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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Would you feel guilt if this happened to someone you had dated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex for over 2 years. He dumped me out the blue for Space, which i gave him. But he Dumped me 2 days before i had some results from a MRI Scan i had. (he knew the results was coming, i had the Scan a week befiore the split ) I Didn’t speak to him for 8 months but ... (155 words)

Heart hurts for my teacher

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have the biggest "thing" for my teacher. I'm a male as is he, and it is probable that he may be gay as well. Not only is he my teacher (and will be for 3 years, including next), he is also a very respected and loved coach at our school. He is a completely different person on ... (230 words)

Why does he rub it in that he is going out with another?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello im thirteen,,,i know im young but in love with this boy. we have been hanging out 4 a while now n we are/were ready to start the relationship. ok the reason why were werent in the relationship already is because of my last relationship which i had gotten played!!!!!!! ... (244 words)

Are women just born to mistrust each other & be jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age - What causes women to become jealous over other women? I want to know if society has made women view each other as the enemy or are we born to distrust each other? ... (35 words)

In love & confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i was with my exbf for two months..i fell head ovr heels for him..he was really amazing and well he ended up breaking up with me bcuz he sed he wasnt ready and i guess wen i tld him i loved him he didnt take it the way i wanted him to..it sucks.2day is a month that weve ... (109 words)

When can I start kissing other women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. My partner/wife is an alcoholic who eats too much chocolate, watches really bad TV and mows the lawn the moment my back is turned. She had a stomach upset earlier this week but is better now. She wants me to go to the tip at some point this weekend but I'd rather postpone ... (81 words)

The pill & side effects

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - this isnt relationship, dating, love or sex question but here goes. . . me and my mum went to the doctors yesterday about me going on the pill because i have unbearable period pains and and am very very heavy bleeder. i really would like to go on because also i am sexually... (127 words)

My best guy friend is getting bullied by his twin brother?

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23 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - well basically the brother is like much more confident and my guy friend is really shy and the brother does like loads of sports like rugby because he likes contact sports and beating everyone up but my guy friend hates those kinds of sports but loves drawing and for this his ... (115 words)

Can't have anal sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem, embarcing one by the way,,,, i keep trying having anal sex with my boyfriend but i end up crying and shivering , i don't know why,although i want to but the moment i know it's gonna happen i could simply jump off , can any one help....... (51 words)

Tips on dating french men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just started dating a French guy. He has spent lots of time abroad, and speaks English fluently. But so far we have had a few awkward moments that I'm sure are down to cultural differences. Sometimes he seems to be so cold and stand-offish, but then other times he s... (155 words)

I'm liking him more and more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, ive liked this boy for 4months and i told him 3 months ago and nothing happened. and then i asked him out 3 days ago. he said no because he doesn't want to see the person he goes out with everyday. im really close with him hes one of my best friends, but i think im really ... (109 words)

I feel used and stupid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was in love with my ex boyfriend who name was brandon . we broke up and he started datting my best friend alliyah. i than started datting my bestfriend micheal and thing's were going great. but i was still in love with brandon. he knew how much feeling's ihad for him. so one ... (219 words)

He wants to be with me but we are just too far apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated a guy long distance a few years ago. He recently contacted me saying he was thinking about the past and could never forget me. He calls me beautiful and when we text he will type a 3 at the end. I asked him what our relationship was and he said he didn't know. And I ... (184 words)

I love my third cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met my third cousin last April, she is from US and Im from our hometown here in Asia. At first, we respect each other and just hand around and keep each other company for she dont know someone from here so it is me, the only person who can get her to places. She lived next to ... (525 words)

Teacher--I know its way more than a crush!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do i am in love with my teacher! I have never felt this way about anyone and i know it's more way than a crush. He is 25 and i am almost 16. We have such a close relationship that i don't even think of him as a teacher. I can literally talk to him about ... (246 words)

This girl keeps looking at me shyly, then looks away all the time, does she like me, should I talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - am 19 years old just getting to 20 this year am cute too.there is a girl of about 15 years old just a neighbour to my friend when my friend brought me to their house i saw this girl and she was some kind of shy looking at me which caused her to remove her face and this has ... (175 words)

Would love to have him as a boyfriend, but he is not yet that interested, what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, So i've been seeing a new guy for about 4 weeks. We've had a bit of a 'fumble' and I've given him oral sex. The night that i gave him oral sex, i text him asking what we were. We aren't friends but we aren't a couple officially either. His response was he ... (144 words)

What is it that tells you that an older guy likes you, I'm 14, he is in his twenties?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How does a 14 year old girl tell if a grown man likes her? Cuz my friend tells me that this guy ( in his 20's acted like he liked me). Please give me some ways i could tell if a older guy likes me.... (49 words)

Should girls shave their pubic hair, or do guys find it attractive?

This question has 130 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i hope no one thinks im nasty or something but should girls shave pubic hair? or do guys find it attractive for girls to have it? im not haveing sex or anything i just wanted to know? ... (38 words)

When Your Boyfriend and Your Best Friend Betray You, All Trust is Lost!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how will i gain my trust back from my boyfriend he cheated on me with my best friend who stayed the night and i wanted a bath so i did and there was a spider i there so i called him and he had an hard-on so i just told him too get out and that!!!! and then i was having a nice ... (334 words)

Should I still pursue my dreams, even though I am thirty years old?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ever since I had my birthday, something has really been bothering me, and lately, it's been torturing me. I feel like people need to have dreams, because dreams are the things that make life worth living. I don't want to die, but I'm scared to death because I've had an epip... (621 words)

We broke up but are still friends, she wants this, I'm very uncomfortable about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my girlfriend a month ago....she was(and still is) deeply and madly in love with me whereas i soon realised that she isnt the one i am looking for....so before it got too late, i broke it off without any warning and she was devastated...she became really panicky ... (607 words)

Do we stay together and then break up in September?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay I'm in a complicated situation. my gf and i recently got back together after about a month. we broke up mainly cause she was like in love with my cuousin and she always talked to him and about him. he wasnt at our school for the 2 semester cause he moved. hes coming back ... (155 words)

Boyfriend falls for fake dating site profile, how to confront him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there I need some advice please. I met this guy on an internet dating site we have been together about 3 and a half months and it was going well until I realised he was still checking the site everyday, I was doing this as well but I deleted my account after 2 month... (238 words)

Daughter doesn't like my boyfriend at all!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age - help i'v been seeing jon for nine months after being on my own for almost 2 years. my 17 year old daughter doesn't like him. she says he gets on her nerves and she can't stand him. i can tell this when he comes to my house. she really says nasty things about him. my... (213 words)

Fantasizing about my boyfriend's brother, to the point of dreaming about him, should I see a therapist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - when my boyfriend was locked up his brother hit on me a lot, we worked together. he is married and they have an open marriage. it seems to work for them. granted i wont deny there was an attraction there to this guy because i wouldn't have written about it if there wasn't. ... (365 words)

She sympathizes with me, but doesn't say she loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am really in love with a lady of about 19-20,a student. I am pulsating with emotion for her, dying to always be with her.I told her my mind but she didn't say anything. anytime i express my emotions to her she sympathizes with me but wont tell me she loves me too, though she ... (110 words)

Lies lead to breakup

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex boyfriend dumped me in a txt because he thought my mum said to his mum that she is a bad parent. His behaviour is terrible, he told my parents he punches walls and showed his knuckles to them and just behaves awful in my house infront of them. He cries when i ask him to ... (283 words)

I feel like I'm his mother and he's the older one!

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I moved in with my boyfriend instead of going home after the first time we met. I would not have just done that if he hadn't have asked but he did and so i was willing, obviously, i really liked him and we didnt wanna leave each other. I moved cities to be with him. He knew he ... (244 words)

I'm scared I might ruin things

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two months and things are as perfect as can be but i am scared that something bad might happen and i dont want that to happen. i often ask myself do i deserve him and i can never answer it because i am so confused. my current ... (123 words)

He doesn't understand that I'm quiet and that's my way of dealing with things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend thinks i'm avoiding his friends but i'm not, i just feel awkward around people i dont know. I've always been the same, i'm very quiet at first and i dont speak unless im spoken to. When i'm comfortable in someones company i will add my own conversation in and ... (304 words)

I've never had a guy be faithful to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Since I been dating I have never had a guy that that has been faithful to me. They all cheated. The guy that treated me the best was married and he said he never had any dealing with his wife, because they were done. If he was still living with her does that make him a cheater ... (83 words)

My pride is gone and not sure how to recover it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello every body. I have got a little problem with luck a I would like to leave this out, I am really pissed off in this moment. As some of you might know, I'm living in Germany. Yesterday, me and my friends went out in Hamburg, a huge city in the northen side of Germany.... (622 words)

When I ask if something is wrong he says no, but it sure seems like something is wrong

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been "seeing" a guy for a about 3 months. After about the first month he stopped calling so I assumed it wasn't going anywhere. I found out I was pregnant about a week later...yes we used protection and yes it was 100% his. I did tell him but suggested that I end the ... (225 words)

My husband says he wishes I didn't want sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - My husband says,he wishes I wouldn't want him to be sexual with me,as he never feels any desire, and it is leading him, not getting an erection at all.And he feels bad about this. i asked him,if it's over, but he says no.he wants me... What can cause this ,when a man don't wa... (67 words)

Trouble at work with an older lady

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Why do people think that they can treat you any kind of way because you try to be nice and mature. I work at a place with a lot of imature and low down people. My supervisor is the same age as my mother and and acts more like a 15 year old. Since I have been out there I have ... (542 words)

Never been kissed, never had a g/f!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know whats wrong with me i'm 18 and never been kissed i've never had a girlfriend.i've had a few friends who are girls but nothing happened i have very low self esteem and don't think highly of my self i'm not good looking and a bit over weight... (50 words)

In love with my teacher for 4 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im getting really annoyed cuz my post keeps getting rejected for some reason but hopefully this one goes through. I fell head over heels for my science teacher in 8th grade. He's about thirteen yrs older than me and I'm now a junior in high school. Within these last 3 yrs ... (703 words)

I don't want to go through life with an ugly surname!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Many people won't understand how I feel, but I have a surname that I have hated since I was a child, so much that it feels like a burden to me. I know there are much bigger problems, but it bothers me to have an ugly, generic name that I don't identify with. I hate how my f... (492 words)

Does he like me or is it a joke? And how do I make it more obvious I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really confused right now. I like this guy who I think he likes me. Once in a while, he would say he loves me and misses me on msn; but...I don't know if he's actually talking real or kidding, so I just take it as him joking. Then, he asked me to be his date for prom (and ... (300 words)

Boyfriend goes mad when I check his laptop but does the same to mine. How do I check up on him without him knowing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend and we’re been together nearly 3 years now. I have a trust issue; it’s just that I always found out that he’s chatting with some women behind my back. He watches porn/hentai. He even created new msn account. Last year I found out his new msn account and ... (243 words)

Boyfriend meets up with a girl late at night but insists he only wants me... Should I be jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now on and off, for reasons which weren't our fault i.e. family members going into hospital and depression and stress due to it. We finally seem to be back on track again for the last two months, however he used to p... (359 words)

Marriage problems... husband says he'll kill himself if the family breaks up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - I am totally confused at the moment. I am a married mum of three young boys one of which has special needs and we are going through a tough time at the moment trying to get him into a new school. I am by no means a perfect person in anyway but I am struggling to de... (623 words)

Is there a way to stop having sex dreams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a 15 years old and sometimes i have sex dreams.. i guess its meant to be natural but the problem is a while ago i went on holiday with my family and had to share the bed with my mum. The next day my mum said that i was moving a lot when i was sleeping. so i was having a sex ... (124 words)

What would make a friend that was so close suddenly not talk to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What would make a friend that was so close suddenly not talk to you? This guy that liked me was close and we were just friends until one day he was silent. I think something happened but if he doesn't want to talk about it I can't make him. I will just have to deal with the ... (66 words)

61, tired of living in a sexless marriage, I have needs, what do you suggest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age - I have lived in a sexless marriage now for 9 years.Husband had guillian barre which he blames for the problem. have been married 40 years am aged 61 but still feel I have needs, am i normal to want sex? husband will have NOTHING to do with me intimacy wise, he does not accept ... (149 words)

Why does vaginal flatulence happen? How can I make my vagina smell nicely?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does farting sounds come from vagina even not during sex. will these sounds disappoint boys?pls suggest. also tell me how can i make my vagina smell pleasant?... (28 words)

Bullied by my flatmates and now I've lost my confidence... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and I live (well just now) with 3 girls and a guy. We all go to the same university and knew each other from halls last year. This year has been stressful. I thought it was just moving not a house with new people that was the problem. One of the girls I have assumed h... (334 words)

First time sex, why could he not get the entire length of his penis inside me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last week and it was ok but he couldnt get the entire length of his penis inside me because when he got a certain place inside me it hurt and he couldnt get any further in. this happens when i wear tampons too. i often cant weat ... (89 words)

I hate being gay! Can I become heterosexual by taking medication?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I HATE BEING GAY. can we deliberately convert a gay person into heterosexual by means of medical treatment? (i.e. hormone injections, hormone medications (such as??))... (25 words)

Possible yeast infection please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I have yeast infection for many years now. I didn't realize it first because I was young. I have white/cheesy discharge when I was around 12-15 yo then its stop. It’s kind of on and off. I also have abnormal menstruation cycle (the longest were 6 mo and currently I ... (341 words)

Is it possible he's just stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy Ive liked for over 3 years now, and we became really flirty and really good friends with eachother (over the internet). Last year, we finally met up with eachother. The first time he took me out for dinner, the second time he invited me over for a few days, he paid ... (587 words)

I don't know where my life is headed or even where I want it to head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old, i'm living in a one bedroom flat with my 28 year old boyfriend who goes out to work for eight hours every day, and generally comes home tired or in a mood. We have a kiss and a cuddle, maybe watch a film, he'll cook us some tea then we go to bed for sex and ... (280 words)

I think I scared him off..now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing this guy, a couple of times, he has a kid, he cancelled to see me yesterday, so i went out with friends got drunk, then he texted me saying so sorry for cancelling, i text back saying it shame as wanted to see you, but we texted back and forth a few times and he ... (138 words)

I cry alot and don't know why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with someone 4 years older than me. He's really nice and I used to talk to him online a lot. Recently, he's gotten distant and seems to be ignoring me.(I know him from school) I know some of the songs that he likes through talking to him, and stuff like that.... (109 words)

Can pre-ejaculation cause pregnancy??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - if one has sex,but ejaculation is not done ,then does a women has chances to be pregnant without ejaculation.or is it natural that even if ejaculation is not done,then too sperms are released into a females body.plz help..!!... (38 words)

Her mom says "Don't have a boyfriend right now"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 17, this girl i like is 18, she is one of my closest freinds. i recently told her i think i am in love with her, and after about a week she started to feel the same. we started going on walks and just doing things like ringing each other late in the night, and getting ... (197 words)

She's more experienced than me sexually and its turning into a problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

- Hi guys. I have a bit of a problem at the moment. I've recently started seeing a girl 3 months ago, she is more experienced than me at sex (dont get me wrong I am too) but recently I seem to be very nervous about having sex with her. Firstly, I am turned on whilst having se... (159 words)

Man I'm involved with is becoming rather cocky

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age - How should i address this please,I am begining to think the man i am involved with is becoming kinda cocky with me and i'm not sure what to do.Today when i said to him my days would not be the same without the kisses am hugs you send me everyday ,he replies with an "I know" ... (69 words)

He isn't the one for me, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys. so i've been dating this guy for nearly 4 years now,and he isn't most sweet/thoughtful/expressive/romantic guy around (i knew this before we got together). he apologises for not doing 'nice things' and tells me he appreciates that i've hung around for so long, and i ... (586 words)

Am I prude?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I have kind of a weird question and maybe some of you will think nothing of this but here it goes... I started hanging out with my ex boyfriend from Highschool we have not like seen each other in like 7 yrs nothing romantic he likes me but I told him I'm not ready for a re... (220 words)

I want to believe that I believe her, but I'm sure I don't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Girlfriend cheated over 2 months ago,she says shes sorry n she did sleep wt her cheat! i believe her! or atleast dats wat i wnt 2 believe!2 months down the line she has decided 2 b a religious freak and she doesnt want to have sex anymore! she says shes doin it to gain some ... (101 words)

My girlfriend doesn't show me any affection.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

- My girlfriend doesn't show me any affection. We've dated for 6 months and I've mentioned it many times. However I have yet to notice any difference. She doesn't kiss me, I have to kiss her, she doesn't want to hug me I have to hug her, she doesn't like to hold my hand and she ... (166 words)

My fault that he is unhappy and depression

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - (Mod Note: Two questions merged.) 1) Ok well I been with a guy since I was bout 13 an im 21 now we have a kid dats 6mos we seem to love eachother but he acts like its my fault that he is unhappy with the female he is with now so my question is do anyone thinks he is just ups... (116 words)

No protection, change of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend yesterday but without protection.my periods date is coming nearer,one day after,ie tomorrow.Do i have chances to get pregnant by chance.... (26 words)

I was sweaty and smelly. Did this ruin my chances with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Everybody, Basically, I was at university playing some pickup soccer with some of my friends, but there was this new girl playing with us and she had to guard me, so i was taking it easy on her and everything right, but I noticed that she kept smiling at me in that way, ... (214 words)

Two boyfriends. If only they were one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im seventeen and I need help with something. I have two boyfriends and I really didn't feel bad about it before because I only got into this second relationship because my boyfriend of five months lets just call him Tyrese has been busy with work lately and hasn't had much ... (172 words)

My boy is emotionally unstable and it's driving me away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok my boyfriend is totally sweet and i really care about him but he is extremely emotionally unstable and i dont want to hurt him but there is a guy from my passed ho has recently came back into my life who is totally amayzing ive known him for like three years and he asked me ... (84 words)

Lost interest in him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I loved my hubby,like any thing...in the starting of our marriage.. but time flied and those time he didnt give me those pals of happiness I felt all he wanted that time was sex nothing else.... Now after 2 and half years of marriage life I feel I am lossing love with him.. I ... (93 words)

Can someone encourage me to go speak to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a 15 years old. This Girl that is new to my school is really pretty. I know she has seemed me alot of time. I dont know her name but i want to talk to her without embarrasing myself. I am goin to be myself if i do talk to her but how can i talk to her.... (59 words)

My lover won't hold my hand due to me being a soon-to-be divorced woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

23 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this man for almost four years, but he will not even hold my hand because I am a married woman, but I have told him that in my eyes, I am not a married woman because my soon to be ex-husband was molesting our three children, including having sex with our ... (192 words)

Something is missing in all my intimate relationships

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23/female and have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. Before him, I was in a relationship that lasted 5 years, minus a few breaks here and there. Before that, I pretty much always had a boyfriend. I truly do love my current boyfriend, we are old friends from tee... (410 words)

He wants to get married, but I question his motives

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a young parent. My daughter is a year and half. I'm 6 months pregnant with my second child. They don't have the same dad. The guy I'm dating has talked about wanting both the kids to have his last name. He wants to get married soon. He even asked me if he could help name ... (121 words)

I want to go to Harvey Milk High School, but...

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im bi, and i was thinking about going to harvey milk high school but i dont know how to tell my parents im bi. what should i do?... (28 words)

I'm alone in my world and no one to love me

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23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Everyday, it's the samething for poor lil' ol' me: I eat, sleep, play (video games), use the internet a lot, and that's it. The only times I ever really go outside are when I need to buy something and when I have an appointment. Sad, but true. Hello, I'm 20, have NO friends,... (280 words)

We broke up because we go to different schools. Help!

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23 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - There is this girl that I met about a year ago and I instantly liked her. Recently we started dating and we really connected. I learned things about her and she learned things about me if you know what I mean. But today she said it wasn't going to work out because we go to ... (116 words)

The worst haircut of my life! How do I tell her?

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend who is in beauty school (almost done) , cut my hair the other day. she did such a bad job, what makes it worse she loves it. my husband said it kind of looks like an 80s mullet, :/ my mom just said omg. i called my cousin who has been a beautician for over four years ... (107 words)

My sister and I got in a bad fight and I called her fat, should I apologize?

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister and I got in a big fight last week, I called her fat and pathetic and it made her cry. But I don't know if I should feel bad and I don't want to apologize because she pushed me until I snapped. Ok, here's a little background so you can better understand the situation. ... (719 words)

Tell me what to do to get over this man!??

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23 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Will I ever get over the man I love? Do I need to stop all communication with him to get over him?... (22 words)

When I mention his wife, he changes the subject. Should I stop?

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male friend with whom I email and communicate quite often. He´s GI married to another GI. They live across the country. He shares a little bit of their life but in a very general way. What makes me feel uncomfortable is the fact that whenever I mention his wife... (238 words)

Is there a button I can push on this guy to show him I'm here for more than sex??

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi!For the first or second time,I write about a non sexual related issue . Well,I have this bf for about 1 year and a half ,besides our relationship ,we also work together.So we sleep together ,work together ,go to work together ,and he is always at my place .So I am alone on... (250 words)

How long am I suppose to wait here??

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - what is the standard wait time to be there and support a guy with no income, paying the household bills and married to another woman even if they are no longer together?... (32 words)

He's addicted to porn, boring and I'm sick of it!

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 3 1/2 years and already feel as if I made one big mistake :-( My husband is EXTREMELY boring in every sense of the word. He does not stimulate me at all. His conversation is one and only one topic and even with that topic it is usually the same stuff ... (146 words)

When he wants more sex, he just texts me for it...I don't like it!

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been hooking up with this guy on and off, and sometimes he doesn't live up to his word and doesnt show. Sometimes after we have sex, he doesnt talk to me for a while or we get into a huge fight a few days later. and then when he wants more, he texts me for it! he is not ... (120 words)

Relationship with my former teacher

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused right now, and just need a second unbiased opinion. Basically I'm contemplating what kind of a relationship I'm going to have with my now former teacher.professional, personal, or VERY personal. I have always liked her, a couple of years ago, I started... (492 words)

Sex with a non-blood related aunt

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23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - is it incest to have sex with aunt who is not your blood type. ... (18 words)

Divorce a husband I don't want to see

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23 May 2009 (F)

age - How should I divorce my husband ,if I don't want to see him, for a while? My children are grown ups, could they understand , that I do'nt want any contact with their dad? Would they accept, I don't want to see them for a while,for that reason,?I think ,they wouldn;t underst... (111 words)

My girl's ethnic preference has got me down.. Don't wanna be racist, and don't think I am. But it still smarts!

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23 May 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now, and everything has been great. She's warm, funny, loving, great in bed, and on and on. I love her. Hell yeah I do! And we are about to move in together. Sounds great, right? It is, BUT.. I've been hung up on something for th... (1050 words)

What does sex feel like? I was born with no clitorus!

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so the last thread totally didn't work because i did it wrong so here I’ll explain everything. i have NEVER had ANY feeling at all down there, ever, like since birth, basically, i don't have a clit. got no gspot, nothing. I’m gonna go to the doctors but it hasn't ... (207 words)

Are we broken up or is he just angry with me?

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i got into a huge argument a few days ago and well we broke up he is being totally contradictory in his statements.... he will not tell me that he does not love me or that he doesnt want to be with me and i asked him are we single he says i guess so! so what i ... (98 words)

Should I be getting my hopes up?

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have started talking to my ex again, and he has started putting "x" at the end of his emails and online chat again. "sweet dreams x" and so forth, we live in different countries so getting back together would be much harder, I hear in the UK "x" is used very casually, so ... (61 words)

How do you learn to love somebody more than the person you wanted to be with for the rest of your life?

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23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, I've only ever had one real relationship, and it was long distance. My relationship was the best time of my life, and now that's over I don't feel like I will ever love somebody as much as I loved her. I miss her so much, but we're finished for good. It's been 8 months ... (100 words)

How do you back-off emotionally or withdraw emotionally in a relationship.

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23 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you effectively back-away emotionally from a partner in a relationship. I've been with my fiance for 4 years. Lately she's been giving me really weird vibes and is very unclear as what she really wants from me. We were supposed to get married in December, (we go... (209 words)

I'm in heaps of pain. Does any one know what could cause this?

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was born i didnt respond to sound, i was deaf then i went for operations for tubes and stuff and got my hearing back. Ever since i get a full on painful (spasm?) or vibration in my head. Kind of hard to explain, some times it just wont stop for hours and i have to sit ... (135 words)

How can I change my parent's minds?

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23 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well my bf and i have been dating for a months or so now and he wants to go out to the movies this weekend problem is my parents won't let me. I'm 15 and I'm really responsible. I know the obvious reasons why they don't want me to go out with him but i still really wanna ... (101 words)

Who is right here?

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23 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, here at home, there is a little dilemma going on between my mum and my 25 year old brother: my mum does not want my brother bringing his gf over into his bedroom because she says that them sleeping together is "sexually immoral." she says that because she is the "head of ... (159 words)

Help... confused here!

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23 May 2009 (M) - Ok I have known this girl for a while, over 4 years, and we have dated for a little over 2 years, on and off, right now we are not together, we have had our bumps in the road, and we never broke it off cause of anything we did to each other, but cause of family issues ... (382 words)