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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is seeing a psychiatrist like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey all. I don't want to sit here and write a sob story but throughout my entire life (I am 18 right now) I have been through some really bad things. Not only am I not over the things that have happened in my past, but even right now in my life I am dealing with a ton of stuff ... (182 words)

How do you help someone who doesn't want help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister is in her mid-20s. Five years ago, she was in a relationship for 3 months. When it ended, she fell into a depression, which she has allowed herself to remain in ever since. This means that she has spent 20 times more grieving the end of the relationship than she ... (269 words)

I'm not going to try anything whilst he is still going with her but I was wondering if he might have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so I have this friend, M, who has a girlfriend and I'm not going to try anything whilst he is still going out with her but I was wondering if he might have feeling for me. We were kind of close two years ago but then I thought he didnt like me so i went out with his best ... (287 words)

Two of my friends revealed to me on the same day that they fancied me, problem is that I don't fancy them. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I need help, two of my best friends who are guys revealed to me on the same day that they fancied me and both asked me out and I had no idea what to do and somehow, by me not saying to them that I did fancy them, they've managed to get it in their head that I do. I don't have ... (170 words)

I pushed her away in the past, but now we've rekindled the spark, but we are both married and not sure how to proceed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

20 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This is hard to share. I met the love of my life (I'll call her Jane) in High School. It sounds typical, but it's true. We dated for three years, and it was love from the very first moment. Those three years were the best of my life. The feelings were mutual no doubt. We both ... (877 words)

Anyone else with experience of Psoriasis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone i am 26 and just found out i have psoriasis does anyone else have this problem and do you know any natural treatments didn't know where else to ask thank you... (33 words)

Not sure whether this will lead to more than a friend? or just a one night stand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear All So here it goes, I have a colleague at my work place that I truly am attracted to him and wouldn't mind being in a relationship with him. He lately been flirting with me sexually, his been touching my waist when he has the opportunity and always tries to ... (318 words)

Shocked, worried and confused. I'm in the dark with a pregnant ex and I've done nothing wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, here goes nothing. I met my ex while attending university. Everything was going fine for the first 3 months until she found out she was pregnant. That's when I began to notice a change in the way I was treated. She blames says its bc of old pictures she found (not nude) and ... (136 words)

My girl who used to have a sex addiction, now thinks sex is dirty and won't be intimate with me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

20 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently, my GF admitted she had a past sexual addiction. I was not totally unaware of this, but recently we've been having our own tension when it comes to sex. She now views sex as "dirty." She now is not capable of being intimate with me. How can we work on this situatio... (112 words)

Are there others who have no family? This is my experience.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, this is not really a relationship question as such, but it does really impact onto relationships I think. Is there anyone out there who has no family? I have no family as such - I was estranged from my immediate family in my early twenties because I started to quest... (955 words)

Does colleague's behaviour suggest he is interested or is it just professional courtesy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy for the first time through work a few months ago. Initially, I wasn’t attracted to him. I found him to be arrogant and annoying. Over the months, he’s grown on me. I have noticed that he craves attention. And he sulks when I talk to other men. When ask about hi... (655 words)

Did my panicking ruin my relationship for good?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! My boyfriend and I broke up after two and a half years together at the end of January because of my over the top overreacting and how I handle things sometimes. It started out as a break but I panicked and it turned into a break up. I kept calling and texting non stop... (568 words)

This woman keeps flirting with my fiance right in front of me, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know there isn't anything I can actually do about this but maybe someone who has gone through this can tell me what I should do. Basically I need to know how to best handle a situation where this woman flirts with my fiance right in front of my face. Every single time I ha... (195 words)

When will I feel ready to go out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

20 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. My and my girlfriend of three years recently broke up about 3 weeks ago. For the past two weeks, we've had no contact. She was one of my best friends (my bestfriend before the relationship even started) who I confided in about everything. B/c of that, im taking this a bit ... (712 words)

I feel like a dating mess. Insight welcome. How can I meet someone new?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in 11 year marriage that was dying a slow death. I wasn't happy neither was wife but for some reason neither of us knew what to do. I was approached by coworker and had affair. At the same time wife was too. She chose affair over marriage which would have been sev... (417 words)

How do I not be threathened by her around my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi so I have this girl who's a friend. She's really pretty and all the dudes like her they don't bother to get to know her though. We ride the bus together and she is reply nice she has a boyfriend and everyone tries to hit on her but she says she's taken so that's good . But ... (229 words)

Feel uncomfortable and insecure around my bi step-sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi do just recently I found out my stepsister is coming down for summer . She has only told me and a couple friends that she is bi ( but more like lesbian if you ask me ) not to be crude . Any ways so she I'ma one month older than me. I just think I will feel very ... (159 words)

He resents me for revealing to others he is a cross-dresser. Can I fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I completly messed up my relationship. When we fell on hard times over a year ago I told my not so best friend that my boyfriend was a cross dresser. Honestly I am pretty inky I like it. Well she tossed it in his face cats out of the bag now and he told me I betrayed him and ... (167 words)

He's shy and does not reveal his feelings easily. But he is the ONE to me. How can I encouage him to see me as more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3673 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm friends with this guy and we used to best friends. I told him my feelings for him and he said "i like you as a friend. It would be weird to go out with one of my best friends. You're still one of my best friends" We were still friends after that like nothing awkward.... (383 words)

Was my devastation regret and sadness about how he ended the relationship? Or is my friend's theory about it being "true love" possibly true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a strange question that i know can not be answered easily and i know it's long, but my friend keeps telling me it and I really need to know if she's right, because a part of me is starting to realise it may just be that! Over 3 ago months my boyfriend of 2 months ende... (536 words)

I can't seem to meet another girl I like. Is it a confidence thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

20 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a long term relationship end about 4 years ago. It ended not the best, and I was silly enough to stay in contact with the ex. Anyway I know she has changed and also I couldn't see her the same again. But I can't seem to meet another girl I click with or see as amazing. ... (163 words)

Is he holding out on me? He's kind and funny. But it seems he might also has Erectile dysfunction.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So I've met a new partner and everything is going amazing! He's kind, funny, everything I could ask for! Until we got in the bedroom! He's 54 and can't get it up! Well he can because I've felt it and in foreplay he's been hard! There's a bit of an age gap and I'm still very s... (165 words)

Is she trying to make me mad or jealous? We're always picking fights. But I miss her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3670 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So basically my ex gf and I are off and on with talking, We're always picking fights with each other. But we haven't talked in 2 weeks, because she thinks i'm disprespectful , but than again my attitude is based on how she treats me. Anyway, i was walking, and out of the b... (113 words)

How do I stop this crush? Met him at AA meeting, but he's way older than me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Have a crush on a guy at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting! I'm 18 and recently got out of rehab about a months ago and started going to the local AA meeting. AA meetings is the last place I thought I'd devolp a crush on someone. But for the past 3 weeks of going I have this ... (300 words)

Would people notice or make comment about my mole removal scars if I wore shorts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I just wanted advice on if i should wear shorts even though i have two mole removal scars on my thigh. They are about two inches apart from each other horizontally in the middle of my thigh. They are like dark dots that were even bigger than my mole before i removed it. ... (78 words)

Does my husband not even care enough about me to answer these questions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i asked my husband, does he think i am beautiful? He said he didn't know. He never looks at me that way. When i asked him what he likes about me, he said he doesn't know. What do this mean or what should i do? ... (50 words)

The guy I like likes my bff

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so, I was trying to help my friend so he could get my best friend to date him, but she started going out with this other guy and stopped talking him. He was really upset, and I helped him trough everything that she did to him. As we talked more and more, I started to have ... (120 words)

40 something year old girlfriend embarrassed by 24 year old boyfriend- How do I fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

20 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have a bit of an age gap. I'm 24. She just turned 40. I went to hang out with some of her grad student friends (we're both in grad school) and she introduced me as her roommate. We do live with each other; but, we're definitely more than that. I was on ... (378 words)

Does he like me JUST as a friend or something more? I can't read him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

20 April 2013 (?) age 26-29 - He emailed me that he wanted to ask me one of those awkward ones and yet funny at the same time type of questions. He's been wondering for quite sometime so he just wanted to throw it out there. Already knew what he was going to say, but put "Sure, shoot". Then he asks if... (513 words)

My friend decided to move to Spain this June from here in the US. I have feelings for him. Should I confess that before he moves, and I lose contact with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

20 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - We're 2 guys. Weird as it seems. Both of us are also in high school. We've been friends since school started last year, in September. Funny thing is, I'm gay--if you asked me on the street, it's what I say (truthfully, I don't label myself--but when society inquires, it's w... (720 words)

Am I crazy to think the man I"m dating is secretly having an affair with a married woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age - I started dating a man 53 whom is newly divorced few days back in Feb 2013. Yet he is always talking about this woman whom helps him with his dad. My guy's Dad lives with him. The woman who helps is also married and is a co-worker of his. This married woman helped him out... (505 words)

I feel we should be communicating more. What can I do to change that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 22. My boyfriend is 39. We've been dating for almost four months. He is my first sexual partner. It's all so new to me so I just want sex almost all the time. He doesn't mind...most of the time. ;) But I feel like we're not talking enough. There's still so much that I d... (83 words)

How can you tell when it's worth getting back together? How do you know whether to believe it if he says he's willing to change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I slept with my ex...and it was great... I was actually thinking maybe breaking up was wrong after all, because we get on so great. But then, he started doing some 'old stuff' and I remembered why we broke up. Where's the balance? How can you tell when it's worth getting ba... (501 words)