I feel threatened that my g/f has a new best friend

A female age 26-29, *oggysmoo writes:

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years now, and it's been a roller coaster at times. We're at the point where we're arguing a lot... way too much actually due to my sensitivity, her oversensitivity and my insecurities. She admits the insecurities are partiality her fault because whenever she's lied to me at one point about having feelings for someone else. We've worked that out, we've talked about it and we moved on, aside from me having some new trust issues to work through. But our current problem is this: i feel threatened that she has a new best friend. I don't like that she has someone else to talk to about everything and anything, I've always felt special being that one person. I realize I'm being possessive and selfish, but I don't know how to get past it, though I really want to. I know the friend so it's not like she's someone I don't know. I've already talked about it with my girlfriend and she gets aggravated at my jealousness. How do I solve my issues and make this work?

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