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writes:i have been dateing having sex with a man for 12 years he has been dateing his girl for about a year and a half he tell's me that he his not having sex with her but hs spen the night and go out of town with her is he useing me just for sex. Reply to this Question
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reader, answerlessdreams +, writes (20 December 2010):
"Going out of town with her" and "spending the night" should be clues. He seems like he is using you. Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't do anything about it, you know what to do.
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reader, TexInTheCity +, writes (20 December 2010):
Twelve years?!?! And now he has a new girl?!? What are you, his ok'd girl? No, this is wrong! Does he know how you feel about him?
If he does then girlfriend you have let him get away with this! If you want to be his only girl then you have to stick up for yourself. You've let him date another girl and still sleep with him? I know it's not a class you can take anywhere for but every college should be teaching ya'll about respecting your self. He's doing this cause you have stuck around for 12 years! Unstick around and go find that man who lives you and is faithful and doesn't suddenly up and decide you are fine with some on the side girl !
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