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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you think he'll miss me enough to give me a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - As soon as I met my now ex I had a huge crush on him, but he completely dissed me. So a couple of months later when I had completely forgotten about him I had him for a class. We started talking for about two or three months then he asked me to be his girlfriend. Well now it's ... (305 words)

Going to meet his family but I'm not allowed to kiss him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok, I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He asked me to meet his family who live 5 hours away. I said yes. We are going to spend a week with them at the end of the month. Yesterday he told me that we wouldnt be able to sleep in the same room when we got to his paretns ... (124 words)

I need opinions here. Does she fancy me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - There is this girl I like in my class (only class we share) and i want to know if she likes me before I ask her. It started in one of first lessons when a couple of her friends told me she fancied me, although these girls have been known to wind people up like this. Now 6 ... (107 words)

Why does having sex with someone make me start to have feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does having sex with someone make me start to have feelings? I've been having a sexual relationship with a guy I hardly know off and on for a year and sometimes I feel like I love him I know this can't be true just wondering why sex causes that feeling and is it the same ... (59 words)

Erection often around gf. Advice ladies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been on several dates with a really nice girl and I can't really control getting an erection when I am around her (usually it is only when we are alone together). Sometimes it can be a hug, the way she looks at me, cuddling, holding my hand, or whatever. It doesn't seem ... (202 words)

Is it more simple that I'm thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I have recently started seeing a women who is in her early 20's. We're very different, but she always has a way to make me smile. The problem is she does confuse me in the way she acts around me. For example she goes very hot and cold. We'll have a lovely evening, theres ... (820 words)

Mister sadness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Yea i was dating a girl for over a year and she started talking to another guy to date while we were datin. NOW we broke up and i moved on and i still have feelings for her and now she wants me back because i started datin another girl what do i do ... (54 words)

They pick on me..do they like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I am in highschool. A freshmen. There is this girl that started to pick on me. Then she tells me to shutup when i talk. Then she tells me she hates me than that she is just joking. But she finds anything to say to talk to me. Does rhe like me. ps. There are 2 other girls that ... (63 words)

Can he hold a grudge and be over me at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I was with my boyfriend for almost a year. We broke up and really it was my fault. I had cheated on him and during the first months of our relationship i actually liked his friend, which he later found out. However, after i told him that i had been with someone else, we had a... (258 words)

New feelings, renew the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 192 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Me and this girl, we've known each other for like long than I can remember, we're best friends, back in 06 round february time we broke up after a 9 month relationship witch ripped us both appart for quite a while, we're both close again, then early 2008 I developed feelings ... (91 words)

Gambling & trannies and its left me broken

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm writin this as i would like to know if this has ever happened to anyone else? i was in a relationship for 4 n half yrs we have 2 kids.i knew he gambled a little but i was in for a shock last yr i found out he had remorgaged his house and blew the whole lot gambling he got o... (361 words)

She showed up late, made me pay, then texted another guy during a date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Heya, this is going to sound rather stupid but whatever. Not too long ago, I went to the cinemas with a girl who comes into the shop I work at. I was very optimistic about how the evening would go, but I knew it was going to go bad when she showed up late, not her fault, b... (140 words)

He's not that shy, so what is he up to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - When a guy takes your face in his hands and looks you in the eyes, while being quite close to you does it mean he wants you to kiss him? What else can it mean? This guy is always close to my face, so close I think by shear accident I could kiss him. He's not that shy, so ... (66 words)

I don't want to feel rejected...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I broke up with a boyfriend who i was with for a year and a half as you know. We both still get jealous when we each date, but im assuming that is normal. Another guy asked me out and i said yes partially to make my ex jealous. i don't have any feelings for this guy. i did at ... (155 words)

Lost in lust and letting guys use me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok well i have this problem, i tend to let guys use me, and i dont know why, i say no but there so hot and good looking that i cave and be sexual with them, but then i end up falling for them and want more but then they stop talking to me and dont want anything to do with me, ... (73 words)

Destroyed & obsessed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok it's like this. I just wrote out this whole thing about my experience and deleted it because I'm tired of reliving it. The point is is that it's been almost three months and I am completely obssesed with my ex-girlfriend. We were only together four months! When will it go ... (607 words)

Keeping an open mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - girls is it a trun on for your guy to be open minded and open to try anything that u want to try?If so would u do the same for him?Whats the one thing u have always wanted to try but have never told anyone?... (45 words)

Snide comments are making me feel down... how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't understand why I feel like this. I just co ordinated an evening at school and it went brilliantly. However there were people in my school year who kept making snide comments, looking me up and down, talking about me. Ok so I looked smart, thats the point of doing ... (132 words)

I think I look like a troll and am tired of it all

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am so tired of being alone and no boyfriend,i thinks mostly because i am ugly and unpopular .no body really bothers with me,... (24 words)

Can't seem to leave the ex behind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i need some advice :( i split up with my boyfriend of 8month shortly after valentines day he dumped me quite a few times, he cudnt make up his mind wether he liked me or not and wen he realised he did he always came back, well this time he hadnt so i cried and cried and cried, ... (234 words)

Do I need to let her he rebound relationship run its course?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Heres my story, I have known this girl my whole life, shes lived down the street from me, we have always liked each other and finally started talking at a party she came to at my house about 5 years ago. We had a great first 6 months and then I deployed with the Marines ... (293 words)

What does his body language reveal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - When a guy can't make eye contact with you, what does it mean? If i try to make eye contact with him he just looks straight ahead and wont look at me when he talks to me or he'll look at me for a split second then look down quick. Then if i'm not looking at him, he'll look rig... (86 words)

Have not seen my pregnant girlfriend in a month

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met my girlfriend and we hit it off right away. She is 28 and i am 29. From the day we met we spent every day together for 45 days, and fell in love. She was on birth control for 10 years and never got pregnant but for some reason she happened to get pregnant probly the first ... (563 words)

My girl wants to use a strap-on, on me

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My girl friend asked me if i would let her use a strap-on on me.i told her i would have to think about it and i just dont know what to tell her now.i dont know if that would make me gay... (42 words)

Compromises for the economics of love and friendship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

13 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - This has a multi-part question and may be a bit long. I apologize beforehand for the misfortune of having anyone read it, if they choose to. As I age, I have grown weary of the economics of all kinds of relationships. Lingering friendships that continue to run on their ham... (362 words)

Was this misunderstanding blown out of proportion or was I being insensitive?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help, I am completely baffled. So yesterday, my boyfriend and i made plans to play tennis. On the way to the court, my friend was checking his stocks on his blackberry and then when we got to the court, it was being occupied. The players said they would be five more ... (564 words)

He likes me, he likes me not, he likes me, he...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - well i have had a crush on a boy for 7 months now and we have been on a rollercoaster over the past few months. in the past, he has told me that he has liked me but after 5 days, he says that he doesnt mean it. However, when out at a social gathering two weekends ago, he said ... (102 words)

Am I overreacting to him choosing his acting passion over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now, and living together for a year. He's my first long-term relationship so I don't have much experience. I went on an exchange program to Japan last year and that's when it all started. I was supposed to stay... (282 words)

Sleeping while partner has sex with me

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - hi plz help, in a normal relationship is it right that u should wake up and find your partner has had or is having sex with you this has happend so many times. xxxxxx... (34 words)

Getting over someone you absolutely adore

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) age 26-29 - What is the best way to get over someone whom you love so very much , but they have lost all love for you?... (24 words)

I'm oblivious to the study of law, yet I want in

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, I wanna go into Law in the future. I was wondering if anyone knew what I would do if I had to defend someone who was guilty of domestic violence. Would I have to defend him if people knew he was guilty? Is it bad? Thanks... (49 words)

The waiting game killed our potential friendship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - At the beginning of this year i was going through a messy break-up and suffered depression as i had a miscarriage towards the end of that relationship and because my bf was in the army he was always away and couldn't be there for me when i needed him. Anyway, a few weeks la... (232 words)

Girlfriend entertaining 'dirty' chat from other man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - (Please see the 'Can you trust a serial cheater' thread for background details if needed) In summary, I am in a relationship that lacks trust. I have basically been forced to check up on my partners phone and email etc. in order to gain any trust for her. So, the last... (481 words)

I explode very fast

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi there. I'm 18 and have been having sex for over a year now. On average I last about 5 seconds!!! I've tried everything to last longer in bed. I've strengthened my PC muscle, start and stop etc. On mine and my girlfriends one year anniversary we had sex and ... (122 words)

Long distance friendship turned silent

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking online to a guy for about 5 months. We knew each other before but not well. In the last few months I felt that we had really struck up a good friendship. Our chats were both flirty and fun as well as sometimes deep and meaningful. We usually talked about 3 ... (194 words)

Complicated array of health and trust issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I posted a message not so long ago. I found out that my husband had cheated on me it has been a year 1/2 ago. He has a son with this other lady. We have been married for 7 years now and are not willing to separate. We do love each other and want to work things out. We haven't ... (259 words)

Big issue with boyfriend's mother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i have a BIG issue and it involves my boyfriends mother. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and idk where me and his mom went wrong but we did. at the beginning of our relationship i believe me and his mom was cool but know 1 year 1/2 later is like she hates me and idk why, i ... (202 words)

My child looks at porn

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I've got a problem which I would really appreciate some help on. My child has a computer in her room and I found some porn on it. I have confiscated her computer but I told her that she 'spends too much time on it.' I don't know how to confront her about it.... (57 words)

It seems like she likes me, but she went back to her ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I met her in November of 2008. We work together at the same place, and the same days and same hours. We exchange numbers, and we started talking to each other everyday and texting each other everyday. We texted each other the whole entire day. Everyonce in a while she will t... (525 words)

Did she do all this as a trap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hiya guys, i really need some help on this one, im compleatly devestated over this, my ex bf of 9 months has just told me that his new gf of 4 months is pregnent, im more upset because he told me that he didnt want anymore children, The other thing was that,he was really u... (282 words)

What is a casual relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Just wandering what peoples thoughts are of what a casual relationship is? Ive been with my boyfriend nearly 3 yrs. We dont live together and we see each other bout 3 to 4 times a wk. Never been on hol. Hes 30. Goes out drinking allday with his mates. They seem to come first. ... (214 words)

Did I push my husband into having an affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner for three years and 2 children has told me he has had an affair with a co worker more emotional than sexual ,it was coming that way so he finished with her.It lasted a couple of months and the reason he says he told me because I was driving him mad with rows and ... (91 words)

Friendship not enough for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - please help ? there is this lad and he started texting me because he took my number off his mates phone i had met him once before when i was the girlfriend of a close friend of his, he was flirty and lovely and i was dissapointed to find out he had a girlfriend. but we continue... (179 words)

I seem to be overcome at times by these feelings and they are starting to take over my life. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I actually asked this very same question a few months ago but was wanting some more advice and have added to it. I am a seemingly normal happy 19 year old male with a loving family and a few friends. However I have a huge problem on my hands. My question isn't laid out very ... (854 words)

How to not think long term when dating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello I've had quite a few bad relationships in the past, and I think the issue was because I had low self esteem I didnt think I was worth better. I've had intensive therapy over the last six months to raise my confidence and at last I get it, and feel better than I have don... (243 words)

He wants to see me in my underware on webcam

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i've fallen in love with this guy i met online, i trust him completely... i know it sounds dodgy but, he's a friend of the family and they all trust him so i guess he's ok. i really like him, we speak every day but recently he's been wanting to see me in my underwear over the ... (151 words)

Breaking it off early the right thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a pretty laid back intelligent guy in his early 30s who hasn't had any long term relationships so am a bit inexperienced. I guess I would say I'm quite shy and lack a bit of self-esteem. I went out with someone I met on the internet recently, and had a relationship... (373 words)

Love politics at school is killing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Please help I'm 14 and really like this boy (connor) and i think he likes me too but i'm not sure. We haven't actually talked to each other which i know sounds stupid but everytime i see him i just like freeze. I only see him round school a couple of times a day as we're no... (332 words)

No sexual desire and can't get an erection

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello! i was wondering if anybody has this problem. I don't feel sexual desire, and I can;t get an erction . So my wife is very frustrated, because She thinks it her. That ,she is not turning me on anymore, and she thinks,I just don't tell this to myself.Like a self-deception... (149 words)

How can I get my old crush to talk to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - ok well the story basically is that i used to have a crush on him and i told him and we were friends but then i told him i didn't anymore because i thought i didn't and he started to be horrible and then i asked about it on yahoo and i got a lot answers saying that he still ... (145 words)

Gay? Or just very open minded?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i have always wanted to be with a tgirl but i have not got to.but i have found a girl that loves to use her strap on on me and loves ass play.Hell i like it to but now she wants to dress me up in drag i dont know if i should.and does this make me gay or bi or just very open ... (65 words)

I love my wife but hate being married

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i have been mairred for about two years and have a kid on the way i love my wife but at the same time i hate being mairred we are not on the same page when it comes to sex i love it and want to try anything and i want it all the time and she is not a big fan does not care if we ... (94 words)

Broken up because of family/religion but I can't get over him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My case might be unique cause I am from a very conservative background. I am a very religious Hindu and i CANNOT go against my parents to marry a guy they disapprove of. But emotions took over me, and i fell in love for a Buddhist guy! He loves me soooooo much and when i took ... (245 words)

Ex-fiance coming by to pick up things, should I be there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My fiancee just broke up with me last week and ive done NOTHING wrong but she wont see that. The thing that ended it between us is because she found 2 letters in my Outbox to a girl a day before we began even talking to one another and she got upset that i wanted to get with ... (173 words)

Can I lose my belly in a couple of months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i am going on holiday in july and i admit i have a belly, but its not really big. (i weigh7 and a half stones) but if i go gym every day and do loads of sit ups, and a balanced diet would i loose my belly in the 2 mounths. and is their any other ways to loose weight? ... (60 words)

Meet up with him again? Or just forget it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I was seeing a guy for about two months. He is a teacher and is a lot older than me (I am 19 he is now 28) but this was not a problem when I was staying with him and around his friends. He got freaked out however when he came to stay with me at my University and we broke up. W... (268 words)

Have I definately lost my virginity and was this actual sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - im 15 years old and ive fancied this boy from school for a while now whos 16 but in my year (11). hes fancied me for about a year we talk all the time out of school but hardly ever while we're there. i was a bit scared of asking him out because hes very popular and can get into... (318 words)

Doesn't this man have all the signs of a player?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he for real? I just would like others opinions about an online situation. I've been emailing back and forth with this man for the last 3 months. We are both in our early 40's. He says he is very busy, works 6 days a week, and claims he doesn't get home till 10pm at night. He ... (275 words)

We can't find the condom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi, i had sex with my boyfriend last night, but we couldnt find the condom!! its literally gone n he cnt remeber if he took it off or not, wt shoud i do??? x... (35 words)

I think I'm turning lesbian!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi I'm kikki and I'm 15 I think I might be turning lesbian but not sure. I have a bf but I don't enjoy sex with him anymore it's like he just cares about himself. Recently during p.e at school I have noticed my nipples going hard getting changed in front of this one girl and ... (72 words)

Said he'd text me but he hasn't yet

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Okay new boyfriend. It's been a week officially. We've been talking everyday since he got my number, but yesterday he REA llY dessapointed me. I have bipolar disorder and havent been taking my meds because i dont like the side effects, so maybe i've been a pain lately. Anyways,... (126 words)

I want to cry and I can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hi. I can't cry. most of you that have read my stories know some of the pain that I have endured over my life. yet recently I've noticed that I can't cry. I want too I know it will help with the current situation im in it would help relieve some of my pain. I try and try yet I ... (97 words)

Friend is a teacher and students behavior is very disturbing to her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age - A friend of mine teaches in a middle school. Two increasing practices worry her. One is that boys are pressing girls to give them blow-jobs. Good girls who resist are made fun off, by both the boys and the girls. The other practice is that girls are coming to school with sho... (113 words)

The pain that doesn't seem to go away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hello. let me start off with im in love with a girl. I unwillingly fell in love. she works with me. she's my friend. we've agreed to only be friends but there has always been a very strong sexual tension aswell as a strong attraction between us. I know this because any time we ... (306 words)

Oral sex replacing hugging and kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age - I read in a magazine recently that some people are saying that among teens girls giving casual blow-jobs to boys is replacing regular petting. In other words, hugging and kissing is being replaced by oral sex. Is this true? Is this a dangerous trend? ... (47 words)

Pregnant & ectopic pregnancy signs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hey i just found out i am pregnant but i dont feel like i am apart from hungrier. iv started to develop upper back ache, like a dull aching, its jst below my shoulder blade, is this normal? i heard shoulder pain can be a sign of ectopic pregnancy, i looked on the internet and i ... (78 words)

How to climax with just intercourse

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a problem everytime I have sex I never climax. I can only climax though oral or playing me playing with my clit. The sex be really great I can feel him inside with so much plesure but still can't climax if him or I dont with clit, is there's something wrong with and how ... (62 words)

Why doesn't my b/f want to say "I love you" anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I love my bf 2 death i love him more than i ever loved anyone else in my whole entire life and i truly think he may b the "one" 4 me and he says he feels the same way about me..But last nite he said something that makes me doub his love 4 me.. We we in the middle of doing ... (232 words)

Will he ever forgive me and take me back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - On May 5th my boyfriend of 2 years dumped me. I feel like my wold has fallen apart, can't eat or sleep and the doctor has me on 3 types of tranqulisers.. Another couple that we had associated closely with split up 4 weeks ago - he just wasn't in love with her anymore and as a... (384 words)

18th birthday present for b/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I need help with buying my boyfriend's 18th birthday present! I know that he really wants to buy a bag but it is worth about $120 which I find a bit too pricey for me. Any other ideas for good presents? I know he doesn't want any clothing, and he's the kind of guy who's pretty ... (83 words)

How to get a straight answer from a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ive slept with this guy a couple of times, and its been really great and we get on so well. but i dont know if its just me hes sleeping with or ..i just dont know? (btw its long to explain but hes your typical guy that doesnt make much effort to see me in perosn but i know par... (209 words)

Cheating with a married man, but I know its not right

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i am 21yrs,in luv with a married man with 4 kids,my concience is now telling on me and i want to quit him but is pretty tough on both side cos he is more now like my best friend and i believe he loves me that he wish to marry me but i cant, cos of his status and i wldnt want ... (81 words)

He cheated and I'm moving on

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please take the time and read my post. I have seen many replies on dear cupid about cheaters,can i add that my h/b was a cheater he had cheated a few times before he got caught,the reason he says he cheated was he liked the excitement the fear of getting caught even though h... (481 words)

We meet up 20 years later...

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13 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I loved a girl some 20 years ago. She said she liked me but was already seeing someone. I left it at that and we never met for the next 20 years.In the meantime, i married (happily). I happened to return to the same city as hers after these 20 years. She, now a wife and a ... (86 words)

Never reached orgasm..giving b/f confidence issue

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - anytime i make love with my boyfriend i dont reach orgasm easily except he plays with my clitoris.dis is giving me concern cos he feels i can neva be satisfied with him wat do i do?... (36 words)

I want to sing but have a confidence issue

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey guys, I'm sorry that this isn't much of a relationship issue, but i couldn't think of anyone else to ask... Right, my issue is, i want to do something different with my life, i want to sing! And i don't mean in the local forum etc, i mean big time. May seem like ... (176 words)

Daughter's relationship worries me

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my daughter started a 'relationship'with a 19 year old from pakistan when she was 15.this has all been happening without our knowledge.we have now found out.she is now 16(so 'legally' she can date who she wants)she says she loves him.i am petrified that he isnt who he says he ... (120 words)

Is silence a deal breaker in a relationship?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating a lovely man for a year now and am just wondering what it really takes to make a relationship work. He is my first serious long term boyfriend and so this question comes from a place of not knowing what to really focus on as the most important things that ... (574 words)

Best friend cheated with my b/f, don't know if I can forgive her

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my best friend slept with my boyfriend at the time they both say it was a mistake but they allways text and have been meeting up behind my back. i ended it with my boyfriend because i couldnt trust him. and i say... once a cheater always a cheater!!! but i dont know if i c... (98 words)

Should I stay or go after my husband's affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My husband had an affair with a work colleague last year they told each other they loved each other, she was married with a kid aswell. She looks like me and he told me she acted like me. I do not know if i should leave him. He says he regrets it and has become more loving but ... (151 words)

Will I scare him away?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I really love this guy, can't stop thinking about him, even though i know nothing will ever come of it as im pretty sure he doesn't feel the same. I don't know where i stand and if i ask him ill probably scare him off. I want him in my life no matter what. what shall i do?... (58 words)

I love porn but don't like to watch it with my husband

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Im married and we are in a healthy sexual relationship. Now a days I love to watch porn sights. I become bit nervous when me and my husband watch those sight together. But whenever Im alone I love to watch those sights and think of having similar sex with my husband. Is i... (66 words)

His "bedroom talk" really confused me and now he doesn't contact me

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been kind of seeing this guy since january i found that he really liked me and made the mistake of sleeping with him the first night.He started talking about would i have anymore kids and marriage and i freaked and later on i told him i wouldnt have another kid and would ... (209 words)

I really like him but don't want this to just be a "work thing"

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I need some advice, I have liked this guy I work with for a couple of years, he shows an interest and is always checking me out, we have never been on a date (I have asked once and something came up and he couldn't make it), we french kissed about three months ago and it was ... (148 words)

I never get asked out properly, but am offered "one offs"

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Can I ask a question about blokes, I mean I have always thought if a guy likes you he will ask you out proper but guys never ask me out they always offer one-offs, my friends keep saying that's what blokes do now, they don't want to commit to going out on dates but if they like ... (77 words)

He stopped talking to me because people gossip all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have guy friend he stop talking to me b cause people gossiping about us he never respond to my call I'm 5 years older than him we love each other I don't why he hate me now .he never had a girlfriend before. Should I keep calling him cause I don't know why he stop talking to ... (64 words)

How do I help my friend clear her name up? They had sex in the school park & everyone is talking about it

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello cupids, ok so my friend and her boyfriend (now her ex) has had sex in a school park..so while they were having sex this one girl claimed that she seen them.so now the girl who have seen them been going around our whole school telling ppl what she saw and stuff starting ... (227 words)

IF he wanted to fix it why hasn't he called?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex and I were together for a couple of months but we were never official because he didnt see the need to label everything and just wanted to "be with each other" He wanted to have sex but I said I only do that with my boyfriend and he thought I was using it as a weapon to ... (202 words)

I had sex with my son's friend, do you think my son knows?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My son (18) is a frshman in college he is also on the baseball team. A few monthsago he had a bunch of friends/Team mates over they were all in the pool. One of his friends walked in the house. He had no shirt on, I was sitting on the couch he came in and said hi i smiled and ... (376 words)

Is her stomach hurting because she hasn't had sex?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello everyone,okay so my friend is 14 years old and she is has had sex with multiple partners,she has told me she used condoms everytime and her stomach has been hurting lately and she told me she hasnt has sex for a while..could that be the reason her stomach is hurting or ... (58 words)

Had sex with a guy who likes to break up relationships

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been with my bf for a year and a half. for a while we were having trouble with our relationship because we are both full time students in college and we live an hour away from each other. I have this co-worker that I had a crush on. He lead me to believe that he liked me ... (227 words)

He takes everything so seriously that a big war breaks out

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm really in a confusing mode..Between love and friendship..talking about love there are always silly fights in my relationship.. i really dono what to do..every small thing that happens he takes so seriously that a big war breaks out...recently there were problems of insecu... (276 words)

Dating an oversexed woman and worried about my size

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13 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i just started going out with this lady she is really a oversex woman she was married once before and her ex. was well to do(7.5 to 8) inches i'mnot no way near that 4.5 and 3.75 around. the problem is i don't want to be embaress when i drop my shorts.... (52 words)

Having trouble with sex, he can't get inside me!

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I are having trouble having sex and we have been trying for quite some time now. The problem i think is with me. His penis will not go into my vagina. He can get his fingers in there with some pain but when he gets ready to insert his penis its like there is a ... (91 words)

I'm co-dependent, what can I do about it?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm codependent. my mom is, too -- it's why she puts up with my dad's bs -- i guess that's where i picked it up. i've read the articles online, and i have no doubt about it -- they describe me and my problems (and the comments everyone closest to me has made my entire life) ... (213 words)

Does he want out? Or is he just sulking?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice! My partner, whom I live with, had a big tantrum. He was having trouble with his internet and asked me to call up the provider about it. I used to work for the company and was having a chat with the operator as the systems were slow. My partner got ... (159 words)

He's having a baby living with the girl but yet he was still seeing me

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i just got out of a two year relationship about 6 months ago and it feeels just like yesterday and still feels the same if not even worse. i just found out about a month ago that he is having a baby and lives with this girl. he never told me that he was having a baby,it just so ... (224 words)

I thought everything was fine between us, now she's depressed and is breaking up with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, My girlfriend and I have dated for 3 1/2 years. It has been wonderful, we have loved each other so much, we are both each others first true love. She always has said how great she thinks I am and we often enjoy thinking of one day getting married and living with each oth... (581 words)

I feel like I'm giving 100% and only getting 50% back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I've had terrible luck with relationships, I always feel like im giving 100% and always getting back 50%. All the girls I date always are "too busy" to have a boyfriend or just dont think im "ready" to have a girlfriend. In relationships I always feel like I try to go an extra ... (363 words)

8 years together and he's leaving me, but I still love him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know , how do i get over a man i loved for 8 years . he broke up with me 2 weeks ago saying he just wanted to be friends,we have built a life and family together , 3 children,buying a house...we sometimes would fight like most people do but lately we have been ... (150 words)

Why is it so hard for a man to forgive a woman if she steps out?

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13 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Will someone please tell me why is it so hard for a man to forgive a woman if she steps out. I loved my boyfriend very much and was faithful to him for years. He was married when I met him and was suppose to be getting a divorce. Not only that, I had to deal with him livig in ... (399 words)

I like him but his sister is overprotective!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Long story short, this guy and I have recently started liking eachother, we really tend to hit it off quite well, and i could see us really going somewhere in the future.. only problem is, his sister hates mostly all of his girlfriends and ex's. She tells girls to stay away ... (188 words)

How do I tell a guy I want to get sexual?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been on 2 seperate dates with this guy I like. Ive known him for awhile but just recently let him know I liked him. Hes made several sexual comments (nothing involving us two-but hes def not the prudish type). I would have sex with him but he hasnt made a move yet.... (233 words)

I'm in love with my second cousin... she's getting married but I promised myself I would tell her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

13 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I know I will be judged for this, and I know that it will be difficult for some to try and think of this in an unbiased manner. But I wish to say in my defense three things: 1.) There is no law against a relationship of this type. 2.) The bible says nothing against it. ... (725 words)

I should have told my cousin that I'm in love with her...

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13 May 2009 (F)

I love her and don't want to be away from her, but my career will require it...what do I do?

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13 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I am just about to enter college. I have been with my girlfriend for over three years now. I plan on proposing to her soon, as it is a very serious relationship and if I had any definition of love it would be the feelings I have for her. I wish to teach spanish for a living. ... (271 words)

Why was I wrong to entice older men?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I started having sex when I was 13, and every one of my partners were adult men. There was no coercion or force involved in any of them. I consented to the encounters, and I initiated the sex on each occasion. This did not negatively impact my life. Accepting these facts, and ... (71 words)

Which one to date?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay I'm going out with someone, who I like as an older brother, and well my crush from like the being of the semster just asked me out and I don't know who if I should go out with him or just stay with the guy I'm with.... (48 words)

Why does sex hurt the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - why does it hurt the first time you have sex? how do you know your ready? how do know when the right time is? how do you know he's ready, and not doing it to make you happy?... (41 words)

Boyfriend in the army?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - well i have a problem is about me and my ex-boyfriend. well he is going to graduate this year and im going into my junior year. nd well he had broken up with me bcuz he had to go to the army nd well i dont know, bcuz we still have feelings but im not sure if both of us are ... (149 words)

Pregnant, cheated on husband and not sure who the father is

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been married to this amazing guy for 5 years and i love him with all my heart.we have been trying for a baby for 3 of these years and was told that there is no reason why we could not concieve it would just be a matter of time.anyway after all this it got too much and my ... (188 words)

Stay or leave?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have been talking to this guy for 4 years. We stoped talking only because he was respecting the fact that I was in a relationship at the time, and I was a little too young (He didn't want my parents to be mad.) We just recently got back together April the second of 09. He ... (381 words)

I need some insight on this issue of mine!

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I need some insight on this issue of mine. There's a boy that i like. One day a girl in my class shouted across the room to one of his friends that he had asked a certain girl in my class out. (this is what i thought she said) I was heartbroken. Of course i've hardly ever... (230 words)

Getting to Second

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13 May 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I'm 13 and im having trouble getting to 2nd. every girl ive dated never wants to go that far. Do you have any tips on moving from 1st to 2nd?... (30 words)

How can I fix the way I feel?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My grades have dropped, im tired all the time, and it seems ive been eating A LOT!!! Every time i start liking someone, i get so confused that i seriously just wanna go to sleep and forget about EVERYTHING and i actually just realized that ive been like this since this one guy ... (111 words)

My friend's gal is cheatin!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I found out and saw my friend's girl, Ally, cheating on him with Gil, their friend. Should I tell my friend, Zack, or just let it slide? I've seen her do this before but Zack said he won't end it unless she does. But...I know she lost it to Gil. Should I tell him that t... (68 words)

Should I wait or should I give in?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I am a high school student. i am 16 and my boyfriend is also 16. i have been with him since oct.23.08. it's been about 6 months.I truly do believe i am in love with him. I also belive he is too. he says it. he shows it. and i fall for it. he can be a jerk ,but all guys are. We ... (315 words)

Should I pursue him even though he's younger than me?

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13 May 2009 (F) - I work at a theme park in retail. It just opened this past weekend. I was told to let Dylan go on break. We ended up working together that night folding hundreds of shirts and talking about a lot of things. We were physically close too. He is pretty funny. He is super nice and ... (160 words)

I have this huge problem with retroactive jealousy.

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this huge problem with retroactive jealousy. Before my husband and I started dating seriously, we were friends for about a decade. We are both in our mid-twenties, so we have known one another since we were kids. The adolescent relationships that we were both in are ... (525 words)

It's been 4 months and he says we haven't been together too long - so what does he consider awhile?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so my boyfriend took me to meet the extended family. We had dinner and a really good conversation.. got along well, I think. Anyways, as we're about to leave and talking to the uncle..he asks 'So, how long have both of you been dating?' My boyfriend says, 'Not that ... (80 words)

He has hit me a few times, slapped me, punched me, and even hit me with a glass bottle... but I love him!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

13 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend is quite controlling, but loves me more than anything, he says he cant live without me. I have a list of rules of things I can and cant do/wear/say like I cant wear my hair up, flat shoes, I cant talk to my ex boyfriends and the only male friends I can have are ... (290 words)

I feel like my boyfriend is abusive, so why do I keep staying with him??

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have felt for a long time in my relationship that my boyfriend is on the abusive side. He's never hit me but he shout's at me and makes me feel really bad sometimes (this happens if he is worrying about something or feels bad about something he's done and i feel like he tries ... (247 words)

Do people eventually fall out of love?

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13 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I recently read an article that said the "infatuation" stage of a relationship normally goes away after about 6 months and it turns into "love". Well, along with infatuation are the butterflies in your stomach and the losing-your-breath-moments when he/she walks by and wan... (251 words)