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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he hiding behind his mother to avoid committing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So here goes... My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years. We are both 25. I have my own house. My boyfriend still lives at home with his mother. All his siblings have moved out into their own homes. His father died about 3 years ago so my boyfriend's moth... (439 words)

Feeling guilty that I haven't told my wife about the emotional affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for four and a half years. We have a two-year old. We have much in common, but when my wife gets upset and high strung (she is a self-described "uptight" person), she shuts down emotionally. While we were engaged, she would often shut me out of her life: ... (174 words)

Why doesn't he text first, has he gotten too used to me starting conversations each time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20, he's 21. We have been speaking for just over 3 months now. But only been dating for just over a month. We both have an iPhone and a Blackberry so we find it easier to just speak over Blackberry Messenger. (I don't like texting, and I don't like the whole "last seen... (925 words)

I want him to make me feel like the luckiest girl in the world!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 16 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (also 16) for almost 13 months. We haven't really done anything physical besides making out a bit but we both decided that PDA is gross and we don't want to risk pregnancy and we also are both believers in no sex before ... (500 words)

Single for a long time now and unhappy with my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

2 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I guess I am going through some sort of emotional crisis lately. I am 29 and have been single for 3 years now. Basically, I have only had only one long-term relationship in my life, which lasted for 3 years. Breaking up with my ex was a tough decision but thi... (1180 words)

When I'm single, I'm fun, outgoing and confident. When I'm dating, I become jealous and insecure. Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so im just gunna get into it right away. heres my proublem im this fun, out going, very confident girl when im single. but whenever im in a relationship i turn into a jelous, insecure emotional girl. whenever i get into a relationship with a guy they always complimen... (722 words)

Gained weight after the baby and need tips to get it off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys! I'm a 21 year old woman, ever since settling in a home with the man i love and having a baby two years ago ive put on some weight, i guess the weight added on because i was happy and eating in alot with my partner. im 5 ft 8, i wear size 12 clothes at the moment ... (292 words)

How to ask my boyfriend to be more physical with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - How to ask my boyfriend to be more physical with me...? Well we're only 17 and we have only been together for 3 weeks but I like being physical. He's a virgin and he's never had a girlfriend before, but I want him to like hug me tightly, kiss with tounges; kiss my neck, gi... (126 words)

Awkward moment when her grandmother called me by my girlfriend's ex's name!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - So I am at my girlfriends parents house an meeting them for the first time. During this time everything is going well an we talk and really get to know one another. I also meet the grandparents an everything is also seeming going really well. Yaaaay!!! Well, not too fast:( on ... (224 words)

Girlfriend fantasizes about intimacy with girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has recently been fantasizing about having sex with other girls. She has told me that she never has been with another woman or even likes the idea. Then all of a sudden she is having all these fantasies about being intimate with other women. Should I be worried?... (186 words)

A dating question: Can it work when one person has a career and the other what they consider 'an everyday job'?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been single for 16 months now. I've had a few dates, a few casual flings and I'm ready for a serious relationship. I met a guy online a few weeks ago. He's 8 years younger than me, intelligent, funny and we get on really well. In fact I get on with him better than ... (300 words)

Two year long FWB and now he's showing signs of affection!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for a FWB relationship to last nearly two years and what does it mean when the guy is showing signs of affection like cuddling, Eskimo kissing and just appearing on a whim?? These things have just started recently in my experience he still only texts me on occasion ... (90 words)

He's not my fiancee or husband so I'm struggling with how much to factor him into my new job decision!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a mother of 7 year old child. As of January I lost my job and since I've had to wait a bit but I was granted unemployment benefits. I have been to many interviews but recently I interviewed fora position and they bought me in for a second interview. I reviewed with them I ... (528 words)

Lately arguments seem to be tearing us apart

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner have been together for 3 years, we both love eachother alot and have had our fair share of problems but we cant seem to be apart. Recently we have been having a lot of arguments and it is begining to tear us apart. No matter how much we talk the problems just ... (353 words)

My husband admitted to having a crush on someone else

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do when you are so very in love with your husband, but can't handle the fact that he had an emotional affair? I struggle on a day to day basis knowing that he actually "put someone in the middle" of our relationship. Him and I, (so I thought) had a wonderful, ... (448 words)

He says he's had way hotter girlfriends than me???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend told me that he's had way hotter girlfriends than me, but he still tells me he thinks I'm beautiful/gorgeous on the inside and also on the outside and he loves me more then anything and that I don't even compare to his previous ex gfs.. What am I suppose to think ... (191 words)

Confused by all the mixed messages from this girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid I am perusing a girl since February. we went out few times and hanged out. Well, when we talk in person she is showing she is interested yet when I text her, she seems otherwise. In person, we have fun and I make her laugh and she enjoys. On texts and... (174 words)

Huge crush on this guy, but I'm nervous that he doesn't feel the same. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody. I need some help. I really like this guy, and I feel like we hit it off, but I'm afraid that he's not into me. I met this guy 2 months ago, I was doing a research paper, and he approached me and asked what I was doing. Right away, we started talking and getting ... (515 words)

Help for ex wives of transvestites/cross dressers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age - Hi My husband of 30 years told me one day out of the blue that he had been cross dressing since childhood and that now he wanted to become a woman. Cutting a long story short, we got divorced and now he is happily in another relationship with another woman and probably deceivi... (127 words)

BF hot and cold in the space of two weeks because of one night- what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is hot and cold with me and now he wants time "think and get his head straight" I have been in a relationship with my bf for a year now. We are long distance but spent the first 4 months together. At christmas he dumped me saying the distance was too much for him. We... (416 words)

My relationship isn't going well and he has befriended a new girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone! Me and my boyfriend have been with each other for just a little over 2 years now. We have had a great relationship and really love each other a lot. However, we have been having some problems lately and on top of that he has befriended a girl I am not too fond of. ... (428 words)

Guys: How would you react if a girl told you she was a virgin?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - To cut to the chase: I'm a virgin at 25. And I feel ancient being one at this age. I'm not a christian, so I didn't save my self out of religious beliefs. I did hold on to that romantic notion that the first time should be with someone I love, but unfortunately I haven't met ... (325 words)

I like watching lesbians, does that mean I am one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I enjoy watching lesbians, but I love boys and think they are so sexy, I only want to be with boys but sometimes when I'm watching the lesbians I want to be in that situation for just a second but when I think about it again when I'm not watching it I fnd it disgusting, am I a ... (59 words)

I can't talk to men, I like older men and my girl friends hit on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm getting worried. I'm 23yrs old and I seem to live mostly inside my head. I can't make a move on men (and I just wish there was a nice guy that could read me LOL). At the same time I know I'm bissexual and my closest female friends always fall for me (I'm serious! They hit ... (129 words)

How can I go about making new friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm looking for some advice about making friends. Basically I'm 27 and I went through a painful break up about 4 months ago. I'm currently back living with my parents, but I've noticed I don't seem to have much of a social life any more so I'm a bit down. Most of my friends ... (237 words)

What can or should I do? I am in love with my best friend. BUT she has a boyfriend. Should I just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

2 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in love with my bestfriend but she has a boyfriend we had been close friends since we were in college when we are in our first yr she said to me that she loved me but at that time i cant love her back because i have already have a girlfriend.. i denied her. i alway... (272 words)

He's confused me. Should I be concerned? He tells me he likes me, but he doesn't really act much on it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy through friends years ago but he lived in a different state. He recently moved to my town and we connected through facebook and started going out on dates. The first time we went out he tried to kiss me but I backed away and said I don't kiss on the first dat... (533 words)

My brother will be livid. But the guy who I have a crush on is my brother's best friend. How can I get the guy to notice me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old girl and I have a major crush on my brothers best friend. He's 22. I really like him. He's smart, funny and very charming. My problem is I don't know how to make him see me that way. I have known him for around 5 years now and he's at all of our family fu... (170 words)

What can be done to get her to want me again? And why is she not discouraging her ex from reaching out to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My GF and I been dating for 2 years. She's had a very "liberal" sexual past. Threesomes, group sex, other women, etc. We started off very hot and heavy. And after a few months, she moved in late last year. I've noticed over the past few months that our sex life has diminish... (285 words)

How can I get out of this unsatisfying relationship? I want him to leave.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Stuck in a Rutt and can't get out! My live in man is 45. We split briefly last year and I now totally regret us getting back together. He set up home on his own after our strained relationship failed due to his abusive behaviour. After almost a year of the two of us just bein... (292 words)

Should I break up with him? It bothers me that he says he has weak willpower and has had several opportunities to cheat on me, yet hasn't

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - We've only been dating for a little over six months and have known each other for seven months, but I love him dearly. Despite our similarities, we're quite different in the sense that he's known for being a cheater/womanizer, he's sort of a man-whore, and other things. ... (242 words)

Do I hope for too much too soon? Sick of being "the other one". I know it may sound dramatic, but I need any form of guidance or help. Please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

2 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a huge dilemma, I thought I could get text one of my friends for help. Alas, I feel so helpless and I didn't know where to turn from here. So I met this guy on a phone app not a hooking up app, he hit me up first. We quickly started getting very close. I know so... (269 words)

He's one of the most popular boys at school. How can I encourage my crush to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi so I want to know how to get my crush to like me Ok so I have had a crush on a guy and he is in a different grade (higher grade). Anyway I wouldn't say I am obsessed but whenever he looks at me whenever he goes or looks away I totally freak out. The problem is he bare... (208 words)

Is looking for the right moment to propose? Or is he delaying for another reason? He backs away now, from discussing our future.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years now. In the beginning, we were madly in love and everything was perfect. We talked about marriage, having kids, our entire future. Now since it has been two years now, I have moved to a new city with him into our own apartment...... (337 words)

Time to let go? How do you know when you're not in love anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I would like some advice and opinions on my situation. This may get a bit confusing so I apologize and will be happy to answer any questions you guys may have. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is the only serious relationship I h... (365 words)

How could I tell his sister about the problems I've been having with her brother? What options would help me in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I've caught that my boyfriend of 3 years add some new girls on facebook and liking their disgusting status. When fisrt I ask him why he likes it, he said he's carelessly pressing the like button. Then, when I check his notification, I found that he's the one who added ... (252 words)

I feel I'm being pushed out of my circle of friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, very glad I came across this site. Well, there is this girl that has been troubling me. The majority of my friends are male (please don't get the wrong idea about that) and she is friends with a lot of my close male friends and my boyfriend of two years. This is going ... (450 words)

Help for my distant girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright well my girlfriend and i have been going out for about a month and a half, any time we want to do somthing, i need to ask her and she never seems interseted to talk to me and never makes the effort to call me or message me on FB. I need help because i dont know if we ... (115 words)

So confused with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Quick background on my relationship: we have been together 2 yrs 3 months, have a one year old child, I'm due on the 14th to have our second one, my boyfriend has admitted he is depressed. We haven't truly talked to each other since December, he doesn't want my help and thinks ... (684 words)

When we're not fighting, he's perfect

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband has a past history of lying to me about his ex's and just yesterday I found an email contact of his had sent him a naked photo of herself years ago but he never deleted her or the photo. We have been together 3 years and married 10 months. Yes, we were young ( 21 and... (378 words)

Lots of signs but I don't know what to think: is my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - There have been lots of signs but he denies it and swears he never has nor wouldnt. He stays in touch with exes and ex hook ups which I find weird. And it makes me feel like he is doing it to keep his options open. I found out a year ago that an ex hook up had gotten in to... (374 words)

Is there anything I can do about his erratic parenting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my ex husband is crazy, that or his actions are making me wonder if I am! We have a 2 year old child. I've been open to lots of visits-encouraged it even, but he rarely takes the child. There is always an excuse. Most recently, he told me he can't take child more... (254 words)

Should I be direct and straight to the point in asking her out on a real date, or should I take things as slow as they've been going so far?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a girl a few months ago, and instantly felt some chemistry. We've been talking continuously ever since, but nothing happened between us yet. This has a couple of reasons, which I would like to discuss here to see if I should keep pursuing. First of all, this is the firs... (461 words)