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age
30-35,
*tef02
writes:There's this guy I started developing feelings for were both the same age 19, I'll be 20 in a few weeks. We met in this internet-chat thing about 5 years ago. But we talked for a few months then stopped. He found me again on Facebook, I added him. We talked for a while then we met up.We kicked it for a few times then we had sex. I told him I was developing feelings and that I like him. He said he does to. Every time I see him I feel so happy and have butterflies and stuff. I actually don't believe him. He talks about girls like nothing. I have to text him 2 talk to me, if not he won't. I told him we should stop talking because i don't want to get hurt. He replied like always. I said yes because I'm getting hurt by you. He said that he likes me to and he doesn't reply because hes busy. I said it's all a game for him. He got mad that he wouldn't be lying about his feelings. So to cut it short. He says he likes me and stuff and would text me more often. I want to know what others think if it seems like a game or does he like me and what should I do I'm so confused???????????
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reader, dersita  +, writes (17 December 2010):
 Well maybe he's right. Maybe he IS busy. OR maybe your irritating him because you continuously keep contacting him! Just chill girl!
GUYS WILL BE GUYS. When their stressed they keep it all in and they start to become tricky to talk to or understand them. JUST CHILL OUT. EVERYTHING IS FINE!
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (17 December 2010):
It sounds like he's not that into you. It happens. Stop texting him. Let him go after you.
No matter how good a guy is, if you sleep with a guy quickly, then the relationship will not be as serious to him. It sounds like that's what happened here.
You can still get him, if you get him to go after you. You have to use your feminine whiles so to speak. Boys like to chase, as log as you don't tease too much. If you can't get him to chase, I think the relationship won't change from what it is right now. Might be time to move on. Good luck!
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