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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He wants a sexual relationship even though he's with the other girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my child's dad hated each other or at least we argued a lotand couldn't get along.... now we talking like two friends,,laughing,,joking,,competing over funny but dumb stuff... he still has this girl he only knew for 6 months vs our 6yrs and I still feel angry about how ... (137 words)

After getting back with the Ex-GF you always had feelings for...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am getting back with my ex-girlfriend after 2 years of her dating some jerk. It really bothers me, that she broke up with me..and then went out with him. She didn't break up with me because of him, I"m sure of this. Should I bring it up? Like.."why him?" I know I'... (89 words)

I like him, we've kissed, but it ever seems to go anywhere

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive known a guy for the last four years, we became quite close friends during school. Theres always been something between us, but he had a girlfriend for most of the time so it was always innocent flirting. Since he broke up with her a few months ago, a few times at parties ... (197 words)

When the breakup comes should I ask him to return the gift?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - On Christmas I went way overboard and bought my boyfriend a very expensive gift. A bit over $300. I know. But I'm young and stupid and I guess it's one of those mistakes that when I'm older I'll look back and tell myself "well, that was ridiculous", specially because by Chris... (316 words)

Joke on our parents didn't go over too well

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and a friend of mine have done a very bad thing. Basically my mom and his mom work together and they have wanted us to get together, and we don't want to, which annoys us, but they keep going on about it. One time when he came over for homework during the weekend when the... (195 words)

My brother is reacting badly to the divorce -- how can I help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I was hoping I could get some advice on helping my brother deal with divorce. He separated 2 weeks ago, but he is worrying our whole family. He seems like he has lost all hope and all his will power. We have been talking as much as we can and making sure he always has company, ... (241 words)

If this is how he's going to parent I don't want any more kids with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how many married men out there are like my husband but it keeps me up at night weather or not there is and if those men are still happily married or still married at all to there wives. I've been married for 2 years now and my husband and I have a soon to be one ... (490 words)

I cheated- He still wanted us to stay together but he calls me names and says he'll never marry me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I had cheated on my boyfriend 2 years into our relationship with an ex who I thought I was over with but I wasn't.After cheating I realized that what I had done was wrong in which I had told my boyfriend about it the next day.He was upset but we remained together.I realized ... (128 words)

So I went out on a limb with my crush and did the following

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a female also......if a woman made a special effort to do a complete 360 turn around while she was busy with customers just to say hi to you and give you the biggest cheesest smile showing all 32 teeth, how would take that? there were 15 folks behind you and she didnt ... (589 words)

Concerned about my Dad's health

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not really sure if this is the right place to ask this, so sorry if it's not! Basically, I'm really worried about my dad. His dad, granddad AND uncle all suffered from debilitating strokes at around 55, that left them disabled for life. They all developed diabetes around a... (273 words)

How can I make the best out of a bad situation? I'm worried I'm going to be depressed in my new house next year...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice on how to make the best of a bad situation, I've not dealt with something like this before so please don't judge me on what i'm about to say... I've lived in halls this year at university and now we're moving into a house for our second year. The problem is t... (370 words)

Should I date him? I'm worried he might be the jealous type....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Im wondering whether to date this bloke or not. Basically we been talking for some time and we text most days he seems nice enough he even wrote me a very sweet poem the other day! But we have yet to meet Only problem is he seems the jealous type. Whenever i get a message ... (151 words)

Why does my bf want me to use a vibrator when I have never enjoyed having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello I haven't had sex with my bf yet and he told me I should get a vibrator. I have never enjoyed having sex in the past as its too uncomfortable and hurts (I have had sex about 10 times in the past and I felt no pleasure). My bf could only use one finger pleasuring me the ... (251 words)

My boyfriend spends loads on himself but wont even buy me a birthday gift! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend spends lots and lots on his car and bike but dosen't buy me any gifts, let it be birthday, valentines day or annivesary he dosen't bring me anything. I don't expect much from him but somtimes I do want him to make me feel important. And he takes me to boring places ... (84 words)

Feel like a teenager, don't know what to expect from this woman and I want more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey chicks and guys, heres my original thread for some background http://www.dearcupid.org/question/so-i-met-a-girl-online-was-i.html so Ive since been on another date, decided to buy her a single rose because I wanted to and I wanted to let her know that I digged her... (724 words)

Falling for my BF best friend and now he wants a private meeting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - ADVICE NEEDED! I have a crush on a mutual friend of my boyfriend and I. I only realised it recently since we were spending alot of time together. I am 23 years old and me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly two years (it will be two years next month). I am not ... (254 words)

To be or not be a rep, have I lost out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really annoyed at myself and feel like such a loser for not having gained the full experience of being at university. People usually take up a society or become a club rep and I haven't, I tried in first year and then didn't follow through with it and then second year I ... (265 words)

No sex, No kissing, different religion and now my BF does not want to talk to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 22yrs plus while my guy is 25yrs plus we have been dating gettin to 4yrs now despite our religion differences,we both love eachother ,he pays me visit,he introduce me to his friends as his wife to be but now everything change suddenly.each time i pay him visit now he is ... (482 words)

A competitive friend but I just want friendship, Should I ditch the friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having some issues with my best friend, whom I have known since I was five years old. When we were younger, we got along amazingly well and swore we'd never be apart. Then we went to different high schools, but stayed in contact through dedicated emailing. We ... (288 words)

Confession of my casual fling with an older woman to my new girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 21 male. i recently had moved to another city for 3 months for exam coaching purpose. the thing is i was in a casual relationship with a neighbour women. she is 25. it was just sex oriented. then i moved back to my hometown, now I am in a serious relationship with a girl ... (68 words)

Turned off by my husbands hairy body, any advise how to tell him kindly to groom himself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a newly married irl.I love my husband a lot but am not able to enjoy sex with him. One of the major reasons is that he has too much hair on his body.I have told him a few times that i don't like too much hair on his body and asked him to trim it but I think this has... (156 words)

Brain wants sex.... Body doesn't?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I tried to google it, but could only find information on the opposite... So now I'll just ask you guys and hope I figure this out. I've noticed that recently I've been thinking a lot about sex, and I can't wait till I can see my boyfriend (We see each other maybe once ev... (170 words)

I am not excited about my boyfriend's teenage daughter possibly moving in with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a wonderful guy 3 years ago, we both wanted the same things had similar visions for our future. My children have left home but his are still teenagers that live with their mum, so understand we cant go travelling yet until they turn 18. I was ok with this, I understood ... (210 words)

I'm insulted that my ex said our time together was "nice"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age - My ex just said our time together was "nice" and I feel kind of insulted. I felt like replying, "and your love-making, sir, was perfectly adequate," but I'm just not that quick on my feet. Now that I've been downgraded, I can't stop thinking about what I can do so ... (110 words)

Is this guy using me to get to know my sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if a guy is using me to get to know my sister? This 'friend' and I never really talk or text, and we've only hung out once. He has the same class as my younger sister, and always teases her. He doesn't really tease me, or talk, or hang out. I suspect I might be ... (155 words)

B/f says if I leave the country he'll break up with me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 5 years wants us to get married within a few months. I will be leaving the country in the next few months also but he told me that if i leave he will break up with me. I have been waiting for this opporunity to go overseas for a very long time and also i really ... (70 words)

My girlfriend admitted to masturbating to her male friends of hers. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend admitted to masturbating to certain male friends of hers. She even told me which ones. I appreciate how honest she is and regret that I even asked. She claims her fantasies don't reflect real desires- that she really doesn't want to have sex with any of them. ... (219 words)

I'm in a bad marriage and in love with my friend. We've already slept together once but he doesn't love me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My situation is complicated. Firstly I'm married. But unhappily and am on the brink of potentially leaving my husband. My husband knows. Have seen counsellors. The likelihood of me leaving him is high. Meanwhile over the past year I started working with a guy. We are both... (540 words)

How do I get over my shyness and talking openly about sex with my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a virgin and very inexperienced. I'm also in a long distance relationship and me and my boyfriend have done everything but sex, and its great in person, but we aren't going to be together for at least 5 months and I have trouble talking about sexual stuff. He'll ask me to ... (98 words)

How do I stop trying to figure out what my ex boyfriend the player is up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend was really good looking and popular- known as somewhat of a player. He was that typical bad boy that knew he was adorable and could get away with anything. Girls were ALL over him and thought he was super cute. I really loved him and loved being with him. He ... (197 words)

I have strong feelings for my ex teacher!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im hoping Im not alone in this but would definitely appreciate advice! Im 23 and Im starting to realise that I may have strong feelings for my ex teacher whos 41 and whom Ive known since I was 11, we are both strong creative women and shes been more of a mentor and friend ... (186 words)

Boyfriend Living in a House with Three Girls!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating 9 months. We both go to different Universities; they are about an hour distance away. He is a lot older than me and so he is able to drive and park his car at school; however, I am a freshman and am not allowed to have a car on campus and I ... (290 words)

I like her but so does another guy in our group. How do I get close to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some advice!!!! This girl and I have been friends for two years and we've been communicating via text. One day she started flirting with me and eventually I would flirt back. She would say "you know you love me" and I would say "you tell me first" that kind of fli... (307 words)

Seeing someone but attracted to someone else. Normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there i was just wondering if its normal to be in a relationship but be attracted to someone else?this might sound stupid but im quite worried about it.Im actually in love with another guy,Although i cant let go of my boyfriend, please help me?... (45 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me 4 days after I suffered a miscarriage. I feel so hurt and low!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

10 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i had a miscarriage last month 4 days later my ex. Boyfriend broke up with me i really loved him i have not heard from him at all not even to ask how my follow up appointment after the miscarriage was i have never felt so low we split a month ago i was 8 weeks pregnant ... (126 words)