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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Girlfriend very insecure because I watched porn

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

9 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a very serious relationship for the last five years with an amazing girl. I love her so much. I would take a bullet for her. I am going to propose to her soon but I don't know when. She's the only person I've ever been in a relationship with and she will be ... (325 words)

Why did my ex put on facebook a photo of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex of 3 months has just put an old photo of us together up as his profile picture. Loads of friends clicked on like etc. Saying 'be happy' etc. I'm so angry. I put up a status saying 'I'm single single single single single. The camera never lies but the photo is over a year ... (103 words)

My gf broke up with me but I know she loved me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My relationship has just ended, i met my girl late feb 2012, seen her for the following 6 weeks then made it official in early april 2012, im 26 now but 25 at the time she was only 17, she was obsessed with me , very clingy always wanted to stay over , would jump at the chan... (529 words)

If she was so disgusted why didn't she make him wear a condom?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (M)

age - this is a similar problem to what many other guys posted about being obsessed with their wives past sex lives. but this is a little different. she was married to this selfish loser for twenty years, had two kids by him.was a virgin she discovered almost immediately she had made ... (147 words)

I can't tell if he is shy around women or just isn't interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy I like, we are in the same class at University and do everything together (long story). He seems very quiet and private. However he is open when we chat. He always says how hot other women are, then when I react just smirks and if I call him on it, he will say ... (555 words)

I feel pathetic that I want to wait for the right guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't help but get rid of this feeling and stop feeling pathetic because I haven't had sex yet and i'm nearly 21! At university all my friends have already slept with more than 5 people, I haven't even slept with one and while they're getting with guys and having fun i'm this ... (276 words)

My boyfriend wants me to ditch my male personal trainer but I am getting great results!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. My boyfriend does not like the idea of me having a male personal trainer. He is against it and would like me to find a female trainer. But this trainer is giving me the results I want. I had a relationship with my last trainer. It started out that I was his cl... (146 words)

Is it bad to daydream all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad that I'm daydreaming all the time? I'm a college student with average grades, a waitress, have decent family and friends, and I'm single. However I'm constantly daydreaming about my imaginary life. My boyfriend and what we did for Valentine's Day, my job as an English ... (161 words)

What does it mean when my girlfriend is getting short with me or doesn't send answers back at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey whats going on :)....a few months ago i met the most amazing girl ever :) she's very sweet and very beautiful..she makes me smile so much my jaws hurt lol :) she makes me so happy. :) she's very shy and i think its the cutest thing ever.. And i finually got her to not be as ... (181 words)

After a summer fling he's been hot and cold!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. This is pretty long, I would love some male advice because I have no clue what's going on! Okay here we go. SO, I started University 3 years ago, with a boyfriend and met a guy on my course. Anyway, he had a girlfriend too but we just clicked and ended up kissing... (621 words)

Should I Swallow my pride or just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I left my husband a year ago because I found out he was cheating on me, we haven't filed for divorce but live in separate houses and live separate lives. I was so determine to file for divorce with my taxes money this year so that I could finally move on. But I'm puzzled ... (267 words)

Everyone including my boyfriend seems to want to hang out with this other girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There is something that has been bothering me a lot and I don't know how to deal with it. Basically, my boyfriend's best friend has got a new girlfriend. This girl is absolutely gorgeous and seems to have a really flirty personality. She definitely over powers me in loo... (340 words)

His friends are judgmental, mean, try to break us up and are so disrespectful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid I'm typing this post because I don't really know who to talk to about this. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over two years and me and him have been through a lot, like most long term relationships. I feel like I'm having some major problems wit... (344 words)

Males: why is porn so important and appealing?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - hello,I'm having a huge problem with jealousy and need some help. well,I say jealousy but I don't actually know how to put it. I trust my boyfriend 100% when he goes out that he will not be unfaithful to me. my problem is that when he is on the Internet,I know that more tha... (299 words)

Other than counseling, which I know needs to happen, what steps does she need to take to prove she deserves back in my life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 12 years, 3 awesome kids. Very “stable” family with two educated and employed parents, no abuse, drugs, issue or anything like that. We are both good parents. Wanted to make that clear. We have had a "good" marriage, ups and downs like ... (414 words)

He will not stop talking about his sexy female boss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi My bf of 3.5 years talks about his female boss very often like how hot she looks, how sexy her voice is. She is married with kids and i have seen her mildly flirting with my bf too. I told my bf not to talk about her often, as soon as he realized that i didnt like the w... (103 words)

Been dumped by boyfriend - have a few questions on how to move on or how to get him back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been recently dumped by my bf over text with no real explanation. He refuses to reply when I ask for an explanation. One of the reasons may be me recently being needy and constantly calling.I'm trying to move on as this is my only option. I have a few questions though: ... (148 words)

Is there something wrong with me that I didn't want to hear anything about my ex? I'm happily married

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been happily married for the past six months. A couple of years ago I broke up with my ex of 6 years after meeting my current husband. It wasn't a good breakup, but I started it and I am so very happy I did it, so happy about my husband. After the break up... (196 words)

I haven't heard from her, can I send a message without seeming desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been speaking to this girl on my tumblr and all of a sudden she added 2 x's (xx) at the end of her messages so i did the same then she added a third (xxx) and we've both stuck with 3 we spoke everyday mostly at least 1 message a day as she comes on late as she works and ... (260 words)

After 4 years I don't feel secure in this relationship. what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My bf of 4 years never really appreciates me for anything i do for him. Never compliments me, always expects me to compliment him. Always holds back his love, if i ask him says that if he says how he feels about me or show in his actions that i get that into my hea... (124 words)

I like him, he says he doesn't know how he feels about me, but he kissed me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - *** Sorry if this is really long! I've been friends with my best friend for about 10/11 years now, our mums are friends, we have even spent christmas together before. I often sleep over at her house, and she sleeps at mine, we even have keys to each others houses. I've ha... (574 words)

How do I get my BF to stop living with his parents and marry me and contribute more financially?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and i have been together for just over four years. He knows I eventually want marriage and a family. I am in my late 20s and he is early 30's so we are at that age to seriously start thinking about it etc. He jokes around, but he is probably semi serious wen he d... (219 words)

BF has changed from the unfaithful, to obsessively possessive, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months the first month we was dating was just simply horrible! We fought all the time about everything! We just simply hated each other. For the past 3 weeks everything has been going great! No fighting as much. The thing is he is ... (515 words)

Sex after marriage vs sex if in a long term relationship, what is right?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in college, have never slept with anyone/had a boyfriend and I'm still undecided as to whether to do so before I get married (I'm also Christian though I wasn't raised religious). I would never sleep around but at the moment I feel it's unfair to even date guys if I'm not ... (177 words)

I fall in love with woman that don't want me, why is it that I select the wrong ones to lose my heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Why does my heart hurt so much? I'm 21 and I've fallen in love on three separate occasions. None of them ever reciprocated those emotions, and I'm fine with that, but I just feel so alone. Why wont it stop hurting, why does my heart feel like it's breaking again? Please help ... (60 words)

I made a big issue of my husband not being able to about his dead mom!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel my partner has never properly grieved for his Mother. She passed away when he was 14 after battling with cancer for years but her death came quite suddenly. He has younger brothers who were 10 and 8 at the time. He is now 27. This is literally all I know. We have be... (419 words)

Fingered, am I still a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been fingered by my boyfriend a few times and I don't know if I'm still a virgin or not.I'm scared that I might not be a virgin anymore.please help, am I still a virgin?... (36 words)

How do I make this girl fall in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - i love a girl since i was in 4th class , she used to talk with me , we were friends , but in 8th class when she knowledged that i loved her or i have a crush on her because some students got to know about my crush on her and her friends started to tease her, in 9th and 10th ... (118 words)

BF shopping for sex toys with his EX?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I am 22, and have been with my boyfriend (elder than me)around 3 years. We are quite sweet recently. But yesterday he told me that, his female colleague (21 year old, mistress of my bf's friend) invited him to shop sex toy with him and he agreed, claiming... (153 words)

Do I date my friend that is at another school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - im a 14 yr old girl my best guy friend is 15 we like each other but we go to different schools and he choose me out of all the girls that like him what should i do should i date him or just remain friends... (46 words)

BF is upset that his EX is being chatted up by his best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - just a small question. My last relationship ended because i found him cheating on me so ended things because once a cheater alwayas a cheater. I don't want to be cheated on again, obviously. Ive just entered a new relationship but im a little worried, because my new boyfriend ... (151 words)

Boyfriend cyber GF is begining to worry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I was having problems last year and came to this site and was very happy with the answers and advice I received, this really is a great site and I am happy to be back in some way haha. So my boyfriend and I are in a happy and long term relationship but... (736 words)

My boyfriend's friend tried to set him up with another girl behind my back.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I saw on my boyfriends phone that a friend of his texted him a pic of another girl. Followed by, "what do you think?" Mind you my boyfriend had erased all the text messages between them prior to this. Anyway, my boyfriend replied, "that could be interesting." Then his friend ... (418 words)

It bugs me that he's paying for his ex's phone plan

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years. He has a 14 yr old daughter from another relationship. He was never married to her mother but they are still on good terms for the most part. They never set up a formal parenting time agreement so he basically ... (706 words)

I find the behavior of my boyfriend's friend disrespectful, how should I deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, hey everyone. I'm looking to get some advice here because my mind is just all over the place right now. I'm going to be as respectful as I can about this post so please don't get the wrong idea that I am intentionally being judgemental or mean because I'm really not ... (1042 words)

I don't feel as though the guy I'm seeing is 'allowing' me to open up to him!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

9 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been confused for the last few days. I have ongoing family issues that I am dealing with. (Parents divorcing, dad having an affair, dad leaving the country to start a life with the 'other woman') Although this all happened in 2011, it still affects me to this day. I still ... (1231 words)