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writes:I feel like I shouldn't be needing to post for suggestions to my problem at my age (37) but here goes! Sorry if its a little long.I have been divorced for 3 years now, have 3 teenage kids, who I love to bits. For a couple of years I had been skipping between 'bad guys' and never found anyone who treated me the way I wanted to be treated. Then came along current partner who is divorced, a few years older than me and has teenage kids too. We have been dating for around 9 months, get on brilliant,my kids like him and he likes them. He treats me well, loves me, buys me flowers etc. He stays over at the weekend and I notice that he is tidy, cleans up after himself etc etc. All is good and we are planning to get engaged at Christmas (we will have been together 15 months) - fine. Last week he asked if I would consider him moving in after we are engaged. It does make sense, he owns his own house and will rent it out and pay his way at my place (i rent). He has indicated that he wants us to buy a house together eventually. BUT - I am scared now, I've lived on my own for 3 years now, I've got used to my own space and I like it. I'm scared that its all going to go wrong. I feel a bit pressured. And due to all of this I am questioning my feelings for my guy. Surely if it was right I would be excited? I have started to have all kinds of mixed feelings and am emotionally turmoiled!! Can anyone shed a little light on all of this please??? Thanks you for any answers.
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