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26-29,
*oodcharlotte4life
writes:Hello, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months, we dated before about 2 years ago, we had a very sexual relationship, we had sex alot, then he cheated and broke up with me, anyways we are now back together and he has changed alot, he has became really close to God. He doesnt want to have sex till marriage, well we have been 7 months without sex, we still have forplay though, anyways today i went to his neighborhood by the lake, we were in the backseat of my car, we had planned to do some foreplay, well it had become very steamy and one thing led to another, i was wearing a skirt and he tried putting it in, i asked "what are you doing?" because i knew not having sex was his main goal, he said "trying to put it in" in a very moan toned voice, then i asked "why?" and he did not really answer it, then he got it in and i said "Baby you are going to regret this" and he just ignored what i said, now he is texting me about how bad he feels that he broke his promise to God, okay i believe in God and everything but i am not as close and uptight with God as he is, and that makes me feel as if i am not right for him, i did not stop having sex because of the bible, i stopped having sex because i respect his goal. now i feel bad, i could have told him no instead of letting it continue, but he didnt even move it, he just stuck it in all the way then pulled out..now he's talking to me being sympathetic saying "i disappointed God" i truley do not believe sex before marriage is a sin but thats my opinion. he wants to become a preacher one day and i feel as though i am making him make mistakes, what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): When a loved one asks you to help them stay on a diet, then that is what they really want. They might have moments of weak willpower but that is not the same thing as really changing their mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): Yeah, soo.. its not really being supporting of his goal when you are necking in the back of his car and feigning innocence about it like you are taken by surprise how one things leads to another AND without protection. You as a pair don't appear to care about each others health or values properly like a loving couple would. My thoughts are the connection is and has always been about sex and not respect and love so you tempt..he gives in..destructive cycle.
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