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writes:I don't know whats wrong with me i'm 18 and never been kissed i've never had a girlfriend.i've had a few friends who are girls but nothing happened i have very low self esteem and don't think highly of my self i'm not good looking and a bit over weight
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reader, 8 ball  +, writes (1 June 2009):
 well your only 18 for the 10000 time bro i mean you have a whole life ahead of you some people rush into things so fast and things dont even work out somebody gets pregent or heartbroken because of the rush society shows you that you need to be in through tv radio internet ect... but bro im tellin you if you just wait you will find not only the one for you but true love will come with it as i did i am 18 as well and i started dating my gf in april n we are still together i love her i searched all my life for someone but it wasnt until i stopped looking until god sent her to me or vice versa but newho and about the self asteem issues god makes no mistakes this is how i look at it people sleep when there sleepy wake when there not people walk when they need to and drive when they need to so eat when you need to bro if u hungry eat but think if you eat once and you know you will survive without eating 2 hours later then dont eat and yea work out but bro you are who you are no matter wat you look like on the outside so remember that and remember there are other people in this world in worse shape than you i mean ppl with there faces blown off and burned in fires and wars and fights n all sorts of stuff people with med conditions were they have big tumers on there faces n things of that nature bro just go with what you have and you'll be fine just be pateint im tellin you are worse timeing is gods perfect timeing dont forget it
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reader, paul33 +, writes (23 May 2009):
hey hun i agree you need to get your self confidence back and your only 18 and things will change when you get older. Youll be ok. Id rather be you right now then me. Im not going to get in my situation or anything but be proud of who you are and im sure youll have a g/f in time.. Things are not all that bad. Im not trying to be an ass or anything but you will be ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009): your only 18, thats not a big deal. you need to acknowledge your self esteem isues, develop your interests. when your not so invested in this 'issue' you will find yourself more appealing to the opposite sex. girls are attracted to confidence in your abilities above all. show that you dont need to be kissed, that you are contented with who you are and then you need to get out there and meet people.
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reader, gemmaxx09  +, writes (23 May 2009):
 your only 18, i wouldnt worry, im 20 and had my first bf at 19, thort id never have a bf coz i had such low self esteem, until u feel good about urself and learn to love your self for who u r, u will find somebody special. One day you will meet a person that loves you for you and thats better than just kissing anyone.
You say you are a bit over weight, would you feel any better about yourself if you lost weight. You need to love your self in the inside first then if you still feel bad about your body, lose weight for yourself.
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reader, arie +, writes (23 May 2009):
 ok first of all u have to boost your confidence. look in the mirror and tell yourself that u are handsome. if u say that u are not goodlooking then you are not. u must put on the confidence and people will recognize it. mabe u can start asking girls on dates and or mabe get some of your friends to set u up on a blind date. so what that you are over weight, if ur really that upset that you are, start exercising and really stick too it. but god made u the way you are for a reason, dont change yourself for someone else. if you are unhappy with your life then it is your job to change it. oh and sometimes you may be looking for the right people in the wrong places, so pick a variety and be yourself most importantly! good luck i hope u liked my advice.
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