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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I make my partner be checked for STD before having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I'm 15 years old and I was thinking about the future. I'm not planning to have sex anytime soon, but when I am ready, I wanna make sure I'm being safe. I was wondering if it would be weird if I make my future partner have an STD check before we have sex? I mean, if ... (92 words)

He's pursued me for 2 years. Could he really be head over heels for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm looking for some male perspective. I have been pursued for in excess of two years by a man. He tells me how beautiful I am and how I am the woman of his dreams. I recently ended a five year relationship, and have considered dating this man. Do you feel that a man ... (169 words)

Is it wrong to get naughty on chat roulette with strangers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to get naughty with strangers over Chat Roulette? My boyfriend has been gone for a few weeks overseas, and I have been very bored and lonely. I would never cheat on my partner, but lately I have been masturbating with men on Chat Roulette. I like the anonymit... (63 words)

When is a woman at her sexual peak?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age - When is a women's sexial prime... (6 words)

No sex in 5 months! How do I bring him back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im dating someone and i havent have sex with him for five months now.What can i do to bring him back to me?... (23 words)

Possible move from nyc to cali without boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am looking for some advice... I have been a new yorker for 6 years and have loved my experience here and all the city has to offer. I moved here from graduate school from the south and left all of my friends and family behind. After 6 years of city life, I am ready for a... (554 words)

My son isn't exactly discreet in his masturbation habits

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My son (16) steals my unders and we talked but I have not talked or to my husband about him putting things in his hind end while he does this. That bothers me so should I worry? It's been a lot of house hold items I unfortunately have picked up to find them nasty..... Now ... (62 words)

What guy wants an insecure fat girl when he can have a beautiful skinny girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I am quite embarrassed to post my situation here, but I would like to get opinions about my problem. I am 19 years old and being completely honest here, I have never had a boyfriend or even a good guy friend for that matter. I am also overweight. I understand how b... (410 words)

I have a terrible fear of my parents dying and losing them, how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3677 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone. I have been debating whether or not to ask this question because I think people may find it silly, However, it's a problem I have been having for a while and I thought I might as well ask and see what answers I get. Thank you in advance for your answers. I'm ... (253 words)

B/f broke up with me unexpectedly..he's having fun and I'm miserable and jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently broke up with me out of nowhere. We were "that" couple and everything was great. We connected emotionally, mentally and physically. We talked about our future and what we wanted out of life, and everything was the same. I'm 26 and he is turning 30 in two ... (272 words)

Is a rebound relationship a good idea? He is my new Bf after my recent breakup. My new Bf recently also broke up with his former Gf.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend of three years. About a month ago and I kept joking to one of my guy friends, who is also a friend of my boyfriend, about going on a rebound Then a few days ago when I went over to his place to do some revision, and we did for a bit Bu... (250 words)

Should I comply with an offer from my wife's friend with full approval from my wife to impregnate her friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

6 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay! Here we go! My wife and I and our two young children are going to return to my wife's native country (not to be mentioned here) for a visit this spring and summer for about a month for me; she and the kids will stay a little longer. My wife has told me that her friend, ... (303 words)

Did my g/f starve herself to lose weight that quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Is this even realistic, obviously my girlfriend did this but i'm struggling to believe she didn't take dangerous risks and damage her health. Only 10 days ago was she a bit bigger, then today I saw her and she had clearly lost weight! Significantly obvious, her arms and leg... (269 words)

Does this staring contest mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I caught this girl staring at me last week and when I caught her she didn't look away so I kept looking until she did. I won that staring contest. then yesterday I was listening to my music and doing my work in art and I was just zoning out in my own world. I looked up in her ... (126 words)

I can't help the negative feelings I have about my boyfriends mother...what can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Me and my boyfriend have been together for four years now. We love each other very much; we live together, we have so much in common and I just love being with him. We have our ups and downs like any relationship, sure, but we're really close and I think we have ... (892 words)

I don't think I want a boyfriend anymore, I just want to be alone for awhile. How can I tell my boyfriend this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my dad has just passed out recently and my boyfriend has been supportive and all that but I just feel like I d0nt need him in my life anymore.i wanna be alone not being involve with anyone is the way I feel normal or not coz I have been moody around him and he surely doesnot ... (98 words)

Our breakup was due to unfortunate circumstances, but now I want him back! Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Can you win back an ex-boyfriend that broke up with you after a year? I really want to go to his house and explain that I'm still in love with him and that his reasons (problems with distance; my parents dislike for him) are no longer applicable? But this is this really c... (136 words)

Who should I choose - my friend or my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey so I need help choosing between my friend and my boyfriends. Ok so my friend he is jelouse with me and my boyfriend and he is always telling me to break up with him. Now I kinda had a tiny crush on him but I don't really know. My boyfriend never really hangs out with me but ... (178 words)

Where can I meet some country boys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Where can you meet actual country boys to date? Like boys that have trucks, work on farms, and like country music; and talk with southern drawls? Do they exist?... (29 words)

I rejected him, and now I feel like I've lost a friend. How can I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I've met this guy at the beginning of my senior year. At first I just thought of him as a great friend because we always hang out together in groups and had a great time. Aside from that we would talk on the phone for hours at night, the conversation never ends. B... (441 words)

How could I contact an old teacher of mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this may sound a silly question but its been bugging me for a while. How would I contact and old teacher? He is now a head teacher in another school and on the school website it only gives a email address for the admin of the school. Iv tried searching for him on google and ... (84 words)

She's not over the pain of what I did. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ex finally started talking to me after 2 months NC. I hurt her really badly and destroyed her self-esteem. Obviously she missed me so much that she decided to stop ignoring me, but she is being really mean and cold towards me. I'm trying my best to be nice and make her feel ... (120 words)

Bi male and attracted to my straight male best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20-year bi male and my straight best friend is also 20. He doesn't know I'm bi. We are close, have been best buds for almost 10 years now. I hate to say this, but I am sorta attracted to him and he is quite attractive. He also has a girlfriend, btw. Every time I si... (207 words)

A 3 year dead end relationship. Should I end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, here is my situtation and i am finally here and ask for help. background: i am 23, graduating in college in may, he is 49 yr old,college graduated, never married no kids and has a 9-5 job(not rich at all, i am saying that just because i do not want people think i am here ... (429 words)

Why do I keep on forgiving her broken promises?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

6 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months almost and gave me a promise ring before her car broke down. Then her kids got sick and then she got a terrible flu. And she told me before that wants to marry me someday. But this week she told me she will be there fo... (163 words)

Why does he always need to turn his phone off? Is he cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend went to vegas with his friends but when ever i txt him he tells me he needs to turn his phone off could he be cheating on me his pregnant girlfriend please help.... (36 words)

Dating for 2 months. Three weeks ago told him I think I'm pregnant. Now he's ignoring me. Worse, now I think he might be married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid ; i have been seeing this guy at work for 2 months and I think i'm pregnant by him. Told him 3 weeks ago that I think I'm pregnant. But i think he is married. He hasn't touched me and we haven't made love since i told him i was pregnant 3 weeks ago. ... (60 words)

Before I grew up I did wild stuff; he wants a threesome

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I was telling my boyfriend of 7 months about my semi-wild past. I've had one night stands and threesoms before, even hooked up with a hand full of girls. Those days are gone, I've grown up and gained self respect for myself. He, on the other hand, has only been with two ... (149 words)

My family do not love me for who I am. Should I talk this over with my friends? How can I get my family to love me for being me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I feel like my family doesn’t love me. My parents Love their two older children. Yet me? But not when it comes to me as well. When I'm myself they seem so disappointed and I don't know what to do. They say I act Like a 5 year old having a tantrum. I just want them to be ... (224 words)

If she liked me so much, why haven't I heard anything from her? Why hasn't she replied??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently met a girl and she seemed really into me. She was constantly coming into my place of work and speaking to me whenever she had the chance. On one occasion a friend of hers had to physically drag her out and away from me! My boss was constantly watching disappro... (279 words)