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writes:My best friend and I have been friends for 4 years now. And we both go to the same school. He started dating this girl that we both became really close too, and it came to the point where she fell for me over him. They broke up and we’re dating now. She has told her parents that they broke up, but she hasn’t told them that we’re dating. Her Ex always hangs out with her a lot because they are still really good friends, but It bugs, and hurts, me so much that I can’t do that. They’ve had their closure, and both have told me that they don’t have any feelings for the other anymore, that it’s just solid friendship. Since her parents down know about us, I can’t be over, but her ex is welcome to be there and hang with her. He can be there till 11 and then she drives him home. They text all the time, and she acts with me the same way she acts with him. I asked her if we could hang out, but I always get a no. I really don’t think it’s fair to me. My best friend, her ex, has a girlfriend now. She’s sweet, caring, and funny. I told my girl friend that I think it’s really not fair to me that this is happening, and I’m really jealous of this. She told me to relax, and it will all work out. She said that she’s with me. I want her to tell her parents. And I don’t know what else to do.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Why is she not telling her parents? What do they care which one of you she is dating? Why the secrecy? Why is she not allowed to have you over when her parents think you aren't dating (what is the threat), but an ex who her parents KNOW she's been with can? This is all very mysterious.
Well, it is unfair to you and very sketchy that she continually invites over, texts and hangs out with this other guy but not with you. Why does she keep rejecting you for outings when you are her boyfriend?? She doesn't sound like she's very enthusiastic about you!
This sounds like a lousy relationship. Unless she tells her parents and is proud and excited to be dating you, I don't think I'd stick around... you do not deserve to be kept secret! Good luck!
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reader, chita22  +, writes (20 December 2010):
 Sorry but that's realy shay. U need to step in and speak to her about it,if she had no problem speaking to her parents about him then there shouldn't be a problem w/u. And why is he @ her house till 11? He also has no respect for u maybe he's just trying to get u back for taking her from him. U realy need to open your eyes this whole thing just doesn't sound right your her man not him!!! I wouldn't talk to her parents about it. U need to talk to her A.S.A.P.
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