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writes:i'm 21 years old. 9 months ago i started a relationship with a 18 year old girl, at the beginning i tought i wouldn't fall in love for her and that neither she would, therefor i lie to her and prettended to be another person since the beginning, i lie to her in so many ways, past life, relationships, virginity and even little things as job ect. i had never fall in love before, sudendly i realized that she is all i ever wanted in life, she is just perfect for me, makes me feel invensible, happy, proud, and loved. things get more serius everyday, we keep falling and falling for each other and i know that if i tell her all the things that are not true about me i will hurt her feelings,and lose her or things would never be the same,special the lie about me being a virgin, that is really important for her. sometimes all this things kill me when i wake up, but sometimes i feel she is my life,and that i would collapse if i lose her,,please somebody tell me what to do, thanks you all... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): don't tell her it will only hurt you dude
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): You owe her the truth.
You know when you are decieving her about something that is important to her. Don't do it. Come clean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): Tell her you love simple as that
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): the sad part is you've fed her up with such huge pedastal like qualities that she'll probably not like the real you.. so be honest and tell her everything.. and why you told her the lies.. dont beat yourself.. just try and fix this.. and dont run off to any girl if she dumps u right now.. give her some time and talk to her again.. tell her you're sorry and you love her and she'll probably forgive you..
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): wow, ok this is why you DONT TELL LIES!! If you really love and respect this girl and want to make a life with her, you have to tell her the truth. Sit her down, and say that you are really really sorry, you wanted her to like you, and so you told her some lies, then tell her the truth, the whole truth and NOTHING but the truth. Then you just have to hope for the best and be prepared for her to leave you. But if she really loves you, she might stay, you just have to take it like a man really, sorry! And you will also have A LOT of trust work to make up to her if she does want to stay with you!
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