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writes:ok so me and my girl have been together goin on two years and lately she has been coming home and always says she's to tired to have sex but she gets off at 3 and then sits for 10 min, and dipss off to her moms house way in warner robins.. is she cheating??? we also just seperated bc we got in a big argument but we're still together and its been 2 days and i brought up about me coming bk home but she tells me she dosent want to rush bk into living togethr and the same thing happens again so i say cool but as i think on it i feel she's tryna be sneaky because she was lik i can cum back in a couple days....???? hmmmmanother sitation is now that im staing with my mom she hardly calls or interact with me now . it seems like im always the calling... im tryna make itwork bt i think she's cheating but then again i mite be over acting it or what................... i need advice Reply to this Question
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reader, 1000lies1000sorrys +, writes (10 February 2011):
 well i'd say talk to her about but somewhere but private. ask her if everything is ok. do you need sometime alone. just simple questions like this. bring up are you cheating on me very slowly.p.s. good luck i hope you get this all fixed.
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reader, redhead123 +, writes (10 February 2011):
so by giving her distance u mean??? stop being the one to call and just wait on her... i mean i try but im really in love with her and weve had trust issues in the past but now she lies to much but she claims she 'sgoin to stop over and over and thats y sum things i dnt believe wat she says ..... i grew up in foster care and her family is your ideal family but she 's just ............ tuck up under her mom and all i ask for is me time but now that im over here she acts like she dosent really be studdn me any more and it gets to my feeling and when i tell her about it . it seems to go in one ear for a min but da next its the same ol thing.... i just dnt know wat to do any more bc all we do is argue and we're just tryna make our relationship bk rite.........
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 I think you need to talk to her about how you are feeling. Her behaviour does seem a little bit odd if you ask me. Therefore the only way you are going to find out the truth is if you ask her. It sounds to me like she really does need some space. So after you ask her let her do the contacting for once and try and give her some distance.
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