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*verlast
writes:ok well here is the deal.................I want a him and her vibrator for example ( cock ring and the jack rabit) but my husband is digusted by the fact of me wanting sum. I have oferd to buy him sum sex toys as well, but he refuses he says he has no need for one are sex life has recently goten lifted and now i just want diffirent kind of his and her vibrateing toys so we both can reek the benifit and so are sex life can have that extra spark. We have a sex swing that we use and restraints that we use to tie each other up with. So i dont know what can be diffirent from vibraters i need a lil advice in this because I have run out of ways in explaining to him that vibrateing toys arent that bad and he might actually like it. Need i add this is a man that enjoys public sex haha so whats the big deal with a dam vibrator.
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reader, everlast +, writes (24 June 2010):
everlast is verified as being by the original poster of the question hmmmmm u both have made me look a dif direction maybe it is over the top. I say him and her cuz he ocasionally like going bill clinton on me and puting things not a cigar but other sorta sexual things in my woman hood, so i though a vibrateing one wouldint be so bad. But about shopping with him ill try it this weekend so he can pick out what he thinks loos best for us i dont care what he picks as long as it can get used haha well thanks for feed back just needed a lil input
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 "As for the "jack rabbit" if I was him I'd feel intimidated too! It's a penis, but huge with all sorts of bells and whistles to make you orgasm in a snap."
I'm not familiar with this device, but my penis can't whistle so already I hate it.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (23 June 2010):
 A lot of men feel threatened by a vibrator, like it's going to replace him. If he doesn't want to add one, he doesn't want to add one, and for his sake you might want to drop the issue. Two things though. Do you NEED the vibrator to orgasm? If not I'd stop pressing the issue. And why would you want to buy those particular vibrators? They're both basically for you, not his and hers. As for the "jack rabbit" if I was him I'd feel intimidated too! It's a penis, but huge with all sorts of bells and whistles to make you orgasm in a snap. If I was a guy I wouldn't want my girlfriend bringing that anywhere near me, let alone her using it. If you want to introduce vibrators, grabbing the scariest (it has spinning parts) giant penis shaped one is a bad place to start. You can't use the jackrabbit with him really, it's a masturbation toy. Why would you want to try to introduce that? It's a little like saying, "hi, here's your replacement." I can understand using a small one to add some spice, but that's not a couple's toy usually. If you really are set on this, recommend shopping TOGETHER and point him to some fairly unscary looking ones. I'd stay pretty much exclusively in the bullet realm, at least for now.
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