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41-50,
*andagold
writes:Hi, I'm in my mid 30's and I've been friends with a girl for a couple of years, and in that time she has had a boyfriend for most of that time. They split up about 3 months ago and since then we have grown closer...as friends. Recently our mutual friends have told me that they think it is obvious that we like each other as more than friends and I would agree with that. She has gone out of her way to spend time with me.Anyway, I was literally just about to ask her to spend the day with me (on a date) next weekend when our mutual friend told me that her ex boyfriend is back on the scene. Picks her up from work, been out for dinner etc. They remained friends after they broke up but this now appears to be much more than that.I guess what I'd like to get advice on, is should I say anything at all to her about how I feel? My instinct tells me that she already knows and that clearly she still has feelings for her ex, so I should just leave it. Last thing I want to do is push her away when nobody is in the wrong and we can remain friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011): hi oh dear you must be gutted, ahe spends all her time with you when hes not around now hes back on the scene she goes cold turkey, do you know if shes bisexual has she told you this, by the sounds of things she maybe uncomfortable with your idea, she might not see you in the same way as you do her? eiether way i would wait and find out whats going on with her and her ex first before saying anything as you may push her away if you say anything too soon! good luck
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