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writes:my ex-girlfriend broke up with me six months ago over my erectile dysfunction/uncertainty in the bedroom. Is there anything I can do? christmas card, her birthday in a few months, etc. I'm heartbroken, we were great together, and i just wish i could talk to her!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 December 2010):
 If you want to send her a friendly Christmas card and below "Merry Christmas!" write "P.S. I am on medication to rectify my issue." then go right ahead and take one last stab at it. But like I said it's a deal breaker for her and she's not going to come back. Good luck though.
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reader, sanger5467 +, writes (17 December 2010):
sanger5467 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI should have gone straight to the doctor about this--i was embarassed--i have rhem. arthritis and wasted time not taking my meds when that wasn't the problem--i am 47 and simply needed the (ed) pill. i got it now but we haven't spoken since Sep., she thinks i was nervous (ed will do that!) but said i was attentive and generous, better at "this" then most, etc. can i turn this around? A "light" xmas card?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 December 2010):
How long were you two together? Did you try to get medication for your ED?
Not gonna lie, sex gone bad, or bad sex in general is a deal breaker for some women. However, in your case their is medicine you can take to rectify that situation. Now, I completely agree she should have recognized this and helped you to take care of matters but she jetted. Nothing you can to do or say to bring her back. Your guy's sex life is a relationship breaker for her, it just doesn't work out in the bedroom. Instead, find a woman who can handle the fact you have ED and stick by you while you are proactive about finding a solution.
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (17 December 2010):
 Totally agree with dirtball. It sounds like the two of you didn't try alternatives to help you with your ED and she just left as it was the easier solution in her opinion. Maybe a Christmas card, but keep it friend-like - don't try to ask her back because she won't come back. You'll find somebody 10x better that loves you unconditionally.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 December 2010):
 I wouldn't do anything beyond a card. If she wasn't willing to stick it out through something like this, then I'd be questioning if she was really the person I wanted to be with. Instead of looking for solutions, she left. That doesn't speak highly of her. Maybe your energy would be better spent looking for someone who will accept you instead of someone who left you.
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