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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could this be a sign that he's crushing on her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend just told me that he and some of his guy friends were talking to other girls about sex. In this talk, there was a girl that he used to like, and he told me that she was a virgin. I don't know if I needed to know that, but I'm worried that maybe my boyfriend still ... (113 words)

How do I deal with my crazy MIL?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband 34 in the military while he was gone I stayed with my parents with our 2 kids and pregnant for help cause I don't want to be pregnant and alone. He wanted all his mails to go to his parents house he don't want to change his address until he gets back than we can ... (479 words)

This constant love/hate thing we have going on has me so confused. I need some advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this might be long just as a pre-warning. I'm not really sure what I am asking here, just people's opinion of it really. A few years ago I had a really messy break up and honestly thought I would be alone for the rest of my life. It took me a long time to get over him and ... (1594 words)

My long distance boyfriend is asking me to send him pictures of my private bits. Why does he need them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1827 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am a female in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend lives in another country. We still haven't med in person..but have communicated by email, telephone, text message and video and video messaging that he's sent me. This has been going on for about 7 months. ... (353 words)

Broke my heart and I can't let go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Can use some advice on what to do next… I put myself in a pretty sticky situation through a series of poor mistakes and bad relationships, and now I am not sure where to go from here or how to move on. It all began back in 2010 when I was let go from a high paying job. Without ... (434 words)

Trust issues? Should I try and find out why, or just forget it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Apologies in advance for this, but equally thank you for reading. I have asked questions on here before and was refreshed by the advice and answers I received. I'm not entirely sure what my question is, or if it can be put into just one question but I'll just write everythi... (490 words)

My dad thinks my boyfriend has stolen from us and is going to report things to the police tomorrow! How will I deal with this if he is guilty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents divorced some months ago. The night my mom left, my father checked the house for things that were missing (she took appliances and some stuff) and through his gold (a couple family rings, etc), and it was there. The next day, my boyfriend and I were packing thi... (614 words)

I thought we were so good together! Why wasn't I good enough for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - A month ago my boyfriend broke up with me out of nowhere. We had been dating for six months. I know that isn't the longest amount of time, but since the very first day we met, we were inseperable. We connected on every level, mentally, emotionally, physically. We did everything ... (861 words)

I've got a feeling there's a potential crush on me, but she doesn't say anything

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi. I have met this beautiful girl at an art club, and we've been talking for a few weeks. She's a few months older than me, but, I feel quite comfortable with talking to her. Today, she tells me she that I'm quite adorable. Then, when she asks if I've got a girlfriend, I te... (136 words)

He's taking things slow, tooo slow!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

3 April 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, am 21 years old and I met a 40 year old man 2months ago, he told me that he was interested in me so we exchanged numbers. Since then we met only twice but he communicates with me everyday. We never have serious conversations, he always asks how am doing, goodnyt and ... (83 words)

Why would he cheat if he is happy with his girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and an old time friend have slept together more than once weve have known each other for 12 years but problem is he has a girlfriend! I really like him a lot why would he cheat if he is happy with his girlfriend? Does he actually have real feelings for me we were friends ... (77 words)

I'm pregnant and my husband is distant. Is this just a lull in the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've posted this problem before, and I'm not sure what to do. My husband and I are pregnant with our first child (6 months now), and I feel like we're growing apart. We both were very active together before pregnancy, and I still am to my abilities, but we don't do activit... (523 words)

We broke up 6 months ago but I haven't moved on from my ex. Anyone know why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I were only together for two months. As stupid as it sounds, it was kind of like The Notebook romance. Short, but very very sweet...maybe so sweet in fact that I will forever have a cavity from it. I felt with him things I have not felt with anyone else. But it was ... (267 words)

I feel like I can't have any successful relationships because of the guys female friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid. I need some advice and opinions on something that may sound stupid, but it's honestly how I am feeling. I feel like I can't have any successful relationships because of the guys' female friends. Basically, almost every relationship I have ever been in (which h... (393 words)

Is my ex just playing me? He wants to tell me all about HIS problems with his future wife, and insists on personally delivering the alimony. How should I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello aunts and uncles, ive talked to you all in the past a few times, and im having a problem. my ex still insists on bringing me my alimony, not mail me a check, or money order. he claims its easier and cheaper. i dont complain about it because hell im getting it, its ... (493 words)

My husband abuses me. I love this man. what advice can you give me please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Have a problem with my husband... We have 2 children boy and the girl. When he’s drunk he will call me nasty names and sometimes beat me. I even slept at hospital twice. He says bad things to our daughter and tell my daughter you are not my child your mother she is hoe. ... (121 words)

I know it's not my business but I am worried for my friend. What should I do? He's back with his cheating ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I have a really good friend, let's call him “X” (male), who I have known for years. When he recently got a new girlfriend, I was so happy for him, until I found out what this girl was like. She didn't like me from the beginning and told my friend “X” (male) that ... (433 words)

I don’t want to rule him out but then also don’t want to be walked all over

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy on a dating site and he seemed really genuine and sweet. After a week of talking, despite not being 100% on his picture, I agreed to meet with him for a drink because I thought we had a lot in common. We met and had a really lovely evening, finished with a kiss, ... (416 words)

Is he obsessed with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated my ex bf for 4 years I was about to break up with him when I found out I was pregnant so I decided to stay to make it work. Well after our son was a month old he cheated on me with a 16 year old mind you he is almost 22. So i ended it 6 months ago. Now he keeps texting ... (162 words)

Should I ask if he still has a girlfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone, Around the every end of January, I met this guy on the train. We automatically hit it off, spoke, laughed, etc.Not to sound cheesy but it was almost as if there was some kind of magnetic force between us. As we got deeper into the conversation he asked me wher... (690 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like to experiment sexually

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone! I have quite a high sex drive, and i like to experiment. But my partner prefers to stick to missionary and not really change? He doesnt like a bj either or anything like that? This isnt really a problem i know you like what you like, and our sex life is good i... (149 words)

Why am I fantasising about this other guy, who isn't even my type?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a boyfriend of nearly four years who i love. At the moment we are in a long distance relationship but can see each other rougly once a month (our jobs are long hours and mixed shifts) so its hard to see each other, but we call each other a few times a week as ... (150 words)

Why does sex always have to be on his terms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my Boyfriend for 3 years. I love him to bit and we have a good life together.We have our ups and down like everyone but all in all we're fine. It's our sex life that I think is the problem. We have sex, oral ect but it seems to be all on his terms. I hardly ... (325 words)

What did he mean by that finger in my mouth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a Best Friend. We are really very good Friends. Before some days,i was a bit upset,and he was trying to console me. We were talking a lil bit flirty. He said like my soft stomach and started playing with it, rubbing with great care..Then after some time while we were hav... (194 words)

I have always been conscious of how my vagina looks, and now my boyfriend has insulted the way it looks! How do I overcome this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together nearly a year now, we've had sex, taken part in oral sex on both parts. But the other day we had just had penetrative sex, so I was just led on the bed naked my legs slightly apart on my front, dozing slightly. He was sat on the bed, then ... (222 words)

Is it a mistake to become friends with a girl you like instead of making a move on her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Just a quick question. If you like this girl and you suspect she likes you back, you don't make a move for romance and instead become friends. Can that take away any feelings she might have had for me and does it ruin any chance I'd ever have to get in a relationship. Did I ... (62 words)

Our sex life ended 18 months ago and there are no signs of improvement, should I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, ive been seeing my bf for nearly 3 years. firstly, we are both very healthy and have no problems sexually with being able to perform or participate in sex so we don't need to see doctors. sorry but I needed to say that so that nobody suggests its a health issue because i... (578 words)

We are too shy to talk to each other, what can I do to change our current situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - The moment I saw this girl, the first time I saw her, heard her sing, it made me feel weightless. I was completely captivated. That was 5 years ago, I've still never had real contact with her, I see her when I go to church as she is the main choir singer. That is until I ... (178 words)

Because of my loose vagina my boyfriend thinks I have cheated on him! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been complaining that my vagina is now lose and accuses me of cheating and I have never cheated on him. I'm so confused and hurt cause this has affected our relationship so badly what do I do pls. Secondly we've been having issues of recent, he finds faults i... (78 words)

Truly, was I just his back up girl ? Or was it all my fault ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ! I met a guy online and dated him for a month. I thought he was serious because at our first date he asked me if I was talking to other people on the website. When I said no he said him either. Also he was asking me a lot about my future plans, that's why I thought he was... (571 words)

My ex-fiancee is trapped by her family, she's such a bright woman so why cant she see what is happening? We could have been so happy together.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. My ex-fiance and I met 5 years ago. In the beginning everything was great. Eventually, however, I began to realize the full extent of the influence her mother has on her. Her mother is her reason for living - and taking full advantage of it every step of the way, I might... (344 words)

Everyone tells me I'm a good catch but girls wont come near me! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a good looking, successful and nice guy. I dress nice, smell nice and act confident. I am a college soccer player, run by own business and I'm in pretty good shape from playing soccer. Im not extremely good looking but im not ugly either. I just cant get girls to give me ... (187 words)

Ex boyfriend said we had something special now he's confused and wants to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - When I met a guy widowed with a daughter I was expecting unresolved grief. How wrong. He's 47 and his daughter is 14 and within two years of his wife passing on had moved a woman with two children in. He loved this woman and she drank and he tried for six years to help her, ... (288 words)

My parents are offensive to my guy. How can I bridge the gap in our expectations for the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit long and I apologize but I have an issue. Anyway, I'm 21, ending my junior year of college, and I've been dating this amazing, intelligent, humorous man (also 21) for a year and two months. Even though I'm only 21, I feel like I wouldn't be wasting my time ... (492 words)

I'm insecure about my penis size and it's getting in the way of my relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

3 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I dont wanna write an essay but i feel as though i need to fill you guys in all the details. I've been dating my girl for over a year now. We've known eachother for 13 years. She says shes the happiest shes ever been and so am I. We are very much in love and I hope to marry he... (556 words)

Swinging ex boyfriend turned Husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy are in love. We dated a short while, but had to break it off, after he stopped coming around to see me as often as he used to, and ditched several significant occasions, being afraid of facing anymore disappointments from him, i suggested we take a break. ... (543 words)

Do I need to back off from my male best friend now that he has a girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! Here's my problem... I am an introvert and am very shy. I have a lot of social awkwardness so that makes it hard for me to find and keep friends. I really only have two close people in my life that I let in. First there is my LDR boyfriend of 2.5 years. Secon... (251 words)

Any advice on sex surrogate therapy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

3 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, i'm a 30 year single female virgin. I have reached a point in my life, where i'm ready to move towards changing this. Does anyone have any useful info, where to start? I've heard of sex therapy where a sex surrogate is used, in the states, does anyone know of... (119 words)