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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Involved with a married woman. So why is she acting this way? Why is she treating me like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - hey guys i need advice. ive been involved with a married woman for about 7 months. i know its wrong but hear what i have to say please. we started off as friends good friends. talking everyday spending a few hours together. and i started falling for her hard. shes bea... (1152 words)

I'm 18 and my parents are strict. I want to get birth control but if I do my parents will judge me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm 18, and with having strict parents i sometimes feel like they don't understand me. Ever since i started dating my boyfriend i feel like he is the only one here for me. We have been together for almost a year now and we have started doing sexual stuff, from almost p... (161 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend? Just thinking about sex disgusts me. No desire for sex. Could I be asexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am struggling with my sexuality. I have been in a relationship with a male for two years but I think I may be asexual. I have no desire for sex, I feel disgusted when thinking about it and it causes conflicting feelings towards my boyfriend. I don't know if I am being dr... (67 words)

Why would my partner keep explicit pictures of their ex? Tried to shrug it off, yet still feel hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) age 36-40 - I looked in my partner's inbox the other day and found explicit pictures that his ex had sent him. I know for a fact that his ex has been to visit him many times. The first I knew of was back in 2009. I have also seen pictures on his ex's Facebook page that show his ex a... (278 words)

My boyfriend has told me he has lost interest in me. So should I care about his wish for me to be more "rough?"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So recently my boyfriend has told me he has lost interest in me. He also commented to me saying he wants me to be rough. Since I am soft I don't know how to become rough. He doesn't mean to be rough while having sex but he means for me to have a rough attitude.. I need hel... (80 words)

Any reason as to why he's being like this? Or is it that he's just too busy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Around 3 months ago, I went to the pub for a few drinks with a few friends. One of them I had previously met before and had tried flirting with me but i wasn't interested. I ended up getting slightly drunk and he walked me home and ended up kissing me. Ever since then, he's... (142 words)

He says such sweet things to me. Could it be that he might have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey so recently some of the boys in my class have been saying I look pretty I'm nice and things like that. But there's this one boy that says it the same way but has me thinking. Let's call him Ed. Well Ed he is sweet at times and silly but there are days where he is seri... (226 words)

I'm a virgin. I do find women attractive especially their breasts. But I look at men too. Am I gay or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am guy in my early 30’s and I am unsure if I am gay or not. I am a virgin and I have kissed a girl but nothing more. I do find other guys attractive. I find their muscles and athletic appearance attractive. When I am jerking off I think about guys that were small gr... (185 words)

He says he loves me, but the way he treats me, it doesn't feel like it!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age - My boyfriend tells me he loves me but his behavior suggests otherwise to me. About 2 weeks ago we got into an argument and he told me he had been wanting to break up with me since I miscarried 4 years ago. We have been together for 6 years, living together for 5. I was stunned ... (327 words)

How can I be more approachable to guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm curious on what sort of personality, traits, appearance, etc makes a girl seem approachable to a guy... Perhaps if I was more approachable I would have an easier time finding guys to date! So, in your opinion and experience... what makes a girl appear more approac... (66 words)

How to go slow without him losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently started talking to this guy who I've come to really like. I want to take it slow because a) I want to get to know him better before anything happens and b) I've got exams coming up so I need to focus on them more than anything. However, I'm worried that I m... (89 words)

Which cheater is worse? I want your opinion of the women in these scenarios.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i was just having a discussion with someone and i was wondering what you guys think of these 2 situations. my question is regarding the females of these situations. Scenario A: a couple (Tom and Lisa) has been together for 1.5 month. the girl, Lisa, gets really drunk and... (378 words)

Should I stay in my marriage with 3 children? Or step out with someone who makes me happy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have got myself in a real dilemma and could really use some advice. I have been married for fourteen years and have three of the most beautiful children a woman could ask for but I never really loved my husband and got married for all the wrong reasons. I went into my ... (224 words)

I don't want to move into my guy's "boy apartment"! How do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over 3 years, i am just finishing my final year of studying, we have had to go long distance for a couple of months whilst i complete. after i finish uni he wants me to move into his place, i miss him so much when i dont see him and... (377 words)

My husband said he'd pack up and move to be with his first love! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I just recently found out that my husband's first-love contacted him. I also now know that he was the one making the attempts to find her He says he is still in love with her and never got over her. He also wants to continue contact with her to carry out a 'friendship'. ... (329 words)

My fiance's sister makes my life a living hell! I don't know why or how I can get her to stop!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are very much in love and have just got in engaged over a year ago and are getting married soon ish, and his sister has made my life a living hell since day one. She talks badly about me behind my back, I've been told she calls me "ball and chain" when I'm... (355 words)

I'm a virgin and b/f has a large penis. Will sex hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a large penis. I want to satisfy him. I am a virgin. will it hurt ?... (19 words)

Does he just want friendship? I'm confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I've got a guy sitting next to me due to seating plan in class for about 2 months. He was my classmate last year too but we didn't talk to each other untill last 2 months. I guess we are close friends at the moment, he isn't cold to me anymore. A week ago in free time at schoo... (404 words)

How does the average couple afford children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone else worry a little that they will never be able to afford a child? I am still on the younger side so I know I have a couple of years to figure it out before my clock starts ticking, but I wonder how we will ever get there. We do okay for the two of us, but we certa... (215 words)

How do you deal with a spouse who shuts down when something truly upsets them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

24 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has been through so much her entire life and she definitely is a rock. She is the motivated type who when faced with a problem doesn't get flustered or crazy she just finds a solution and gets it done. There are times however that when something truly upsets her mostly ... (386 words)

How do you stop becoming obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I was hoping to find some tips here since I'm really, for the first time in need of help from others. I've had a really awful relationship of 3 years to early 2011 and I felt I was recovered from it. However, I've kinda developed an obsessive manner with the guy I ju... (158 words)

Interracial dating question: is he the one with issues or is it me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I was on an interacial dating site as a black female born and bred in england and was approached by a white man stating he was interested, i asked the question, why interacial dating?, he replied "during the last 50 years english girls have lost their femininity". I was furious ... (127 words)

Will a shy guy ever ask a girl out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

24 April 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I really like this shy guy, but with his line of work, i am a 'client' so it makes the situation a lot harder to court him (thou i am not a direct client of his). I have written a question on here before and i get the impression that he does like me, but the challenge is that ... (252 words)

Would it be a good idea to message this girl even if I messed things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This may not be such a big deal and people will most likely say I should just forget it and keep searching but I hate when I mess up and I really feel as if I missed a possible opportunity for something that could have been great. I've been doing the online dating thing for... (358 words)

This cute guy is all I want but I'm too shy to talk to him, it's killing me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why can't I get him out my head? This is killing me:(? My ex boyfriend lied cheated and dumped me and i lost all my confidence so I decided to join the gym and I'm in the best shape in my life. Guys all say I'm attractive. But there's this cute guy that I've liked fo... (255 words)

Due to be married in two weeks. But I get slightly jealous about his deceased fiance. Is the problem my jealousy or the grief he's never resolved from the past?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, my fiancé and I are set to be married in two weeks. We own a home together and have two beautiful, amazing kids. We have what many consider a "perfect" relationship, as no one has ever seen us argue/fight/be upset with each other, etc. We're getting married on our four... (728 words)

Why am I now not attracted to my boyfriend of five years!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I love this guy we have been through thick and thin together. He's everything I dream of and the best Bf I've ever had in bed. We moved in togther about two years ago. Been dating since we were 16 and we are both 21 now. We have experienced dating other people and ... (193 words)

If I stay with him is it possible that he will just make me even more unhappy? Because he's not the Bf he used to be. He takes me for granted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have dated for almost 3 years. We've never dated before so being in a relationship with eachother is our first. I have made a few mistakes in the past such as lying. When I first met my bf I lied to him about a few things such as getting drunk and being with a... (841 words)

Is it ever acceptable to tell a guy that you want to have kids and not get married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 29-years old and have never been married and have no children. I've had long term relationships in the past (one for 4-years and one for 2-years) and I haven't really been serious with anyone in almost 6-years. Anyhow, I wouldn't say I'm commitment-phobic, I wou... (248 words)

18 months dating and still he does not want to be intimate? How do I raise this issue without pushing him, nor seeming needy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half now and this is my first real relationship, but I'm concerned because he doesn't seem to want to be intimate. Generally, I kiss him more than he kisses me, but when I've brought it up, he's said that it's because ... (153 words)

My husband wants to have a baby with another woman. He's says I'm making this out to be a big deal. Am I over-reacting like he says?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20 years old and have 2 kids. My oldest is 4 and she is from a past relationship. Im now married and we just had our son in February. Recently my husband has been talking about having a baby of his own with another woman. I thought he was kidding at first but he's r... (209 words)

I went out dancing with my new girl and her sisters.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (M)

age - I went out dancing with my girlfriend and her sisters. She and I are just starting to date. Another girl come up and ask me to dance I said no out of respect but my girlfriend, half drunk said to go ahead. Does this mean that she does not care about us. ... (53 words)

We have sex but he wont consider being my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Atfirst this guy and ibwere together,then we were forced to seperate by parents.Well,now we are allowed around eachouther and we have been sleeping together for about 2 years..i would like to have and call it a relationship,however he says he isn't into that type of thing.He ... (73 words)

I found a sex toy in my boyfriend's room.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Today I visited my bf in his house. We don't live together yet. It was a little mess, so I started to clean his place a little. Then I founf this, a sex toy, quite like a simple hole cup. Maybe it was there before, I just didn't noticed? Close his PC, even not hidden.... (233 words)

I feel second best.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for about 6 months, and i have a 1 year old son. When i first met him, he always put us first and called and texted but lately he always puts his female friend of 16 years above me. He goes to her first with everything, and tells... (155 words)

22 and never been in a relationship... What can I do to change that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just turned 22 the other week and something came to my realization... I've never EVER been in an actual relationship with a guy. I've flirted, I've had a little fun (nothing leading to sex, I am still a virgin...) but have never had someone I could call "boyfriend"... it ... (461 words)

I can't trust my guardian! She tells everyone everything I say!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4020 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everybody My guardian is really getting on my nerves... She always tell me to tell her stuff that bothers me but when I do she tells her whole family... It's hard for me to talk to her but when I try to, she doesn't keep it between the two of us. Even the 9 year old know... (112 words)

We will be breaking up after the summer. Is it a good idea to keep dating now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Next year my boyfriend and I are going to uni, different unis but not that far apart. I told him that he meant a lot to me and I'd like to try to stay together at uni because I didn't want to lose him, but after a lot of time of him thinking about it and changing his mind over ... (124 words)

Why do I not attract any interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I am having trouble understanding why I have so many issues attracting or being approached by women at bars and other public places. I dress well, believe i am attractive, have a good personality but I get no interest whatsoever from females (and it's not any better ... (191 words)

To move or not to move, single mom life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I am looking for advice on moving in with my boyfriend. He is 32 and i am 23. We both have elementary school age daughters. His daughter doesnt live with him now, but in two months she will,move in with him full time. When i met her she wasnt very nice. A part of me ... (253 words)

Is being better the key to being hot?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am just wondering, most of us know what makes a girl hot to guys, but what makes a guy hot to girls? Does a guy basically have to be better than a girl he likes, in ways that she feels is important, for her to perceive him as hot? E.g. taller, more confident, smarter, ... (156 words)