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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My crush has a g/f but says I'm pretty. How do I tell his g/f what he said?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok so today I saw my ex near and he kept staring at me I said " what are you staring at me for " and he said " nothing ". I said something funny and stubid but I said " what you wishing you had all this again " and I like pointed to my self and shopkeeper my body alittle not ... (258 words)

Girlfriend makes me wash my hands after touching my penis because she's afraid of getting pregnant. Could it happen like that?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - hi all. i have a big question to ask. my girlfriend and i fool around, as in oral sex. she is afraid while im giving her pleasure with my finger that sometimes i have to readjust my erection and she makes me go wash my hands because she is afraid that i touched it and will ... (111 words)

I don't like being around the cheating g/f of my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a really difficult situation here and need help. My boyfriend and his best friend have been friends forever and they are really close and are always together. My boyfriends best friend has been with his girlfriend for about 6 months now and me and her just don't g... (432 words)

He used to say he wanted a future for us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my boyfriend now saying he doesn't want a future with me? Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together nearly a year, a few months ago he was always the one to be so positive about us, and say he wanted to marry me and have children with me, where as I was the one to ... (293 words)

Jealous that my FWB had sex with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this guy....we've been having sex lately and I REALLY like it. I mean I know he doesn't care about me like emotionally and I dont care about him like that either. But the sex is really good.....until I found out the next day he had sex with someone else... I was ... (105 words)

Does my step-father not like me? How can we have more of a family relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Would you say if this attitude says that my step dad doesn't like me?: - he keeps a mental list of exactly which lights I keep on through the night and how late I go to bed after watching tv.He says I'm wasting electricity but I'm paying for that wasted electricity. I t... (223 words)

In the limbo of friend/ex/possible bf.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I just want others input. Helps me analyze things from a different view. I went out with her and she broke up with me. (Basically, she was young. Impossible expectations (please don't judge me like I'm a low life, just take my word on this). Wanted to see wh... (406 words)

Threesome after marriage? I've been faithful in my marriage but often get the urge to revisit my sexually adventurous past!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Cupid, Am 29 and am married for 5 years...I should say that I have have an amazing love life so far and even before marriage I was very active. I happened to be touch too adventurous for an Indian woman and experinced many a things which would be considered taboo... (126 words)

How do I get rid of my bad thoughts and concentrate on my work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4022 days ago

23 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - i m a 25 year male, student. i have always find myself thinking bad things as like sex etc. and always trying myself to keep away from my actual work. i found that i m deteriorating my career and life but repeatedlly i m becoming failed to keep my mind concentrate on my work. ... (66 words)

I feel stupid for falling for guys who do the same things to me, so much that I want to leave the country! Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, just looking for a bit of advice and a rant. I am 25 and dated someone from when I was 15 to 20. We grew apart so since then I have been looking for 'the one' I suppose. I just realised that we only get one life and wanted to meet someone and be totally in love. ... (334 words)

Is it time to cut my high school friends off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have known my high school friends for about 10 years and we were close knit. Now i am a junior in college and they both have had children and not really where they would like to be in life. I have still remained there for both of them but I feel like the children has ... (368 words)

Need help dealing with my 14 year old!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help on something...My husband passed away about 4 1/2 years ago, and I was left with 3 young children (9, 6 and 5). I ended up, out of fear of being alone, dating really fast. I got into a 3 year relationship that was not good. He was critical, overbearing, and ... (371 words)

I like this guy, but the thing is, he avoids girls. How do I ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy, but the thing is, he avoids girls. He doesn't talk to them, he doesn't even look at them. I would have thought he was gay, but I have it on good authority that he's not. He has had a girlfriend before. Anyway, I happen to really like him, but I don't know... (188 words)

My girlfriend is taking some time to think about us! I don't want this relationship to end, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) age 36-40 - hi everyone, my girlfriend is wanting to have time to think about us. she is big in church and I go to church with her sometimes cause she likes it and she told me that she is under alot of stress thinking about stuff and this morning she told me that she wants to think ab... (157 words)

He has a close, touchy female friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship. we've been apart for almost two years and plan to see each other and live together soon this year.he studies and works abroad. he has a very close female friend who is his co-worker too. the girl has a boyfriend but she ... (153 words)

How should I ask him what our status is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been talking and spending some time with a guy I met but I don't know what he considers us or if we are just friends at the moment is it ok to ask him what he considers us and if so how should I ask?... (47 words)

She says I don't act as in love as I say I am

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) age 30-35 - My gf and I have been together for two months. It had some bad times at first, but I've realized after that first month I am deeply in love with her, but she's said I don't seem to be acting as in love as I "say I am." We are gamers so... we'll go online and spend time w/ each ... (209 words)

Does she like me as a friend, or is she curious about more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

23 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seperated for two years. I have two dogs, and about eight months ago I met a lady at the dog park. Our dogs really liked each other, and played constantly. Over the next couple months, I'd encounter her once-twice a week at the dog park. Our dogs l... (325 words)

Pregnant and he finishes with me?? What the...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. This may be a bit long-- but please bare with me. I'm very shocked. I found out yesterday I am pregnant. I'm 24 and very fortunate to be in a good well paying job with a good maternity package also. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is 38. Since Las... (444 words)

Girlfriend still has 'feelings' for her ex. Is this normal? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Please can you give me some advice. I have been with my GF for about 3 mnths. She is from Italy and has gone home there for a month. we spoke on skype and she told me that she had seen her ex at the weekend. she then told me that although he was an 'ex' for... (320 words)

She has no feeling towards me now cause I've acted childish through the whole break up and that I've hardly gave her room to breathe or think

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - me and my girlfriend at the time had our first fallout in our 9 month relationship because i started to mention things about our future as a couple. the only reason i said those things was because she couldn't see me as much as she could cause of her course work. i had a ... (501 words)

Should I be upset at this financial situation with his sister? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I be upset and what do I do ? I have been with my partner for 3.5 years and living together for 3. We have been having ups and down but recently one problem has got me to re think being with him..when we met. I was (and still am) a single mum of 1 and he was then 39, ... (421 words)

Why is she treating me this way? Did she ever love me? I can't deal with this!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys my girlfriend broke up with me 4 weeks ago a 6 month relationship. The thing is she's married and older 10 years she’s 28 I'm 18. Things were great I was moving closer to her she was making it clear it was over with her hubby. To make it easier for you to see my po... (1466 words)

Am I worrying too much about this since it's been so many years since he was my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I currently am separated from my husband and we are in the middle of a divorce. It has not been finalized but we have not seen or spoken to each other in over 5 months, my attorney just sucks and is really slow. Anyway, I recently ran into my former high school teacher. ... (390 words)

Why did he not tell me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and i started dating newly,recently there was a social school programme for campus students so i told him i would go with my galfriends and i asked him if he would go,he said he wasnt sure but he might...i called him after the programme and he told me he went,i was amazed ... (86 words)

On line friend, what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy and he used to annoys and teases me a lot. We started to chat on facebook and chat for at least 4 to 6 hours a day(not everyday but once in a while). Since we are going to different schools next year he just said that hes going to miss me. Also, he says he ... (171 words)

Betrayed my BF, but I want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I betrayed my boyfriends trust. I lied to him and hurt him..i was selfish.i made a big mistake.. And we broke up forever..i feel like a horrible person..in a way i feel like i deserve it. Maybe i do? Cause of how i treat others. Maybe its a lesson..i regret it. I flirted w guys ... (131 words)

What is Girl Talk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend tell me that she wants this relationship to last for a long timethe college and just life and we have been dating for 2 months and then we spend the whole day together and then she tells me she is headed to get friends house to have a girl talk. because it's ... (85 words)

I cannot get over the love of my life, Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in love with my ex. I know right? 17 year old junior girl in high school thinking she's in love, its one big cliche. I just realized it and it scares me. It scares me. I mean we broke up because he cheated on me. With a freshman. And that was after 2 years (slightly... (732 words)

I prioritised my exams over diner date with GF, was I wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I wanted to share my little problem im having with my gf. On sunday me and my gf organised a dinner date with her friend at 7.30pm. That day i had my cpr and first aid certification school untill 6pm. So i spent all day doing cpr certification came home for lunch for an hour ... (238 words)

When is it right for a teenager to start having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - if a boy tell u to do your school work and then call him and u and this boy been together long and u is 15 year old girl should u have sex with your boyfriend ?... (38 words)

BF face book status "when God sends her, don’t lose her" What does this mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My current partner and I have been together for 1.5 years. Him and his last gf were together for 7 years and were going to get married. When he met her, she was ******* somebody else’s boyfriend. 4 years into the relationship, he cheated. He told her and although she was upset, ... (333 words)

Two weeks after a holiday with my family, I am not into my BF, Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I have been dating for 3 months is starting to get on my nerves and I would like to understand why that is, as before that we got to know each other as platonic friends (about 4 months before he made a move). Nothing would ever have happened if he had never initiated ... (378 words)

Why cant I befriend this girl who is also friends with my BF?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Both my boyfriend and I share a large friend group who we have all been friends with for a long time. There is this other girl in the group who I seem to be bothered by a lot. To be honest, me and her are really the only two girls in the group, the rest are guys. Because of... (334 words)

He wants me to 'talk dirty' and it's outside of my comfort zone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, here it goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. The sex is great, though he is much more experienced than I am. Lately he has been pushing me to 'talk dirty' and I just don't know how x.x I always freeze up and it makes me completely ... (91 words)

A classic case of miscommunication, hurt male pride, and immaturity LDR

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Background information: He and I met on the internet when I was 13 and he was 14. He lives in London and I live in Tennessee. The last time I was there in August(2012) things changed between us and we decided to try a long distance relationship until I move to Europe for ... (412 words)

I'm not sure if I'm mature enough for another go with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago, due to "loss of attraction" although, looking back it was probably because I was an immature d*ck and took to many risks. She dumped me randomly though, literally a week after drawing me an elaborate picture (which she framed) ... (204 words)

I'm confused about having a crush on an older man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4026 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) age 22-25 - OK so I'm 14 and I just talked to my Vice principle for the first time Friday. I admired him from afar, but I was forced to talk to him on Friday. So now I'm having these weird feelings for him now. He's looks so young,but i think hes in his late 20's or early 30's. I have a ... (87 words)