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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think he lied to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im 15. my boyfriend of 3 mo nths told me he loved me atleast 100 times. im begining to think that was a lie. see we have a long distance thing going on and ive been seeing him as much as i can lately but i guess that wasnt enough. i know i l ove him more than ... (105 words)

Should I take a chance and see what develops?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im an college student and have been attending college for about 2 years now. This semester is the 1st time i actually attented full time and made alot of friends and met a lot of people. The question i wanted to ask is: Theres this professor in my college, she very beautif... (427 words)

Don't know if wife wants a threesome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - been married for 10 years my wife and i watch porn and when three somes are on she gets turned on and i would ask if she likes what she sees and she always says she yes when i ask her if she wants a 3-some she always says i would never do that one time we were watching porn ... (109 words)

Stepmom thinks I'm gay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My step mum thinks im gay, which theres nothing wrong with, but its annoying. How can i convince her? ... (19 words)

Why do guys wake up with an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i were chattin, and we got onto the subject and he said he often wakes up 'fully erected'. my question is, who knows why this happens? maybe its a stupid question but i realised i really dont know why. thanks for any answers!... (49 words)

I'm confused, he is so bi-polar with his feelings!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ohkay so this is a little long but i need to say it all. and thru the whole thing dont think im a slut. im 13 and in 7th grade. one day on my bus i met this guy that i saw everyday and thot he was hot for along time. but i never talked to him. then i just did. i dont know why ... (407 words)

Boys and grad parties!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - K i have three things to ask!! : 1- can i invite the guy i really like to my grade eight grad?? Or is that too weird.... I like him and want him to be there but i dont know..... He has a sister that i babysit could i invite her and then say he can come to????? 2- this has ... (135 words)

Should I call him? Or should he call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - heyy friends well i am desprete for help. wel first thing is my best guy friens lives in Mississippi and i live in chicago and he comes to visit and well this summer he is going to stay with his hometown in Mississippi and he hasn't called me and he told me that he was g... (89 words)

Am I wasting my time or should I let it ride?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need someone's opinion who knows what's going on .... I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, Shane. He's 19. I do love him sincerely and care enough about him to spend the rest of my life with him, as naive as that may sound. But we're not per... (1577 words)

The annoying thing on my mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm a 16 year old guy and will be 17 in 2 weeks. Me and my gf both lost our V plates to each other when we were 15. My girlfriend is 3 months younger than me which makes her a year behind me in education. Thing is, even though now we are above the legal age to have sex ... (204 words)

Should I just completely give up on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - My ex broke up with me. I apologized to him and was truthful to him. He made it clear that he didin't want me. there were times when he gave me mixed signals and I responed and then the next time I talk to him he would be negative again. I loved him so much I pleaded with him ... (309 words)

Flatmate ruining my relationship! Confront them or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend stays with another couple in a flat. He has known them for 2 years and has lived with them for that amount. They are very horrible people - confrontational, irrational, nasty, spitefull, messy, most of all jeleous... the list goes on. It all started becau... (1003 words)

Addictive personality, becoming addicted to cannabis!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an addictive personality which means i can get addicted to anything as silly as penguin biscuits and i get addicted very easily too. Ive done well to stay away from drugs so far in my life but for my current bf they're quite a major part of his life. Ok, so hes not ... (183 words)

I waste so many opportunities and have so many regrets!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I feel like life is passing me by,im 22 sitting at home when everyone else is out having a good time, enjoying their lives, i feel like i sabotage myself by turing down invitations and making impulsive stupid decisions.I didnt go out tonight because i felt i looked ugly and ... (117 words)

How can I get past the touching phase onto something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im a gay guy that hangs out with mostly straight guys. Im in a situation that im having feelings with one of my straight guy friends. He has a girlfriend but whenever we hang out he likes to watch porn. He knows i like him and allows me to give him body massages everytime we ... (291 words)

How can I get over my erection phobia?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is gonna be long..sry ! i need help tho.. Ok so today me and my girlfriend were alone in the house..we started taking of our clothes etc..started foreplay and stuff butshe had her panties on and i was trying to think a way to go inside her without her seeing me put th... (358 words)

I'm terrified of make-up shops, after security strangled me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im seventeen, and when i was 13 i did a pretty stupid thing and its hanuted me for the rest of my life. It was they day before my mums birthday, and i was off school because it had been snowing. I went into the city with 3 other girls (my best mates) we were shopping and... (560 words)

I need change...any recommendations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so summers coming and im on to high school and i want to change. hears how i am now: im VERY shy, skinny and bony, unconfident, selfconscious, NOT very popular, and i fall for guys too easily. i know that the only wayt o fix all of that is by making myself what i want to ... (189 words)

Are we responsible for her even though she chose to move out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age - My 16 year old daughter has decided she cannot live with our rules. As much as it is killing me to let her move out, I think for her it might be the only way to learn that our household rules were not that bad. She has always been very strong willed. What I am wondering is, are ... (86 words)

A question about female ejaculation...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm trying to learn how to cum a lot. I'm aroused by my boyfriend, but he wants me to cum so he can actually see it flowing from me. Even though I would love to learn how to squirt, but that's out of the question right now. Please someone help.... (50 words)

How can I move on from them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well...my ex broke up with me a day after we did stuff, and went really far. It's been 2 weeks and I was crying about him because I still love him, and my best friend was like it's okay, he's a jerk , he's not worth it and everything. Then I find out that night they snogged 5 ... (77 words)

He turns to his friends for all of the fun times...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when after a year+ relationship that your boyfriend wants to spend more time with his friends? He never does anything with me anymore other than chores and wants to go out with his friends to do fun things and go drinking and play sports, and go to the park... (178 words)

I'm 14 and haven't gotten my period yet...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am fourteen and still yet to have my period. I'd like to hear from you the age you first got your period...or a friend. Even if it was young or still yet to have gotten it... All help appreciated!... (41 words)

Should I just try to stay friends for now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy and he seems unsure of what he wants. He lives in another town so the distance makes it hard to see each other. I know he is going through a hard time because his daughter was just born a few months ago. He and his ex wife just seperated about a ... (160 words)

How do I let him know that it's ok to be open with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend always seems afraid to tell me things about his past. He was married before and has two kids. He also has had felony charges for drugs. Last time we hung out I caught him smoking, but he has quit now. At the time he was down to one cigerette a day. I know he... (159 words)

I'm scared of getting hurt again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I recently got out of a very bad and extremely hurtful "friends with benefits" relationship that lasted around 7 months. It ended badly and I suffered a lot of emotional abuse and got my heart broken, by an absolutely horrible person. So anyway, two weeks ago I ... (160 words)

My hormones are controlling me and it's horrible. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know hormones are very normal for my age but I can't cope with them. I always get upset when I am on my period; I sometimes feel aggressive. I'm one of those people that don't start fights and probably wouldn't fight back, but recently I have been in a few. They hit me first ... (175 words)

How do I know if a guy really likes me for who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It seems like all the guys I date just use me. Now I have a hard time trusting guys and always think they are going to use me. How can I trust guys again and How do I know if a guy really likes me for who I am? ... (49 words)

Is it normal for a husband and wife to only have sex once every 3 months?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 42 year old woman who recenly got married (it will be a year in june) Is it normal for a husband and wife to only have sex once every 3 months? He looks at porn almost everyday..some of it that I found is a little on the weird side like looking at transgender...he says ... (83 words)

Should I ask out my doctor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I ask out my doctor? I have a terrible crush on my orthopedist. Been seeing him for 6 months and just had my last appointment with him. He is supposed to call me next week with some follow up information... so I'm wondering if I should make a move of some kind? He has ... (106 words)

Disowned by family, homeless and with a child.... Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi me explaining my situation might take a while but i need help.so please dont get bored.im 21yr old muslim and i am also at university.my family are very respected in the community but iv brought shame to them by getting pregnant without being married.my boyfriend got carriex ... (184 words)

Virginity questions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and for some reason i cant stop thinking about sex i really want to have sex but im worried that im gonna lose my virginity when i am drunk, and should i retract my foreskin before erection or leave it unretracted?... (43 words)

What are guys opinions on girls with short hair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my last few exes have all loved my short hair (i sometimes have a chelsea cut, then let it grow out into a sort of pixie cut) it suits me and makes me look a lot more mature than what long hair does, i prefer it on me. My last real boyfriend was the one who hinted he loved... (195 words)

Is it wrong for me to feel angry because my best friends are going on holiday with out me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How should i feel? I have 2 clear best friends in my life, and one of them is moving off to a new school in the autumn so this will be out last summer together. The one who is leaving, i have taken on holiday with me before, and we have gone on many family holidays before ... (104 words)

Should I leave my husband after his affair? Or stay in eternal pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice, should I leave my husband or stay with him and live in eternal pain after his affair, which happened last summer? I will never forget what he did to me and our daughter. I found a text from his tutor at work saying night babe i love you. So obviously he had told ... (344 words)

If I fail my next exam mom says I have to finish with my boyfriend!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know what to do. At school I have alwaiis been good at maths and now am failing it as i failed my first exam. I have another one coming up in a weeks time and my mum said that if I do not pass it I have to break up with my boyfriend cause she thinks he is a distraction... (104 words)

Mixed reactions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya, please help me. Well, It was my birthday party on friday night,,. and it was a joint party with my friend.. So.. I have fancied this boy for nearly 2 years now... and lately friends have said he acts differently around me. But he is a ladies man. So at this party he pi... (376 words)

I'm 15 and don't know why I crave the attachments

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My most recent ex boyfriend and I, started dating in November, we broke up the first week of Feb, but we had an on and off relationship into the middle of April. Since we OFFICIALLY called it quits, I have totally felt like I have moved on, but now all of a sudden,(in the p... (239 words)

Why do some people get over a family death quickly and others take years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

- Hoping people will have insight here and thank all who answer. My friend and I are about the same age. I am a little older. I lost my dad when I was in my twenties. It was horrible, awful but I had to carry on. I grieved but had to get on with life, mortgage payments, car ... (337 words)

Still in love with my ex! Could he still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend. He was my first high school boyfriend, my first homecoming date, and my first "love." We dated from October 13, 2008 to January 18 or 19, 2009. 3 months and 5/6 days. He was the first one to say, "I love you." He was the first one ... (462 words)

Am I just too energetic for him?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I've been seeing a guy for about a month now and things were going great. I'd stayed over a couple of times, he was really affectionate and caring and we got on really well. Last night, I stayed over again and today all we did was watch motorsports all ... (160 words)

It went wrong and I don't know how to fix it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I do not know how to act on this situation, i did something that is extremely wrong for my love, 12 days ago he found out that it was me who did it and he has not talked to me since then, he blocks my calls and doesn't reply my msgs, i tried to explain but it seems li... (90 words)

Wife, lover or solitude?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - married. long time. beautiful home, animals, no kids. love her, really really do, just never developed much sexual chemistry, when that was something really important for both of us before we got married. felt lonely, sad. years later - last year - cheated. thought it was a ... (259 words)

Crush? Or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok - I like this guy but I can't decide whether its a crush or something more than that. I have known him for about three years now. I know I was immediately attracted to him - but now I have got to know him better and we are fairly friendly and and still have feelings fo... (205 words)

Trusting my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 17 and ive been dating my boyfriend for 8months now and the past 8 months have been amazing hes sooo nice to me and everything but i cant trust him hes sooo over protecting when it comes to me i cant text any of my guy friends on my phone cause he checks it but when i ask ... (120 words)

She slept with my guy years ago and now wants to be my friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, here goes..I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 years. Three years ago we broke up for about 3 weeks..we were fighting a lot! He moved in with a friend and during this break up he slept with another girl, a girl we knew mutually (she is well known in our small town ... (202 words)

I'm confused about his actions

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31 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - guy at uni: he always talks to me till silly aclock in the morning like 5am despite having work the next day. never mentions hes girl friend to me. is forever picking me up , rugby tackling me, bear hugging me, tickling poking me when we are out together. has invited me ... (144 words)

Do I pay for his band or does he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i have been discussing the kind of ring that i want for engagement and the kind of bands we want. Do i pay for his band or does he? He hasn't brought this up but i'm sure it would come up eventally. ... (45 words)

Chosing between 2 guys. How do you do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guys for 2 years he wasn't able to commit to me (wasn't ready to move in with me or get married). We broke up because I couldn't handle that anymore. After the break up I ran into an old friend from highschool and we started talking. He was living in another state ... (145 words)

Very emotional after I had the contraceptive jab, how to deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - girls help with hormones had my contraceptive jab and finding it hard to deal with the emotion/sensitivity part. anything , remedies, hot baths to make me feel better? any suggestions?... (33 words)

They just left me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - recently single and i slept with my ex ex boyfriend. he said that i will only ever be the only girl he wants because it just feels right when im near. it was a one night thing and we both agreed on that as he wanted so badly to have me i said as long as we don't tell anybody ... (232 words)

He promised to quit smoking but its been 9 months..how can I not hate it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well here's the story.. i met him as a smoker.. i did not want to date him because of that but he insisted and insisted and insisted promising that he will quit if i gave him a chance..but he have been together now for 9 months now and he still smoking..just 2 nights ago he had ... (266 words)

Shoud I ask him out or something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so here it is.. I am 13 ( i know it sounds too young but its not to me) i really like this guy and it is not just a stupid crush. When i am around him i feel happier and safe. He always sticks up for me and stuff, but he is just a new friend over the past month. and i am ... (128 words)

Does this mean that I am pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what are the early signs of pregnancy? i felt very sick and run down a few hours after i had sex and went to be sick a few times but nothing came up. i also had stomach cramps a day later. does this mean that i am pregnant?... (48 words)

Should I suggest him a LDR and how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i'm falling in love with a friend. we live hundreds of miles from each other but it would be perfectly plausible to meet up every couple of weeks and we speak daily for hours do you reacon it would be plausible to hold down a relationship? if so how would i ask him, i ... (69 words)

I think I'm trying too hard in the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm dating this guy, I'm 16 he's 19. Everything was going great, he probably still thinks it is, but I have my own personal problems getting in the way. You see, I've never been in a relationship before, and he knows that, I had never kissed a guy, he knows that too. ... (758 words)

Should I try and find her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) age 30-35 - a year ago when i was 15 i was in this one school and there was a girl who was a grade older than me and every now and then in school we just said hi to eachother. then one day i was on the bus that she was on and i went and sat next to her and we talked then after at the bus ... (214 words)

Engaged, but I don't want to marry him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i got engaged ...but now i dont want to marry him ..he is not the kind of husband i thought of...i want to marry my love means my boyfriend ...i cant tell my family about this nor my fiancee ...pls help me what should i can do now?... (48 words)

I want to break out of my shell!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so i need advise. SO after my boyfriends prom (we go to diff. schools) we are going to an after party. I'm a very careful person and im scared to do anything bad beacuse my dad lives through me. But i want to break out for once. Neither my boyfriend or i drink....But we ... (133 words)

What was the meaning of her looking at me this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - sometimes in church our eyes usually meets that's i and a girl of about 17.when our eyes meet we shyly remove it.it was one sunday on which i went to church alone just by coincidence our eyes met we look ourselves for close to 25 seconds before i took off my eyes from ... (132 words)

Pregnant and struggling

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31 years old. I've ben with my boyfriend just 5 months and I'm 9 weeks pregnant. Antibiotics interfered with the pill. I'm scared all the time, tired, sad. I think I love him but I want space. He wants to move in together. I am sometimes snappy with him. He doesn't seem to ... (90 words)

Is shyness making her like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - am 19 years old just getting to 20 this year am cute too.there is a girl of about 15 years old just a neighbour to my friend. when my friend brought me to their house i saw this girl and she was some kind of shy looking at me, which caused her to remove her face and this has ... (244 words)

I don't know why he's sticking around!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so confused ive been seeing this guy for a month but i have a boyfriend he knows this, so we said we would do the friends thing, that was fine as we get on so well, then we ended up getting drunk went to a hotel had sex, he said he was very sorry and was upset we did this ... (96 words)

I have learning difficulties and feel incomplete, please advise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have lost the will to live, I am a 21 year old male. when I was born I was deprived of oxygen and as a result i developed learning disabilitys/difficulties. I have a very poor concentration span, and co-ordiniation problems. This really did effect my performance at ... (380 words)

Lied about my age, will he still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i met my boyfriend online 2 months ago. We got chatting and really hit it off, met a couple days later and we got along so well and fell for each other so bad that i didnt end up leaving and so now ive moved in with him. We've already been through so much together, we reall... (231 words)

Dishonest, without intention... what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have made this huge mistake. It started out less malicious than it sounds, 5 years ago I was playing a game online and wasnt interested in meeting anyone for real, so in order to keep my age to myself and annonymity, I sent a fake pic, Sadly after months of talking ... (601 words)

Should I still go to the clinic to be on the safe side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend had sex two days ago. i went to the clinic but they cannot supply the morning-after pill until tomorrow (which would be the third day after). he cummed in the same condom more than once when we were having sex and although i checked the condom and it seems ... (79 words)

How could he just stop loving me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - iv been going out with my boyfriend for one year and 6 months. i went on holiday for 10 days and rang him a copoul of times and when i did he turned his fone off and stuff and was really nasty for no reason. i came home expecting him to be waiting for me, but he was camp... (136 words)

Is it wrong for your boyfriend to stay at another girl's house with his "brother"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it wrong for your boyfriend to stay at another girls house with his "brother" after a night out on the town?... (22 words)

Falling in love with my sister

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My sister and I seem to have feelings for each other. She has a boyfriend and I also have a girlfriend. I feel like I should tell her that we can submit our feelings to each other. Can I give a try incest and what it feels like?... (48 words)

My anger slowly builds up and I lash out, help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey again everyone. I'm worried about myself, as from time to time, I get fairly angry over a lot of small things parcelled up into one, as I try to suppress the fact I'm angry. And I fear this may turn me into someone violent, when I'm actually a respectful and kind p... (96 words)

Liquid or powder foundation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hi, i was just wondering, erm which is the best foundation to use, liquid or powder? I want to get that 'airburshed' look, i have never tried liquid before and powder has a reputation just to go orange. But is liquid foundation bad for your skin or something? I would love some ... (64 words)

Did my boyfriend really love me?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend and we were 8 months together now, we were leaving in one house, he had a wife but their relationship is on the rock,. My boyfriend had the attitude that he dont care others at all, but when we leave together he started to change and he did lots of favors to ... (213 words)

Anyone know how long it might be before I can expect a period again?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone Not sure if anyone can help but... I've been taking the pill (microgynon) continually for about 8 weeks - you're meant to have breaks but the whole reason I went on the pill was to not have any periods whilst I was doing my finals. Now I've stopped tak... (129 words)

So whats he really thinking?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in contact with a myspace friend for almost 2yrs. We have talked, emailed and texted during this time. Both of us are single. I have no children as he has 4 kids living with him, he is divorced twice. 3 kids from his first wife and the youngest from his second. ... (705 words)

I don't think he's interested in me for me

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31 May 2009 (F)

- I feel like this guy who I'm dating isnt really interested in me for me. I feel like he doesnt really care about how I feel and my emotions etc. Often when we talk, he doesnt seem to really be listening to what Im saying. The times when he seems to be fully engaged in the c... (440 words)

Could be pregnant but can't afford a test

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I had sex with this boy two weeks ago and the condom was to big so the week after i had sex with a differant boy without protection he said he would stop before he came (i dont no wether he did) and this week i have had unprotected sex with a differant boy but i was drunk so i ... (104 words)

I fancy my girlfriends best friend

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31 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Here is the situation. Since my first year in high school i started dating a girl. After about 6 months of dating we're getting together in a relationship. Up to now its almost 2 years being together. There are lots of ups and downs in our relationship. About a year pl... (751 words)

Pregnant with ex boyfriends baby

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years. But last year we had some problem. So we cheated on each other. Early this year we decided to end our relationship because it wasn't working. One month later i found out i was pregnant. So we decide to give it a go ... (164 words)

Will he ever see me as girlfriend material?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I kissed someone else's boyfriend. I know it's wrong but whatever I love him and he loves me. Why does everyone say that he'll never see me as girlfriend material??... (30 words)

What are the early signs of pregnancy?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what are the very early i.e.1st or second week symptoms of pregnancy. ... (14 words)

I find older women very attractive, is there anything wrong with that?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im 18 f i have this problem. I seem to find older women attractive but i simply cant be coz its just wrong it says in the Bible. I dont know what to do. Please help!... (37 words)

He's with me now, was with her, now she wants him back, tried to seduce him, should I confront her or ignore it?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf's ex, who is also a friend of mine is unbelievable. i had gone out with him first, then she did, then he came back to me. we used to be really close but after she started going out with him the friendship just died from there. i was reluctant to take him back but he ... (452 words)

Teenage love, how do I ask him out?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I know this might sound stupid and unbelievable since i'm so young.. but i'm completely head over heals in love with my best friend. so i've known him for about two years now.. and about a year and a half of it, i've had hidden feelings for him. i've tried once to get o... (212 words)

In love with my dad's 28 year old best friend, I am 14, please help?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in love with my dad's best friend.The guy i love is 28 and i am 14.I love him so much but i dont want to tell him because i am afraid of my dad and i am afraid of losing the guy i love.What makes it worse is that my dad's bestfriend 23 yeal old brother has a crush on me.So ... (70 words)

Fatherless and always get attached

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my parents got divorced when I was about five or six years old. My dad has been in and out of my life. It's been really hard growing up without a dad. I usually get to see my dad twice a month, but these past three months, I haven't seen him. I have a step-dad, since about ... (356 words)

I am shy, but want to make more friends, would you give me some suggestions, how do I make that happen?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling lonely. I have a great boyfriend but very few friends anymore. I am extremely shy and my confidence is iffy, but I think people mistake this for me being stuck up. I am willing to talk and befriend anyone who approaches me, but don't usually feel comfortable ... (146 words)

Help me win her back!

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31 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay..... Me and my girlfriend of 1 year and 1 month love each other very much. But i recently made a huge mistake. At my graduation they was a group of people who dont like my girlfriend. And i hung out with my girlfriend the entire night, but i was scared that the group would ... (319 words)

My husband and I separated, having an affiar, feelings growing, but he also has a long distance girlfriend, am I asking for trouble?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am recently separated from my husband of 4 years. I dont feel anything for him anymore because he was controling and abusive and did alot of things behind my back that hurt. A couple weeks ago I started a fling with a coworker who I've always taken my work breaks with. We've ... (256 words)

He has a past that I am having a problem dealing with now, how do I get past it, he has tried to change?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay So.. I guess I have a problem.. A major problem. I've been with my "fiance" for A year and 9 months. Truthfully, I should have stayed away from him in the beginning. Let's just say he was the popular boy in high school who went to parties, got drunk and definitely got ... (608 words)

Had a vivid dream about a guy I hardly even knew, what does this mean, if anything?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I had a dream about this guy I used to go to school with. In my dream we were talking and stuff. Then the next thing I know we are having sex. I haven't seen him in like two years and I wasn't thinking of him. I never even really had a crush on him. It was just more ... (114 words)

Does it hurt when you have sex?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - does it hurt when you have sex?... (7 words)

Affair with married co-worker, ended it, he will not let me go, obsessive to a fault, what do I do?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have broken off an emotional affair with this guy that we had a relationship two years. i work with him and its hard but i have learned that your can cure it but you can manage the pain of a broken heart. Now he is hysterical. he always wants to know who i am talking to or ... (221 words)

Created a disaster, by agreeing to move in with her and her kids, how do I end it peacefully?

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31 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey folks, thanks for reading. A bit(okay, a lot) of background: My girlfriend and I have been together for a little more than a year, and she has two kids from previous relationships. When we first got together she was living in a very tiny apartment and working in the o... (654 words)

My girlfriend has nightmares constantly, could she be repressing something, should she see a doctor or what?

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31 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, My girlfriend is having nightmares that are really interrupting her (our!) sleep. They seem to occur just as she's drifting off, and they vary in intensity. She'll suddenly have a start and wake up, sometimes she's tossing and turning, hyperventilating, even almost s... (203 words)

I have been finding someone else's thongs in my guy's clothing. we physically fight over this, what should I do about this?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, can anyone giv me abit of friendly advice B4 i loose the plot completely, Me n my chap hav bin togetha 10yrs and up untill 3yrs ago i thought i was the luckiest girl about. my chap was everythin to me and my 14yr old son until on my b'day wen we got the keys to our 1st home ... (642 words)

Engaged but, he doesn't work, smokes weed all the time, plays video games and I'm tired, any suggestions?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont know what to do thats y im asking for help. i been with my boyfriend/fiancee for 2 yrs, the reason y i put the slash fiancee is cause im engaged to him but i feel like our relationship is going no where, im 24 he is 25 he has a daughter from a previous relationship and i ... (423 words)

How do I know if I'm really in love with him?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 months and i am really starting to love him, but how do i know if I 'm in love with him?... (31 words)

Goth or Diva?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help.im going in to middle school and i wanna become a goth or a diva.my friend says if i become a snotty diva she won't be my friend no longer.but my dad says that if i should become a snotty diva to show dont mes with me who should i listen to.it's very hard.i wanna be ... (87 words)

Friends got into a big fight and I just want it over

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31 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, so me and my friend got in a fight over something really small about a month ago. that same day she refused to talk to me while we were in school so i left her a note on her car tell her how sorry i was and that I wanted to make it up to her by hanging out that afternoon. ... (265 words)

Getting depressed over the situation I am in

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31 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I am only 19 but i am starting to get depression over this situation i am in: I love this guy (lets call him Sam), but he doesn't love me. I've dated other guys since to try and find someone new but they just won't do. I only want Sam. If he loved me back and wanted to be wit... (252 words)

We broke up, I got over him, and now I have to do it all over again!

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm writing this after a terrible night. I was out with my ex-boyfriend last night and needless to say we both had a few drinks. I said something, he got angry and pushed me, then kicked me in the knee to the sidewalk. He kept walking to the bar leaving me on th... (724 words)

How do you get over someone who has totaly crushed you?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do u get over someone who has absoluelty crushed you. I hate my ex 4 what hes done to me. He mentally abused me and made me paranoid about things and myself. And yet i worry what hes doing. Find myself thinking bout him and what hes doing now hoping hes not happy. Hes just ... (193 words)

Crush on my hairdresser!

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31 May 2009 (F)

age - I have a big crush on my male hairdresser. He is a few months younger than me and we are both single parents. He is really handsome and has a really lovely personality. We are very similiar as he teaches full time but helps out in his families business and is well ... (275 words)

Would this run off a possible boyfriend?

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31 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Guys: Suppose a woman is over a certain age... say 25, or 30... and has never been in a long-term relationship. Let's say that she simply never found the right person, and had bad luck with a series of guys. Are her odds of EVER finding love pretty slim? If this woman was o... (92 words)

Do I let her keep playing games or should I break contact by being silent?

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31 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am 29. My ex-fiance is now 30. We got engaged a little over a year ago. Heres my situation. She is a massage therapist. About a month ago, she had a client (this is what she called him) that came in and she was doing some healing work for him. They were in her ... (809 words)

Guy is asking me to do things that I said I would do, but I really don't want to do them

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok , my friends ( a mix of boys and girls )and i at P.E. always talk about dirty stuff and we were asking eachother would we give someone a blowjob or would we go down on someone in the group, and my friend random says ( he's a boy) he would go down on me because i'm hot. I ... (138 words)

Married 18 years and feel stuck

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 18 years, have 3 teenagers and I don't feel the spark for my husband anymore. I feel bad because he deserves so much more. He's hard working a good father and provider. Does not have any bad habits and gives me tons of attention! I feel stuck and my i... (74 words)

Should I send him a picture?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so i've been talking with my friend from school and we've decided that were going to have sex. He's only 2 years older, but my question isn't whether to have sex with him or not. I'm going to. But he asked me a few weeks ago if i would send him a picture. I said no and that ... (120 words)

Confused gal!

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi dear..i m girl who is 16 years old. and i have fall in love with a guy whom i am very close wuth.i dont know whether he knows that i like him but he have tried to bring out the truth that i like him..i am scared to tell him because i dont want to lose him.what if i tell hi ... (166 words)

Want to try something new, ex-bf won't let me go though

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been broken up with my ex of 2.5yrs for nearly a month. He was verbally abusive but called it "jokes", would make "joking" threats but never follow thru, and the last month of our relationship he had mssged 4 other girls including his ex that cheated on him asking for ... (689 words)

Still like my ex, what do I do?

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i have this problem...i still love my ex boyfriend! He was my first love i have had and i dont know what to do! He goes out with all of these differnet girls to make me jealous and im breaking down! Teh first time we broke up was just out of the blue and he didnt tell me ... (134 words)

I'm about to kick out my 17 year old son

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31 May 2009 (F)

age - I am about to kick out my 17 year old son. I am a single parent of 3. I teach and my older son has me in a depressed state every so often. I earn good money and own two houses. Second house that we live in needs attention. I want to do it quickly. Hard on my own. My... (377 words)

I think his new girlfriend needs to know what he did with me

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all Ok i have a bit of a problam hear, anyway it involves an ex and we split october last year but have always remained friends,anyway hes now got this new gf whos 5 weeks pregnent with his baby, My problam is that monday just gone he took me and my friend for a driv... (253 words)

I want my ex to come back to me on his own terms

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31 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you try and get an ex boyfriend to have feelings for you again? like make him want to be with you again etc just as me and my bf have recently split (2 months ago) and i want him back i don't want to talk to him about it though, i would like him to come back to me o... (74 words)