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First time sex and a big member.

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13 April 2013 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend has an abnormally big dick and it is physically too big for me? -I've sat on it lubed up and it would take alot of force to make it go in, were both still virgins but feel ready, how do i go about making this as less painful as possible??... (53 words

Going through divorce, having an affair but this guy wants to just slow it down.

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13 April 2013 (F age 51-59 - I was in an abusive marriage for a long time and started an affair with someone I'd been attracted to for a while. This person was a good friend to me and also a confidante. Very quickly my husband and I separated and are going through an acrimonious divorce. My friend and I ... (208 words

Is he a player or does he really have feelings for me in this year long friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

13 April 2013 (F age 30-35 - I recently had a serious talk with a guy I have been seeing for a year and a half. I told him I had developed feelings for him and originally went to talk about ending the relationship as I did not think he felt the same, however he shocked me. He said he wouldn't have kept ... (239 words

The relationship is going nowhere but I don't want to break up or break his heart yet.

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13 April 2013 (F age 30-35 - I knew D for 5 years. We were officially in a rship for 3 years. Things weren't easy we always Had fight which led me crying the whole night everytime. We often Had misunderstandings, arguments and I began to lose hope. He promised that he'd change for good but he ended ... (150 words

I'm serious about him, but wondering about his female friend?

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13 April 2013 (F age - I have been dating someone for a little over a year. It's pretty serious, and we've moved in together. I love him, and I enjoy spending time with him, but he has a very close woman friend, and that's the problem. They became close when they were young and worked for the same ... (195 words

How does my friend interpret my smiley use?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

13 April 2013 (F age 22-25 - Hello. I have a good online contact that I generally interact with, every day. My inquiry is very important to get insight on. When I talk with my friend, I put the :) smiley for anything I answer. One time, he asked me to read some old literature he wrote. My exact r... (111 words

Anyone with experience in watersports?

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13 April 2013 (F age 30-35 - So, recently my boyfriend told me that it would be a major turn on if I peed on him during sex. He also suggested peeing inside me during sex. It doesn't gross me out or anything...I guess I just want to know if anyone had any experience with this. Suggestions? Advice? ... (51 words

Two years after the break-up he contacts me?

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13 April 2013 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My ex and I had a really intense relationship for a year. We broke up painfully which I initiated, because we had a 10 year age gap (he was 20, I was 30) and things were in a bad situation with living/working etc. I was a wreck after the break-up, and as I und... (224 words

Help with obsessing over cheating younger boyfriend

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13 April 2013 (F age 51-59 - Help again in finding an answer.. Three weeks ago ,if u remember my original post, i found my boyfriend of 3.5 years in bed with another women, as u know he is a lot younger than me, but his betrayal devasted me.. which brings me to today...ten days ago his other gf who he w... (201 words

I don't like swinging but my husband doesn't want to quit

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13 April 2013 (F age 51-59 - My husband and I have been swinging for 3 years and I was never really interested in it to begin with.now when I tell him I dont want to do it anymore he says but we are having fun when in actuality its him having fun. He gets a little to flirty with the other women and wont ... (172 words

I'm Sikh, my boyfriend is Sikh - My parents don't agree :(

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13 April 2013 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 17 year old sikh girl and I've had a rough past that my 22 year old sikh boyfriend knows about and he still loves me despite whats happened. Me and my bf have been together for 7months in total. We were planning on telling my parents about this relationship first when ... (371 words

Did I say "I'm falling for you" prematurely? We've been dating seriously for 2 months.

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13 April 2013 (F age 41-50 - I met the guy I am dating initially last summer through a dating site, but since I had a lot going on at the time, I blew him off for the first few months and we didnt actually go on our first date til Secember, it was a perfect date that I could tell he didnt want to end, but ... (321 words

I find it easier to orgasm by myself than when he's in me

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13 April 2013 (F age 36-40 - I have never heard anyone talk about this but when I am by myself, I completely know where to go and what to do for orgasm through clitoral stimulation. However, when a guy is in me, I feel like my clit changes shape, like turns inwards/downward and I have totally lost my ... (108 words

Still love him but he's leaving soon

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13 April 2013 (F age 26-29 - A guy broke my heart but i was still in love with him .His friend told me to stay away from him cuz he doesnt know what he's looking for. Soon, he started telling me he loves. i was surprised but the problem is i'll not be seeing him again cuz he'll be going back to his country ... (88 words

I just want to be friends! Guys how do I turn you off FOREVER!; without gaining 100lb, sacrificing looks, nor getting really hairy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

13 April 2013 (F age 30-35 - I'm studying computer engineering so it's ALL GUYS and I'm not a hermit or anything, so I try to make friends. And I LIKE having friends I can talk to about nerdy things like Linux and UNIX, I mean, most other people don't get it. But the guys ALWAYS end up confessing their... (93 words

Is she telling me the truth? Or is she withholding some details? Having trouble trusting if her version is true.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

13 April 2013 (M age 26-29 - We were both 16 when we met. When I first noticed her, I NEVER thought she would smoke or drink. To my surprise, she told me she started smoking at the age of 12 (social smoker) and went to club and pub at the age of 15. That happened before she met me. Then I also found out... (219 words

We can never see each other because my boyfriend is always in trouble!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

13 April 2013 (F age 26-29 - I just wanna know what's the point of being in a relationship if we can't see each other. Me and my boyfriend been going out for 9 months and he's 16 and I'm 17. He's always on punishment and getting his phone taken, he lives with his dad and he's really strict, my boyfriend ... (194 words

He has been texting my ex pretending to be me

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13 April 2013 (? age 36-40 - A year into our relationship, My boyfriend found out I was seeing someone when we first started dating. I had been seeing this other person for a year and although I liked him he didnt want a relationship. we were more like FWB , i stopped seeing him after a couple of dates ... (346 words

Every time we have an argument its always my fault according to him!

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13 April 2013 (F age 30-35 - My partner and I are having a rough patch, "Bob" says it'd because I am needy and I always want more than he can give. He's 28, I'm 22. I have two children, not his, but he loves them like his own. He says I need to have no expectations of him and when he does something good ... (162 words

No reply from the one I love. what does that mean?

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13 April 2013 (F age 51-59 - I met a American guy online three weeks ago. He is in his late 40s. I am falling in love with him .... We talked online and it seems go well. He needs to work on shift schedule, and i work only during day time. So, we do not talk every day because of we have 13 hours time dif... (259 words

Age difference

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13 April 2013 (M age 26-29 - I like this girl and really looking forward into having a relationship with her.I am an Egyptian and she is a tourist so i think i can do a lot for her to see my country like taking her to the red sea,watching the sunset from the pyramids,cinemas and lots of stuff that she ... (220 words

She said she loves me but I think she doesn't understand me and I m thinking to leave

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

13 April 2013 (M age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with a gf i really love from 3 years. At the beginning everything was amazing,now i'm having real troubles. I m not working for 4 months,i have bills to pay and not enough money (unfortunately my dad passed away last year and i had to give money to my ... (379 words

Does sex really matter?

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13 April 2013 (F age 30-35 - I have a brilliant boyfriend, he really is amazing. We have been together over a year and have lived together most of that time (we met in student accomondation.)We are both twenty and lost our virginities to each other, and I can't imagine a more caring and perfect boyfriend ... (199 words

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