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writes:i met this girl through my cousin and we talked for about a week, then one night she asked me to come bowling with her and a few of her friends so i did and we had a couple drinks had some fun, and we ended up kissing at the end of the night, so we are still talking. and every once in a while the subject of "hanging" out comes up. But i'm having such a hard time of thinking what we could do, i don't wanna take her on a "date" just yet i wanna take things a little slow. so whats an ideal thing to do together but not make it seem like a date? i know she wants me to teach her guitar, would it be weird to suggest going over to her house or asking her to chill at my place?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): Next time she phone's you or texts and asks what you are doing, just casually say you're just having a quiet afternoon and playing a few tunes on your guitar and if she'd like, you don't mind if she wants to head on over and you'll teach her a few strings. (even if that's NOT what you are doing) Then you can drop what it was you were REALLY doing (like your dirty washing) and entertain her for the afternoon. Don't be shy, she's only a person the same as you. If you have a few friends that would be interested in doing something social together like hanging at your house on Saturday afternoon to have a bbq, a few drinks maybe and you could even play a game to make it a bit different, like board game or cards, you could even pull your guitar out and sing a few tunes all together. Invite her to this and I'm sure you'll have ample opportunity to move the relationship to the next phase, whatever it maybe. Good Luck
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