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anonymous
writes:The other night i went a party and we were ment to be sleeping be there also, I knew people that were going but not that much and as soon as i got there a boy started flirting with me, he's lovely and gorgeous but the only thing is he has a girlfriend but through out the whole night he was complaining how he isn't happy with his girlfriends, hes friends also told me that its true and they are soon going to finish, so we kissed and ended up doing more, i know its wrong, we've been talking since then and he says he doesnt regret anything, but he's still with his girlfriend even though he says he doesnt want to be, and i just dont know what to do, because he acts like he likes me and he's intrested in me, but he is still not finishing with his girlfriend :/
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (24 August 2011):
 If he can have that conversation about his gf with you...
he could do the same thing to you.
He is looking for his back up plan if he decides to escape.
Some people leave a relationship mentally way before they leave physically.
He is showing you his charachter. If he can stay with a gf he does not want to be with and does not really care about..why would you want someone like that?
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reader, Thelaird1 +, writes (24 August 2011):
 To be honest, I don't think he has any intention of ending things with his gf. I get the feeling the guy is a player and you could be one of many. Steer clear of him and let a guy deserving of your heart find you. You deserve more than him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): "through out the whole night he was complaining how he isn't happy with his girlfriend"
You become his gf and then he will be talking about you behind your back just like he is about her.
Really, that is how it works.
Don't forget.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): He is lying to you honey. He will never be "finished" with his girlfriend. Or if you will become his girlfriend he will do teh same thing to you. Also, if you have been someones girlfriend would you like if he was complaining about you in the arms of another girl while making out with her? See! he was cute so what. There is soooooo many cute guys out there ready to be kissed and make out with them. You are young. Live it! And find one that is not a baby like this one was. The one that you can trust, the one that will adore you and WILL NOT HAVE A GIRLFRIEND THAT HE IS NOT FINISHED WITH! Common! He is still in "diapers".
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