His brother hates me. Partner works with his ... (250 words)

Caught boyfriend in a lie, should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (M) age 36-40 - I just found out that my boyfriend bought a Fleshlight and lied to me about it. I have no problem with him having one, it's not an issue. I do have a problem that he lied about what he got in the mail. I understand he was probably too embarrassed to come out and tell me what... (359 words)

Thought my GF broke up with me, but was wrong and now she is acting funny

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - okay , so I broke up with my girlfriend because I got told she was cheating but it was all a rumor so we got back together but she doesn't acted like she wants to be with me , like she only holds my hand in the car , or in the house and I feel she don't wanna be with me like ... (71 words)

Experimenting SEX, and I am Virgin

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay, I'm 13 and I'm a girl and my girlfriend is 15 she tells me she wants me to get a toung ring so I can eat her out . But were BOTH virgins nd I feel that I should finger her first befor I eat her out but I don't know how to tell her or know if she wants me to ?. I need ... (109 words)

Competitive friend that destroys me emotionally

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I have a friend that I have known since I was 10 and when we were little we were very good friends. She has always been a little jealous of me but loves me at the same time if you know what I mean? We are now 30 and we have always stayed in touch. We live in differen... (503 words)

Have I done the right thing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

18 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Basicaly me and my girlfriend have had what i would call a little lovers tiff. We recently celebrated our 1 year aniversary of dateing but i have noticed that her attitutude has changed. She lives a busy life with work, her studies,Pets,Family,our relationship and starting... (296 words)

GF sister keeps making a pass at me, HELP

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

18 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 30 my girlfriend is 22 we got a good relationship but her sister keeks hitting on me the more she dose the more i think about it but she is 14 help me... (35 words)

He still thinks I'm a virgin, but I had a horrible experience losing it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So this guy and I were dating and then he just fell off the face of the earth for a month. He was just so busy etc. So I moved on and met someone new. I met this great guy in the beginning of the month. Things were perfect. So one night this guy and I were fooling around over ... (223 words)

BF cheating with his EX, Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend confessed to me that he took his ex home to northridge yesterday when i ask him when was this he change the subject on me than he told me it was last wk. i think he is cheating with her please help.... (44 words)

The Cheating young Husband and an older wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age - I have been with my husband for four and a half years he has cheated 3 times and treats me like crap, will his cheating ever stop, is it my fault? He is 25 and I am 50.... (40 words)

I use plenty of lube but still bleed after anal

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am male and I am straight but like to do anal with a dildo when I'm jerking off but every time after I bleed a little and I use plenty of lube is this ok?... (36 words)

I feel threatened that my g/f has a new best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years now, and it's been a roller coaster at times. We're at the point where we're arguing a lot... way too much actually due to my sensitivity, her oversensitivity and my insecurities. She admits the insecurities are ... (188 words)

I still think my ex is the one for me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

18 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I still love my ex-girlfriend and I feel like she's the one for me! But I don't know if she love's me back. She made me feel like I belonged in this world and no other girl hasmade me feel like that ever. What should I do???... (47 words)

I'm so frustrated! I have no sex drive at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so frustrated. I've been married for 13 years and have 4 children. I'm only 32, but hate sex and don't know why. I love my husband and we are very happy, but over the last year I have no sex drive at all. I have sex with him, just to make him happy. It's not that it ... (99 words)

We never get a minute to have fun together because his grandmother always interrupts!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age - I am a early fifties female that works in a beauty shop, for 5 years now. I met a younger male there 4 years ago that brings his 82 year old Grandmother to the shop. We became casual friends. He lives with his grandmother to help her out, and does her laundry, grocery shopping, ... (1243 words)

Do I ask him back after breaking up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i had this boyfriend ..we dated last year then we broke up, then we tried it again this year but he was spending time with this girl ... and in class he would laugh and talk to her and we dont talk much in class so it got me to thinking something and friends of mines ... (391 words)

I'm 19 and my parents wont allow me to date my boyfriend who is 8 years older than me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I just need to vent a little and am hoping to hear some others' inputs on the situation. I am 19 years old and am in college, but I am staying at home with my parents. I work part time and help pitch in with bills (not much but as much as I can do with what little I make), pay ... (809 words)

Why did my ex burn every bridge possible during the break up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex-boyfriend burned so many bridges during the break up. For example taking expensive furniture, not paying my grandpa his $1500 back, called the landlord on me, took my computer knowing I'm a student,and he cut my cell phone off. Only for me to find out a month later he ... (88 words)

Her husband is trying to make up with her -- should I let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl online locally, she been married for 3 years. Husband cheated on her and hit on her, lied to her, and made her feel less of a woman. We met up, and talked, and found a connection. Eventually we kinda hooked up telling each other we love each other. One day she ... (100 words)

I`m bisexual and married and am deceiving a good hearted lesbian.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I`m a bisexual married woman and have fallen in love with a woman who`s a lesbian. She doesn`t know I`m bisexual or married. She`s fallen in love with me as well because she tells me all the time. The thing is I`ve never told her I`m in love with her because I`ve strung her ... (238 words)

How do I make the most of being single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and in my second year at college; I've got a good social life, but I often get depressed because I'm single and I've never had a boyfriend before. I spend loads of time with others, but I feel like I've seen everything there is to see about being single. I could get in... (211 words)

Precautions for Recieving Oral if Prone to Urinary Tract Infections?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been talking about taking our relationship a bit further. He is a bit older than me and knows that I want to take things slow and wait on full out sex. I'm still a virgin, but he's pretty experienced. The other night he told me that he'd like to go down ... (283 words)

He tells me he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex wih my friends brother. I have known him over 10 years. At the beginning there was some kind of attraction between us, but my friend, his sister didn't want us to get together. So I remained friends with her brother for 10 years. My friend moved to another cou... (405 words)

I hesitate to move to his location because I question his commitment to our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. (I am 28 yrs old and he's 38) It's only an hour flight so we have been seeing each other like twice a month the past four months. I recently lost my job - my contract was not renewed because the company I wo... (405 words)

Its been a week and he hasn't kissed me yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age - so me and my boyfriend been going out for about a week and by then he would have kissed his girlfriend or hug them but he doesn't do that to me and i am extremely nervous my stomach plunges when i see him i have no clue if he feels the same way but i wish he does also we ... (77 words)

Three communicable diseases hold me back from dating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so i have a dilemma. Im 29 and consider myself good looking n a great catch for someone but i have hep c from past drug use n i also have mrsa that sometimes reoccurs mildly and my ex gf cheated on me 3 years ago n got hpv n than gave it to me so thats 3 diseases i carry. Im ... (219 words)

What can I do to improve our communication?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is very introverted and internalizes his feelings quite a bit. He's had many girlfriends in the past, even an ex-finace. He hasn't told me loves me, which I attribute to a lot of relationships and a lot of bad relationships that he has mentioned, and that, for him, ... (215 words)