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writes:im female and i was just wondering is it normal for a man of 25 to have a very low sex drive he loves oral sex but thats about it he never asks for sex just oral sometimes i have to remind him i have needs to , i dont have a great sex drive but at least once a week would be ok but im lucky if its once a month with a push what could be the problem he says he loves me but im not sure any more
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): there are diffrent resons
1.could be gay
2.could love you to much
3.medical issue
4.wants to take things slow
5. dont like you
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reader, ladylove2011  +, writes (10 February 2011):
I Kinda experience what you're going through. My spouse is 30 and he has a low sex drive while mine is high. I know how frustrating it can be when you can't fulfill your needs. But i want to know, has it always been this way? Has he been with other women before you? Does he have a really physically draining job? Was there an instance of infidelity in your relationship? these are important factors to consider. have you ever tried talking to him about how you feel? How does he treat you otherwise? is he good to you? does he do things that make you feel loved? Do you love him? I have tried being inventive. Maybe you should give it a try too. Like for instance you could try being more seductive, buy sexy lingerie, send him dirty texts or emails to try to get him in the mood. play soft sensual music when you're alone. try giving him a massage when he gets home from work...just a casual massage. But while you're doing that you can start to touch him in his sensitive spots. Relationships are a lot of work and if you are serious about this guy and you want to be with him then maybe it would help for you to give him a little boost. Make him feel like he's the most sexiest guy you ever laid eyes on. Tell him how much you desire him. Hopefully with all this effort you should see some improvement, but if you dont then maybe you have to decide if you can stick this out for love or if you need more and you want to leave. If things doesnt improve you should try asking him if he's willing to get help because he has a problem and if he loves you then he would get up and get help. GOOD LUCK!! hope you get results!!!
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reader, ashley187  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 Other than sex, has your relationship changed at all? How long have you been together? He definitely needs to think about your needs as well. I think oral sex is a good start before having sex, so instead of finishing it like that.. get him turned on and then before he gets off.. have sex and then you both win. :) If he's not okay with oral being foreplay before you actually have sex; then he is super selfish and I wouldn't want to be with someone like that. I think it goes both ways.
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