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writes:One year ago I underwent a radical prostatectomy and have been unable to achieve an erection without the use of a penis pump, obviously affecting our sex life. I am taking my wife on a princess caribbean cruise this december would like to know what I can do to subtley have her enjoy sex with another man as she is somewhat of a prude? Can you recommend a strategy I can use or cocktail that would make her receptive?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): You need to find out what she wants before making all these plans. She may not want to have sex with someone else. However, I have friends that are in your situation. About once every 3 months she has sex with a mutual friend of their. They have rules they go by so if you get to that point you may want to discuss what is ok and what's not. For example I know this sounds crazy) here's some of their rules. No kissing on the mouth, no anal play,husband must be at home,no secret phone calls or text messages, no disscussions about how or what they did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): Isn't it up to her? She may be quite content with everything else you can do. If you really think she wants to be physically satisfied with someone else, I would make sure she knew she has your support either way, and leave it up to her. I think pressure or any kind of deception would be a very bad idea.
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reader, Beingblack  +, writes (12 August 2010):
 A radical retropubic prostatectomy is a serious operation, and the complications can include impotence.
Have you tried viagra, instead of, or in conjunction with the pump? I would try anything, before even suggesting another man.
A woman of substance would never consider another man.
I know that you have placed her satisfaction at the top of your list, be it with you or someone else, but what about her? What will she think of you, for bringing up the subject of her having sex with a stranger?
I would tread carefully, and exhaust all of your possibilities first. Have you tried oral on her? Manual stimulation? If there is absolutely nothing that YOU can do, then ask if you could use a sex toy to give her some penetrative feeling.
In my opinion, a third party in the bedroom spells danger for all concerned.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): This question is incredible. Can we recommend 'a cocktail that would make her receptive' to having sex with another man against her will? You're asking us advice on how to drug your wife?
If she doesn't want to be with anyone else, I'd have thought you'd take that as a compliment. Unless she wants to, you have no business at all manipulating her into having sex with anyone else.
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