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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel like I'm second best in all this, to him. He chooses her over me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in trouble I need help...my boyfriend and me had a girl as a friend but after I trusted her with everything..with the first bump (he thought I was cheating) this while I couldn't even handle any guy even relatives next to me..and she told him she would also not believe me ... (263 words)

I miss her a lot. Could time have healed the bad feelings from the past? Or only made things worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend (I'll call her B) from uni and I fell out over 5 years ago. It's a long story, but the outline of it was that B's ex started going out with another of my friends (call her C) and because of that B expected me to stop being friends with C. I refused because ... (293 words)

What's atttactive? And how do you cope if you feel unattractive all the time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

19 April 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I know this probably gets to be an old topic on here, but I'm going to talk about it, anyhow. It's about not liking the way I look. (I know, eye roll). The thing that makes my situation unusual is, it's not that I don't have attractive features. I have big eyes, full lips, ... (365 words)

What to do? I'm older, alone and along comes my sexy sister in law? Will it cause problems to date an ex-inlaw?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

19 April 2013 (M)

age - I'm a widower, I have dated a few women over the years and was not looking for a relationship,I just wanted to get out of the house and have some fun. My wife's brother's X wife called me to ask me how I was doing, I haven't talked to her since my wife passed away several years ... (488 words)

Is what my sister charges for babysitting unreasonable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've got a bit of a dilemma around family and babysitting. I have four children. When I go for a night out I ask my 19 year old sister to look after them. She said ok and I used to give her £20-30 for sitting them. Sometimes it would be at night so the kids would be in bed. ... (366 words)

Advice on the pullout method

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with a guy for over a year now and we have been having sex the entire time we came together on the pretext of just sex on both parts it obviously escalated more due to our time together, well we have been using the pullout method and one thing i noticed when ... (148 words)

I'm the first guy he has seriously pursued -- how can I be sure about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Me: 24 y/o gay male, ended a 2 year relationship last August. Law school student. I started dating my new boyfriend Feb. 27 of this year. Boyfriend: 23 y/o gay male. This is his first serious relationship. Graduated from ******** University. Teacher. Before I... (397 words)

Sexually charged BF after a fight?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, After my boyfriend and I have an argument and sort things out, he tends to ask for a lot of sexual attention. why does he do this? Thank you.... (39 words)

MIL from Hell and a Husband that will not live on his own!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a modern girl with some simple dreams. I want to be happy....lead a comfortable and satisfying life. Recently i got married to the love of my life....The problem is his Mother and the locality where he lives. My husband works in a MNC in a respectable position but his ... (803 words)

Pregnant and my BF says its over, is this a patern as he did teh same in the first pregnancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, i've been in a relationship with my partner for two and a half years now. we have a one year old together. I am now 7 months through my second pregnancy. However on monday i was shopping with him and went to hold his hand and he stopped me and said "we arent even ... (239 words)

My boyfriend is staying friends with his ex no matter how I feel about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Sorry if this is quite detailed and long I just really need some help! Well in a month I will have been with my boyfrind for 2 years, its a happy healthy relationship apart from one thing - his ex and still best friend. Its not just the fact they were together why I don'... (516 words)

I know the relationship is over but I'm mad that he didn't even have the decency to end it. He just stopped contacting me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this guy for a month, and we were sleeping together. We both went away over the Easter break and he said before we left that'd we'd see each other afterwards. Then when we both got back I texted him to ask if he wanted to meet up in this week. He said his wee... (183 words)

Does my bf have to look or think of other girls in order to get hard to have sex with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like my bf of 3 years is talking to people about me and i tink that its bad things .... i think hes secretly calling his ex gfs he called his ex gf when we first started dating i didnt know about it then one day he got all dressed up looking hot n he said he went to ... (390 words)

Girlfriend sexting and texting nude photos to other men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - hi my girlfriend and i have been seeing each other for nine months.i just found out she has been sexting and sending nude pics to other guys. im crushed but i love her. trust is an issue now.i was given a really lame excuse about it all. its been a few days since then and i ... (98 words)

My bf cares about my organsm but will not let me pleasure him. How can I help him just let go and have fun with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating the greatest guy, he's 30 and im 26. We've been together for about 5 months now and recently had sex for the first time. He was a virgin (im was not) so it was something very special for him. He loves foreplay and is wonderful with his hands, he also had no prob... (342 words)

Family issues: I am so tired of having to apologize for something I didn't do. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (?) age 30-35 - So I was wondering if anyone had any tips or ways to deal with a person who feels like they are always right. My mom gets super upset when she feels that we are "missing the point entirely" and that she is always the one who gets blamed when she did "nothing wrong". My mom... (231 words)

Guy, if a girl is 19 and the guy is a few years older, then what are the issues for guys to consider when dating a younger girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I am 19. My boyfriend of almost 3 years recently broke it off and I'm trying to move on, and I am ready to date again and just have fun. I am really attracted to this guy I go to school with, but I found out he's 27. I thought he was like 23. We get along rea... (172 words)

Why, if we have no contact, does my BF show up as number one in my "people you know" on my FB? Does it mean that my ex-Boyfriend has been recently viewing my profile?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my ex-boyfriend consistently the number one person in my "people you may know" on Facebook? i haven't viewed his profile in a long time, and recently he has been the top person on the list every time I log on. We've never been facebook friends, we have no common i... (127 words)

A 22 year old marriage over due to my disabilies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

19 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Please help, Iam a 45 year old man , I have had type1 diabetes since age 3 this plays a huge part in what I need advice with , I have been married to the same super beautiful wife for 22+years . I met my wife when I was 22 and she was 17 at the time I was in my short physical... (627 words)

Broken hearted over a truly nice guy who backed way off by overhanging things on his own without talking to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I started dating a man i have liked for years, about 3 months ago. He knew I had kids and my age (43) when we started dating. We live about an hour away, don't see each other alot, but texted every day. Things have been great, he's said i am amazing and never felt like this ... (357 words)

I feel like this other girl is ruining my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'll start off by saying I'm 19 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for three years. I don't want it to seem like I'm a drama queen so please don't get the wrong idea, I just really need to explain this. I feel like this other girl is ruining my life.. ... (496 words)

I'm afraid my insecurities are interfering in the bedroom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I’m in need for some advice. I would like to be sexy for my husband… but I have no idea how to. I don’t think I am sexy or have to looks to be considered sexy. I love my husband and I love sex with him. But I’m scared. I have always been an insecure woman. I ... (275 words)

Still love her and don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, this is my first post here. I think that it should go here since it is about friends going into lovers and such. I apologize in advance for how long it is, but please tell me any opinions/suggestions you have. So I'll just tell it from the beginning: In my... (1592 words)

Being cheated on and the other girl getting pregnant I don't know what to feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

19 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been in a relationship with the love of my life, but with every relationship there is a problem, he kept me a secret for 3 years and always had time for his ex he would never contact me when she was around and told me that she was just really close to his dad. I was young ... (355 words)