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writes:My ex-boyfriend burned so many bridges during the break up. For example taking expensive furniture, not paying my grandpa his $1500 back, called the landlord on me, took my computer knowing I'm a student,and he cut my cell phone off. Only for me to find out a month later he cheated and left me for someone else. I don't understand why he went out his way to burn bridges. When he could have just left in peace. Not to mention we were together four and half years. Why?
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (18 April 2013):
 HiSounds like the actions of either a very nasty and bitter man or a nutjob.Either way your well shot of him, he clearly pulled the wool over your eyes for over four years.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (18 April 2013):
 It can be frustrating to view the actions of another person through your eyes and filter those actions through your brain.... along with the morals and expectations that you have of others.
There's no accounting for what he did..... AND, it's clearly unjustifiable (specifically; not re-paying a loan (if he was so obligated), and taking "stuff" out of proportion)..... That said.....
Are we to understand that, through four and a half years (the duration of your "relationship") you NEVER saw anything - he never did anything - that gave you a hint that this was a part of him??????
Put this unpleasant experience behind you and move on in life....
Good luck...
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reader, CMMP +, writes (18 April 2013):
He's a crazy asshole?
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