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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love him, but I am unhappy in the relationship, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupids, I'm hoping someone can help me out here and maybe give some opinions on what I should do. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half now. He has been my only serious relationship and I really care about this guy a lot. He means a lot to m... (561 words)

I broke up with him, regretted it, told him. He just wants to be friends now, shoukld I settle for that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - It's Sunday night. On Thursday, I broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year and 1 month. I had been thinking about it for a while, and I thought it was what I wanted. I tried breaking up with him on the Wednesday, face to face, but he was begging me for another chance, and I fe... (354 words)

How do I stop her advances, without embarrassing either of us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Simple question. I work with this woman, she is about 20 years my senior and lately i have been wondering if she fancies me. She is very touchy feely with me and I am not the type to cause any trouble so i don't say anything except to a very close friend who works with me al... (403 words)

My teenage son wears my women's underwear, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My son (16) steals my unders and we talked but I have not talked or to my husband about him putting things in his hind end while he does this. That bothers me so should I worry? It's been a lot of house hold items I unfortunately have picked up to find them nasty..... Now ... (62 words)

Is he starting to like me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So there is this guy I have some history with and it didnt last that long back then. Kinda a very rushed little fling. But now we seem to be trying again, least that what I think. People are noticing except for him and I. So I need some opinions to know for sure before I make a ... (231 words)

Two women, child by each, they want me to chose, don't know what to do?

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7 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and girlfriend Been together for 4 years And being rocky all the way through Because of my ex She has tried to split us up from the start I have children on both sides My ex is Using The children By turning them against My girlfriend and my son So my girlfriend And Ex Want ... (68 words)

Friends for 5 years, should I do something to tell him I want more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello to everyone! :) To begin with, I have this problem for a long time. Like, really long time. I've been friends with that special guy for almost 5 years now and I kinda like him every since. We met first year of high school and eventually become very close (but not t... (478 words)

Boyfriend won't do anything to me sexually!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my partner and me been going out for 2 and a half years but in bed he wont do anything i do everything to him but he wont do anything i love him but im finding myself dreaming about other ppl ive askd him to do things like go down on me he wont i have to satisfy myself with a ... (84 words)

Is sleeping with your housemate really such a bad idea??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been living with a couple of girl room mates or should i say house mates as we do not share the same rooms for a while now. I initially found nothing attractive about them but recently, one of them has been catching my eyes and attentions. To cut the long story sho... (231 words)

I filmed my b/f and I during sex and he doesn't know about it. Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, i have a hobby of filming if possibly every thing that happens in my life so i would analogize it and to keep it in memory. my boyfriend does not love to do every thing under the spot lights yet today i filmed me and my boyfriends sexual intercourse with... (107 words)

I don't want to be treated like a door mat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm with this Guy for 3 years. In this 1 year he never misses an opportunity to tell me I don't measure up to him, that he is with me cause I begged him not to leave me. Always finds something or other to humiliate me. He should be always in control of our relationship, ne... (213 words)

How do I stop obsessing over my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I stop obsessing over my ex? We split a year ago, I'm with someone new and am very happy in my life. My ex and I split on ba terms and have not spoken since the day he left me. My problem is this; he's in the public eye and although I wouldn't say he'd particularly well ... (200 words)

How could my boyfriend not know if he loves me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi cupids, my boyfriend always asks me if i love him for real, or if i am with him only because sexual intercourse happened between us knowing that from my region, a girl making any physical contact with her boyfriend is forbidden, he always fears that i am not with ... (524 words)

Need to move on from FWB situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age - I am 53 years old. I met a man 3 years ago after we both were fresh out of divorce. We dated and are good friends with benefits. He has helped me and I took care of him after an accident. I sold my house due to the divorce and he offered me to live with him (separate bedrooms). ... (195 words)

I don't know what we and I'm scared about the fact I'm a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey Im 18 I have been going on a couple of dates with a guy that I met at work, were both in University as well. We have been out about 10 times some of these involve with his freinds and mine going for drinks and going out after. Im just so confused when im not with him... (170 words)

He disappeared without an explanation. Couldn't he at least explained first?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Iam a 33 year old woman and I have been divorced for about 3 years. About 7 months ago, I met a man online from USA through a dating website. He immediately asked for my number and we got chatting and talking regularly. I am a professional and he too is one. We have video ch... (494 words)

How can I get this man to bend? He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a beautiful relationship with a man for ten months. We are both 38. We went through through alot together. He had been seperated from his wife for three years. They had no kids involved. The thing is his ex wife didnt really want him back, she told him she wanted to work ... (442 words)

I was snooping around boyfriend's home and found bags of ladies underwear, sex toys and porno!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - While snooping around my boyfriends house I found bags of ladies underware, sex toys and porno movies. I mean several bags! I was shocked. Why did he have these and why would be ever keep them. I can't tell him that I found this stuff because I was snooping around. I can't ... (76 words)

Online guy said he loved me and then he was just gone. I haven't spoken to him in 2 weeks!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 27 and i met a guy with the same age in a dating site. we had been talking in skype/ym or fb for almost every night for a month only, seeing each other's pictures and seeing each other in camera. well, he was always saying that he loved me so much, that he wanted me to be ... (312 words)

How can I tell him his snapping and shouting is hurting me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi , My partner and I have been together for four years. We both have full time jobs and we work all the time ( I often work when I get home from work and at weekends too when I need to- to be honest I enjoy working). Lately he has been snapping at me alot, I like to talk ... (315 words)

What is the best and worst pickup line you've ever heard?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Pickup lines have been used on both men and women. Some are good, some are very, very bad, but we can all agree that they’re pretty funny. Share with us any good or bad ones you've heard. Feel free to list more than one!... (47 words)

How can we manage our stubboness and stop it causing fights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This sorta thing has probably been asked in many forms before, but here goes... It's starting to come to me that my girlfriend and I are both stubborn, strong willed people. Neither of us likes to be "told what to do" or told we're doing something wrong. We both occasionall... (699 words)

Should I be worried about my obsession with house music?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - About 9 months ago I went to my first rave. To make a long story short it was a life changing experience. I really connected to it. Ever since that day I eat, sleep and breath house music. I have attended quite a few concerts after that and I'm really excited for electric daisy ... (226 words)

My 12 year old sister is being bullied at school because our mother died of an overdose. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a relationship question so much as a cry for help. My younger sister is getting made fun of at school because we have lost our mother. Our mother died four years ago of an overdose of pills and alcohol. I don't know the exact details, but I know they are ma... (124 words)

Wife cheated on me and I want to work things out but need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My marriage was in shambles because i was drinking excessively. I have been in the military for 3 years and married for 2 1/2 years. She had a miscarriage about a year and a half ago and thats when the major problems started and things havent been the same. I got in trouble ... (258 words)

I'm around men all the time, including when I go out with friends. So why have I still not had a relationship with a guy yet? Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old I go to college, work, I have a lot of friends, I go out all the time, and have a great family. I have everything going for me, but it always feels like theres something missing. I never had a serious relationship, like the type you bring home to mom. I oft... (117 words)

Any suggestions for what career path I should take?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in college, I'm just taking basic courses as of now because I'm not sure of what career I want to pursue. I am interested in criminal justice but I really don't know what i want. I enjoy working with people, but also having some freedom and alone time, And a high ... (63 words)

After sex, liquid came out of me. Was it from me? Or him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so me and my ex messed around again and we did it 2 times in one day. The first time he was going really fast before he pulled out, and when I stood up and seat back down I felt some warm, liquid come out of me. Then the second time we did it he did the same thing and I ... (138 words)

The first time sex for me, should I take pain killers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy that I've known since elementary school (we've long since graduated high school)and I started talking again and came to realize we both live in the same neighborhood. So long story short, we've gone out for quite a few months and we'll be having sex for the first time ... (125 words)

Any wives of cops out there? My husband cheated on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently was told by my husband that he cheated on me. We have been together for over 6 years, married for 5 years. Our relationship has seen long working retail hours, opposite shifts, 15 month Iraq deployment, two beautiful children, and he recently became a police o... (198 words)

How do I let my boyfriend know he needs to give me more attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend dearly. We've been dating for about 8 months, but have known each other for around an year. Although he's 5 years older than me, our relationship is good (one or two fights in between, nothing important). The problem is, he's been doing extra shifts at ... (478 words)

It seems anniversaries and her birth day are for her, but my birthday is not a day for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

7 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This one goes to the ladies out there. To what point should you be considerate of your man? Let's assume it is your man's birthday, how far is a man worth going for? Like I understand in modern day societies it is expected for the man to go above and beyond when it comes to... (469 words)

What's up? I understand that rules are rules. But is her mother so harsh because she does not like me dating her daughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this girl for 4months now, we have been going out for one month. Our relationship is going perfect, we get along so well and never argue. Anyway more to the point, she is 17 I am 19. On the days she spends out with me, she gets told to be home by 10.30. I... (157 words)

Why didn't I realize he was a player? What can I do? I feel I was sucked into believing he was a single guy who liked me for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, Last November I met a guy through mutual friends. I liked him a lot from the moment we met and felt the feeling was mutual. We never hung out alone, just occasionally saw each other when we were out. I had heard rumors that he had a girlfriend. At a New Yea... (608 words)

I pushed my ex away with constant messaging. Now he's done a disappearing act. Will I ever hear from him again?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf has done the disappearing act on me. He dumped me about two weeks ago but then wanted me back. He dumped me cause he's unsure what he wants. However he didn't contact me for for a few days and I asked " are we still together?".. He replied "I need time to think".. I ... (355 words)

No sex for three years! If he was attracted to me when he married me, why isn't he now? Should I try going to counselling alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

7 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband isn't interested in having sex with me and my frustration is turning into anger. I don't know what to do or how not to feel angry and disappointed. Our sex life was great when we dating which made me even more attracted to him. We've been married for seven and a half... (338 words)