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female
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anonymous
writes:Why is he asking me all these questions? Is weird?So I was hanging out with this cute guy that I've liked for months now. and he said I'm very mysterious, why am I like that? I said to him I don't know. He'd just have to figure it out once he gets to know me.He says I'm very reserved. Why am I like that? and again I said I don't know I'm just like that.I said to him guys always say I'm different in a good way and he asked me why do they think I'm unique from everyone else.Why is he asking me all these weird questions?I'm just really quiet and keeps to myself. I can be shy as well. But ones I get talking I speak and I'm just very naughty.(flirty) but you won't know that about me until you get to know me:)
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 April 2013):
 you are overthinking this...
he's making conversation and trying to get to know you...
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reader, oldbag +, writes (18 April 2013):
 Hi
I assume he knows your single so he may wonder why you haven't flirted,it depends where you meet,if its work or social. He is asking a lot of probing questions trying to understand you better though.
You gave answers inviting him to get to know you better so if he takes up your offer he will see your actually 'very naughty' underneath.
I think he will take the challenge, unless he is spoken for or gay.
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reader, professor squirrel +, writes (18 April 2013):
Don't stress! Guys like the mysterious type, it keeps them interested. And if you're so quiet and reserved, yet he made the first move, you can be sure he's genuinely interested in you and is probably totally worth your time.
Some guys, on the other hand, go straight for the girls who just can't keep themselves contained. They're a lot easier (ha!) to, um.. figure out.. and take up a lot less time, which is a perfect setup for a lot of guys.
Like you, your guy is different, and this is a good thing. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2013): Yea, HE thinks your quiet,mysterious and reserved,he doesn't get you so wants to find out why you aren't an open, friendly person. And he wants to know why these other guys say your "different in a good way".
He hasn't a clue you think he is cute so wonders why you aren't acting relaxed like a mate after knowing him for months. You sound like a quiet loner so maybe he has never met one.
If you like him show it.
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