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*oulou30
writes:i am 30 my girlfriend is 22 we got a good relationship but her sister keeks hitting on me the more she dose the more i think about it but she is 14 help me Reply to this Question
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (20 April 2013):
 HI
That's brilliant news. I am glad you realised the danger of this situation and the importance of letting her family know how she is behaving.
now just remember to steer clear from her at all times when alone.
Mandy
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reader, loulou30 +, writes (20 April 2013):
loulou30 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks you to you all for your help i have now told my gf her sister and her mum she is no longer is on my fb nor has she got my number it was not as bad to sort out as i thought again thank u everyone
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 April 2013):
 you are 30 and can't cope with a 14 year old "hitting on you"?
At 14 they are not subtle and don't even know what they are doing...
you look at her and you say LITTLE GIRL (and that part is important) LITTLE GIRL (she is a child, she is behaving like a spoiled jealous child and you must treat her that way) LITTLE GIRL, stop behaving in an inappropriate manner unbecoming to a young lady.
when and how is she doing this that your gf is not aware of it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2013): "The more she does it the more I think about it"
WHAT?!! She's 14!!!! Get a grip!!
Tell your gf you don't like the way she acts around you and next time she does something ignore it! Do you really love and want to be with your gf, or would anyone flirting with you make you "think about it"?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2013): You need get your head out of the gutter, because thats where you will land if you even so much as touch her.
Let me put it simply, she is a teen that is starting to experiment and you are a crush, nothing more.
If you cannot control yourself then get out of this situation and also make sure you are never alone with her.
She is the one that is making all teh advances but because of her age, she will end up the victim and you the criminal. So be very careful how you thread.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (18 April 2013):
 1. tell your GF and 2. tell the sister that she needs to knock it off.My guess is that she feels safe "practicing" flirting with you. Basically you are her guinea pig.And honestly, BE the freaking grown up.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (18 April 2013):
 HiShe is what is commonly known as 'jail-bait'. Avoid her and speak to your girlfriend about it as soon as possible.Chances are at 14 she has a crush and is exercising her new found feminine allure for the first time and your the object of her desires.
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (18 April 2013):
HI
Tell your GF straight away, don't let temptation ruin your life. one) you would go on a sex offenders list for underage sex. two )you will lose your GF forever, not to mention your friends, and family members who would see this as a disgusting weakness on your part if you respond to this girls flirting.
This girl is young and niave, and does NOT understand the seriousness of flirting in such a way with an older man like this. she is going to NEED for you to tell her sister, in order for her sister to explain the rights and wrongs of what she is doing, and what could get her self in to if she don't stop now.
be the adult here and do the right thing. it's your responsibility to inform her sister of this young girls behaviour.
Mandy
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