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female
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anonymous
writes:It feels as though as me and my bf of 4 years have become just really good friends as opposed to boyfreind and girlfriend. He seems to be fine with the way things are but im not at all. We still have sex (so i guess you could say i feel like were really good friends with benefits haha) but thats the only time I feel like were actualy together. Theres no more touchy feelyness, kissing, or saying sweet things (on his part). I have tried talking to him about it and he just doesnt think those things are important (even though he used to do them). The more im neglected of it the more i realize how important it is to me. I don;t get how he cant think that stuff is important. I mean its the whole difference between feeling like a couple and feeling like just friends. Its like theres no more chemestry or spark. Is there a way to get that back? Have u had any experience with this sort of situation? I mean we do care a lot about each other and I love him so much but all this stuff is causing me to fall out of love with him (I still love him just not sure if im IN love with him anymore). I really want to be with him but know i cant if this is how its going to be so i need it to change!!! What can I do?
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