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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've had Unprotected sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm using yasmin pill but have missed yesterdays and had unprotected sex that nite, I took the moring after pill this morning, but after taking that I have had unprotected sex again, what can I do? ... (36 words)

I'm married but have a feeling when we meet again something sexual will happen.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - When I was 16 I met a friend while staying with relatives for the summer. We both liked each other but were to shy to say anything. We kept in touch .the last 10 years. I am now married with a family and he is recently single. For al long as I can reme,ber I would think what ... (235 words)

Bad boys verses gentlemen...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - all i have ever come across is players and bad boys that only want me for sex and never treat me right. Recently i started dating a guy and i was genuinely shocked! He wines and dines me, wants to meet up to go out during the day (not just texting me at night like all t... (157 words)

What do you think? Is there such a thing as love at first sight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I have a question for all those people out there, do you believe in love at first site, true love or phony love? I believe in all of them.... (30 words)

How can I lose weight quickly???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What is a good way to lose weigth fast? I want to lose 30 pounds in 40 days any ideas?... (20 words)

Help needed. I want to ask this girl out but I'm afraid of rejection...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I am what some people call a nerd, I play video games a lot and endlessly scan the internet. I want to ask out this girl but i think she might reject me because i am a "nerd". What should I do? ... (44 words)

How can I help him? I hate seeing my friend so down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - right this isnt exactly my problem but i need advice on how to help him through it. My friend is 20. hes got all sorts rong with his health, at the moment he is unable to eat and is on liquid meals. he recently met a girl and they went out , he was happy as larry and even h... (318 words)

I don't want my date to meet my parents.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Honestly when I start dating I dont want my girlfriend to meet my parents. I think they are odd. It isn't the girl I am worried about but my parents. How do I make somewhat casual and calm when I bring a girl to my house?... (46 words)

Help! Long distance relationship, I live in US he's in the UK... falling in love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Help! I've been talking to this wonderful guy from the UK who im falling in love with.. the problem is i live in the US! he really likes me a lot as well, but im not sure if he's really falling for me yet. there is a 5hr time difference and he does make an effort to talk to me ... (283 words)

10 year sexual affair with my cousin...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My second cousin and I have been having a secret sexual relationship for about ten years now. The first time we had sex is when I was 14 and she was 13. Now I am 24 and she is 23 years old. We usually used birth control (Condoms) but about three months ago, we got drunk and... (132 words)

I'm really upset he lied to me about her liking him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, so lately I've been looking at my bfs facebook page, and this girl writes on his wall, pretty much every day, with flirty little messages. (Bit of background - she lives in New Zealand, where he grew up, we live in the UK, but moving back to australia/new zealand area nex... (355 words)

How do I tell mommy and daddy that I'm ready to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I am 13 and I think I am ready to start dating. How do I tell my parents?... (19 words)

Help!!! What's going on in his head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my problem is i like this guy i'm sort of seeing we text, talk, hang out all the time, we kiss and well do everything a normal boyfriend and girlfriend would do so the problem is we aren't bf and gf, and i want to be. I have in the past when u upset me that i dont want a boyf... (272 words)

The biggest kissing problem.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My man will not kiss me... do I let him kiss me or do I kiss him and if I kiss him how do I start? Do I look in his eyes and kiss him or do I leen and not look at him? And if I kiss him will it be weird? Do I run away or stay with him? I have held his hand but never got ... (103 words)

My mom will NEVER accept my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My new boyfriend treats me like a princess!! and i'm sooo happy with him.. we've been talking for about a month and recently made it official last week.. He's perfect.. we're so compatible, we barely fight, he pleases me, anything i wish for he completes it, he has a successful ... (129 words)

Girlfriend's PMT Stresses Me Out, Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok i've just met a wonderful girl, and i'm madly in love with her, i know this because it's diffrent than the feelings i've had with ex gf's, i am 17 and she is 16, shes slept over a few times now, but recently she has come on the PMT it really hurts me though the way she ... (560 words)

How can I fool my hunger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello. Ok, well basically I have a very important fancy party in three days and I have been eating non-stop. How can I fool my hunger? I have been drinking plenty of water but i just cant stop eating! Even my bf said I look like I've gained weight and that terrifies me... an... (56 words)

How to move on from a seemingly never-ending infatuation???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, I am completely and hopelessly infactuated with this boy in the year above me at the college I attend. Were both part of the college debating society and so I know him and he knows me but were more collegues than friends, if you know what I mean. Hes already got ... (200 words)

Could I possibly be having seizures?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - The absence seizure certainly sounds like me where I stare off blankly, lose time people could be talking to me touching me and nothing, when I snap out of it I am usually very surprised to find people looking at me! When I am absent I don't recall anything and people often ... (193 words)

This feeling's tearing me up... I want him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I know that there have been many questions like this posted but I still feel like I cannot get answers from anything or anyone! I thought I was over him; my teacher. I know it's wrong to have any type of relationship with a teacher and have acknowledged that after so long (o... (489 words)

How can I deal with her harrassment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been dating someone for a little bit more than six months, we happened to be roomates before we dated and then things got difficult, i saw a side of her i didn't like (a lot of arguing and even physical agressivity). i tried leaving her many times but when i did even the ... (359 words)

Help, Impossibly in love with my priest!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, First of all please don't anyone judge me for this. I am a writing anonymously to guard myself and the person I'm seeing. I know it's wrong, in fact we both know it's wrong. I've gone to this church since I was a child. Years passed and I continued to assist and help out... (391 words)

Is there a good reason why I should have to wear makeup to please him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Maybe this is a stupid question, I don't know. My boyfriend is 28 and I am 21; we have been dating about 8 months. Lately he and I have been having problems in our relationship, mainly communications but some other things also. A couple days ago we sat down to talk it out and ... (390 words)

Do girls just date people because they can?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Do girls just date people because they can? There is a girl that i know that is dating someone that (at least i think) she does not even like.... (29 words)

Where do I belong ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i hate being middle child because i feel i belong no where.i am not wanted at home and i am also compared to younger girls who have more then me and more skills then me.who i know my self is better then me its makes me feel such failure. because i have never qualified in any ... (332 words)

What does my ex boyfriend want from me?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - seriously...BEAM ME UP SCOTTY! My ex..he is an arsehole and the love of my life. He comes crawling back a week ago after i managed to keep him out of my life for 2 months, he was begging for my forgiveness for the way he has treated me and is desperate to make amends..i t... (436 words)

Terrified of his kissing me. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I feel useless as a female because whenever I get close to a bloke I tense up, I have just started to see this amazing guy but everytime he tries to kiss me I end up saying no and pulling away but I am into him in a big way and I want to kiss him and there is a lot of chemistry ... (111 words)

How can I overcome my hatred of my small boobs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) age 18-21 - I'm so disappointed with my body. With my breasts actually. They're small. However, I'm not "athletic". I'm not fat, but I'm not a skinny, long-bodied beauty. I'm medium framed, huge hips, most of the fat goes there, actually. I've always been disappointed with my body since I ... (479 words)

I can't feel sex. Why is this and what is it like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - serious problem! me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and he was my first and i felt nothing (it's a problem i have, where i can't cum etc got no feeling what so ever down there) and i always tell him i cum etc but now he asked me by text how it feels etc and ... (75 words)

How do I get put into care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - MOD NOTE: USER SAYS HE IS 15 AND NOT THE AGE STATED. I want to go into foster care but i'm not sure how to go about it.. i've told my mum i want to and she seems angry but says if thats what i really want she's going to take me to some place in town to see if i can get put into... (125 words)

How to get to the root of my distaste for pornography?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recommendations as to figuring out why it bothers me so much and how to get past it? I ask because it really bothers me when I am in a relationship and I know my significant other is viewing pornography. I'm realistic enough to realize that this will likely always rear it's... (266 words)

I've Got Standards, But My Boyfriend However Doesn't, Or Didn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey Guys, So here goes. I'm a 16 (almost 17) Year Old atractive female. My 17 year old boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and I'm very happy. Although... I have only had one other Semi "serious" boyfriend, Being sexualy active is something i have yet to ... (417 words)

Places for a 20 year old girl to make friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - How can I get more friends, as at the moment I have none, I have tried going to night classes in the past and have went to functions etc. on my own but I always seem to end up on my own and it's starting to depress me a ittle. I feel I only live for work and when I am not ... (169 words)

He only wants sex but I want more... have I blown my chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm not sure I have done the right thing. A bit of a long story - me and a guy at work have been flirtng for years and we have both said we like each other - the problem - he only wants "fun" and I want more. We have kissed once, very passionately at work after hours. Si... (203 words)

It was wonderful in the beginning but now it's rubbish. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I started dating my boyfriend a year ago and in the begining he was lovely he's 18 years older than me and everthing was great and i felt like a princess and that i could finally be with someone who understood me 2 or 3 weeks in i cheated i didnt have sex or oral but i did some ... (324 words)

Will I ever be ready for another marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My late-husband and I met in seventh grade, got married a week after graduation from high school. We were married for a year and three months and had one child whom was born on September 11th, 2001. My late-husband worked as a security guard in the South tower of the Wor... (426 words)

A long tale of cheating ex boyfriends and mistrust. Is there any hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 181 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Ok this is a long read so im saying sorry now.... It started a few months ago i met this girl who lets say is called sue (Not real name)who I really got on with (I was with Jane (not real name) at this point who i did cheat on with sue ) (Not happy about doing that)But w... (1198 words)

He broke my heart, but I'm still in love with him, what can I do to move on with my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - ok im 14 years old and madly in love with my ex bf whos 15. but again hes my EX BOYFRIEND.....and its got me really depressed why: -hes got alot to handel all the time because hes got a hard life and hes not as strong as he comes across (but i totaly get that.....and h... (156 words)

Broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years, I don't like her being overweight and hate her belly, told her she was a "thick cow", am I being cruel as she said I was?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hi I want to ask an opinion. I dumped my girlfriend last week. We were together about 5 years but I always found her not good enough cos she is overweight, in debt and lives in a council house. She says she has tried hard paying off the debts and losing weight slowly. She ... (418 words)

He wastes his money, I don't want to be a nag, but how can I get him to spend more wisely, we're broke?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and i haven't been together very long and have already moved in together, and it looks as though i am pregnant too. I'm happy with him, i love him to pieces and he feels the same way about me too. He's nine years older than me but we're on about the same maturity ... (281 words)

Confusion big time, he flirts, but backs off around his friends, sending mixed messages, how do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - okay does this boy like me ro does he want to be just friends...................??????????what do i do when a boy shows flirtation to u but never talks to you when people are around?? like his friends are around he will stop flirting with me.. adn i walk away but when im ... (80 words)

Had sex with my sister, she says if I tell she will cry rape, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - When my sister and I hit puberty we started masturbating together because we were curious how it would feel. It turned out to feel great; but, around two years ago she started to do oral sex on me. On my seventeenth birthday weekend when my parents went out of town for two ... (131 words)

I like him, his sister is my friend, his mom my soccer coach, out of bounds if I make the first move, he acts like he fancies me as well?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay this is gonna be long so brace yourself. There is this guy that I have a crush on. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coach’s son. At the end of this year I will be ... (576 words)

Married 25 years, great sex life, now at 45 years of age, have lost my sex drive, is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I'm married to my wife 25 years ago. We had great sex, she is the love of my life. But a few years ago, I lost my sex drive, and have very weak erections. We have no sex life left, because of me. I went to the doc, but he says,I have no medical problem, it is just psyc... (122 words)

Guys, I want to kiss him, he said he doesn't want a relationship, will it hurt my chances, if I kiss him anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hiya! So there's this boy i met this year that i really really like. I kinda told him i'd been interested in him a few months ago; we've come to be decent friends, and he ended up asking me to senior prom. Sometimes---i like him so much---i feel the strongest urge you can ... (278 words)

What can I do to improve my self-esteem, and to stop caring so much, what other people think of me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I feel a little lost at the moment. All my life, I've tried to fit in with people. I've never been great at it and I'm not sure why. People tell me all the time that I'm a nice guy, and I think that they are right to think that. I never try to get on anyones bad side... (262 words)

Pregnant with boyfriend's child, but attracted more to his best friend, any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I havent been with my boyfriend for very long but we've already fallen madly in love with each other, he's told me i'm the best thing thats ever happened to him and i'm really special to him. I know how much he cares about me and loves me and i feel exactly the same way. We've ... (306 words)

Should I ask her out again, after she turned me down, or ask someone else out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Im 13 and I like a popular girl in my grade. She turned me down so I thought of going out with girl of my "level". Should I ask the popular girl out again or should I go out with the other girl? ... (46 words)

He's slept with nearly 100 women... opinions please!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi would just like to ask what people make of a 30 year old man who has slept with nearly 100 women?... (22 words)

What to do about my ex and what does this dream mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age - okay so my ex and i have been very up and down and he has a very strong mean streak (reason why i dumped him). like i think i am over him. but i dont know for sure. like i have wasted 2 years on him hoping he would chnage and stop being so mean to me but he wont. like he ... (216 words)

That man hates me and it's killing me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need for the guys to answer this question, preferably someone who has experienced loving and hating your woman. I know your situation might be different, but I still would like to know!!! 1) I wanna know what could I have possibly done to make this man hate me, whe... (132 words)

Is it Instinct to Just Let a Kiss Happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

Is there such thing as natural white teeth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - do some people have natural perfect white teeth. without them going to a dentist to get then professional done. because i saw family in photo and ordinary family not celebrity's or nothing like that.there was 5 of them there were so white and even .i saw a few people there ... (109 words)

Should I try to be cool or just be myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Since the girl I like turned me down my friend wants to make me "cool". A High Schooler on my bus , who is a girl, says to be myself. I dont know what to do be cool or myself. ... (43 words)

I feel my husband spoiled our trip!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 8 months. We never took a honeymoon. This past week, I went to a conference for my job held at a very fancy resort about an hour and half's drive away. The room was paid for and so was my food and mileage. All we had to come up with ... (486 words)

How do I get an STD test without offending my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - how do I get an STD test without offending my boyfriend? thing is we have both been unfaithful but in the way I was I couldn't have got anything and I was tested in the beginning of my relationship and nothing bad came back. now I'm really scared cause he slept with two women ... (101 words)

I've never had a girlfriend so I'm struggling to give advice to my friend! Help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - My friend says he is in love with his ex and now he is allways talking to me about it. I still dont have a girlfriend so I really dont know what to say. I tell him to ask her out or just forget about her. What should he do? ... (51 words)

He's all I ever think about... am I in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear cupid, I think I'm in love. How do I know for sure though. I've been seeing this guy for five months. Three months into this whole thing he would tell me that he loved me but I would quickly change the subject because I wanted him to tell me how he truly felt other than ... (94 words)

My friend told the whole school about the girl I like!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Im 13 and my friend asked me who I like, I told him and the next day at school he tells everyone! I asked him why he did it and he said it was about reverse physcoligy and that would make her go out with me. He said he'd ask her out for me and when he did she said " No ... ... (82 words)

Is there hope for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for 11 years now. We have 3 beautiful children. Our marriage was a marriage made in heaven. Two years ago we got the internet and ever since then my husband spends hours online looking at other woman. Within the past months he started a log ... (499 words)

Am I hetrosexual... or bi???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I am a 16 year old female, I will be 17 on the 3rd of next month. I have many bi friends myself, there's nothing wrong with that. I've noticed like a week ago that I was starting to be bi-curious, I've asked my friends if I happen to be somewhat bi, they told me if i have been ... (179 words)

What are these white spots?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - heya, im kind of worried because i dont have a clue what this is and im too embarrassed to tell anyone about it but... i have these white spot like things on the top of my private part. (I'm a female) I'm not sure if its cos of where i have shaved and its begun to chafe or... (130 words)

Does feeling a "real" penis make the difference???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My partner's stopped wearing a condom because we want to start a family. The third time we had intercourse this way I experienced my 1st ever orgasm - it was unmistakable and I really had to cry out with the pleasure. I was just wondering whether it was a coincidence - or... (62 words)

My wife's affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 48-year-old man, my wife's 46, and we've been married for 21 years. Yesterday I found out that my wife has been having an affair. A very close friend of mine who works as a delivery driver ("white van man" to us British people!) said he'd seen her at the local high s... (343 words)

Who does he really want...me or my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 182 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i beleive my bf is in love or likes my own cousin she said sick comments about sleeping with him and he says nothing and now like when we are laid up he wont touch me he turns his back to me im only 17 and my cousin is 20 and hes 21 maybe he wants sum1 older now idk how 2 feel ... (122 words)

My crush has a crush on my friend should I forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 182 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i have a HUGE prob my bestfriend (iya) has a crush on (edward) my crush. Hi Im hazel it started like this in my school theres a new comer its edward he's sooo cute so I told my friend iya about it, then I planned to talk to edward, we hang out a little bit, go to library,... (213 words)

My ex has been continously texting me asking about dates I have been on, why is he so interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My ex is on his way to being dumped and he hadn't spoke to me for a week and a half and texts me on wednesday night and said he hadn't spoke to me in a while and wanted to know how I was. I replied and he kept texting continuously for 3 hrs and asked about my dates Ive been ... (75 words)

Is 7 years an age difference I should be worried about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I'm Ashley. I am 19. About two months ago I started dating my boyfriend, to whom is 27. He will be 28 in December. He thinks and talks about our age difference often, and I try to explain to him that its not a big deal and its 2009 that 7 or 8 years is the not a big deal ... (117 words)

Dating a guy who shares a room with his so called female "best friend"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi! i have been dating mi guy for two months now and the problm is he is staying with a girl in the same room, and when i ask him he says the girl is her best friend and there is nothing that will separate the two of them,its eitheir he introduces me to the girlfriend or we ... (99 words)

I'm bisexual but should I try being in a relationship with a man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - im a bisexual who prefers girls.. i've never fell in love with men (i only "like" them and their bodies) but have loved many women. im in closet..have never been into relationship.. there's this guy who has been chasing me for the past year...he's really sweet and ... (179 words)

Gay relationship woes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a bisexual man and have been in a relationship with a man for the last seven years, living together for the best part of 6 years. I love him deeply but we have an erratic relationshp and have parted twice because we wanted different things out of life. we got back together ... (217 words)

Is being kissed when you didnt want to be cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Cutting a long story short, i was in a strip club on a stag do recently when a stripper kissed me on the mouth. It was for no longer than 2 or 3 seconds maximum (and probably less). She didn't put her tounge in my mouth and i certainly did not kiss her back. I was quite shocked ... (239 words)

My husband finds the idea of retirement dull but I would like to spend more time with him

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22 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 51 and my husband is 54, and he told me that his firm said to him that his retirement is set to come in six weeks time. He told me that they didn't really want to do it, and when he asked why they wanted him to retire, they said it was nothing to do with how he worked for ... (263 words)

My boyfriend sneaks out of bed to watch porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I know this kind of situation has been bought up on here before, but would feel really appreciative if i could have some answer's personal to me. See the thing is I escaped an abusive relationship with my ex husband, for example controlled my every move and was never al... (487 words)

Karma took its revenge on me so will it take its revenge on my cheating ex?

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22 May 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - i made a bad mistake in my previous relationship and im not afraid to admit it, than karma came back to me and i deserved it.she cheated on me and treated me like dirt bad, than she dumped me, now i want to know will karma go back to her for what she did to me? she left me ... (124 words)

I sabotaged her dreams of modelling 8 years ago....am I to blame for the way her life has turned out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Morning all. I did an awful thing a few years back and now im not sure if im to blame for her future.. About 8 years ago when i was in high school i had this friend Vikki-when i say friend she used to hang around with me because i was the dull brunette and she was the pr... (338 words)

Do people use the sympathy vote to get ahead and get attention so people feel sorry for them?

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22 May 2009 (F) age 22-25 - what type of people get the sympathy vote and do they use it to get places as leg up.and people feel sorry for them for (eg a person said they father dies of tumor in shopping line while talking to some one who is front them and sudden let them in front because of this sad ... (59 words)

Stressing over the choice between my ex and my current boyfriend!

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22 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am making myself ill with stress over my current situation. I was dumped 1 year ago by the love of my life and met someone else very quickly, about 5 months into this new relationship, my ex apologised for his behaviour and told me he still loved me and was going travelling ... (440 words)

Why can't he be happy just having sex with me?

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22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay well i guess this is a really common topic but.. ive been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and ive always been pretty self concious about myself but after being with him for so long i just feel like dirt. hes been cheating on me and watching porn alot.. he even m... (369 words)

He loves me but doesn't want to get engaged

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22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi all.I need some help. I have been with my bf for 2 yrs we always talked about marriage, when i sat him down he told me he wasn't ready to be engaged. So I was ok with it but he got mad cause he wanted me to be devastated. Should I stay with him because he is't ready, if a ... (634 words)

1st cousin sex forbidden?

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22 May 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - i'm catholic and want to know if having sex with 1st cousin is forbidden to have sex with 1st cousin.... (20 words)

10 years platonic relationship..am I wasting my time?

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22 May 2009 (M)

age - After 10 years in a kind of "platonic" relationship with a woman 40 years younger than I am,I am wondering if i am wasting my time.We are entirely compatible and anticipate meeting once a week plus exchanging E-Mails and phone calls.We love each other but she does not feel ... (72 words)

Could my vertigo be depression related?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I know I'm depressed because I have some of the symptoms and a reason to be depressed. It's been a while since I've been depressed, but as a christian I stay positive. My problem is I've been feeling imbalanced lately and experiencing vertigo. I'm concerned becaus... (76 words)

She's got a b/f, but I really want her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Moderator's note: Two questions from the same sender were combined 15 nearly 16. I only know one girl that'll give me a chance and she already has a bf... What should I do?!... I'm 15 nearly 16. There's only one girl that I want to lose my virginity too.. But the pro... (70 words)

Is he with her for revenge?

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22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half the first time. We broke up, he got a new girlfriend 3 days later, I knew that she was just a rebound. Well they broke up after 7 months because she didn't want to be with him anymore and him and I started dating again, ... (161 words)

At 30 I'm heading into a serious mid-life crisis

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22 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Lately I have been so sad, because I'm afraid that I'm running out of time to do all the things I wanted to in life. I'm at an age where I'm running out of time if I want to have children, and I realize I'm in the wrong career, and I am so scared that it's too late to do both. ... (370 words)

I'm controlling and I need to stop!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Help me please; I beg you anyone, I'm a controlling person but i don’t like it. I don't hit her and stuff I don’t do to much serious but we had an argument on it and I need to change I’m over protective Because of past relationships not so trusting I always think she’s c... (112 words)

The club all seem to have their own friends ...

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22 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If you didn't stay in touch with a high school group --so many people who I know did --how do you make friends or fit into a group or club when everyone has their own group within the club? I thought I had friends, but when I joined their club, it's like they all have th... (121 words)

Plain confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - So, let's say we have girl.A(her) and guy.A(totally not me)... They are teenagers in school Girl.A is somewhat of a sadist, and has done "bad things" to guy.A before(physically, not emotionally or anything else)for no apparent reason Girl.A's BF has just broken up with her ... (208 words)

Should I hold out for a great relationship, or just experiment?

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22 May 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm only 16 and I know that's still kinda young but I've only dated 2 guys over the last year. The second lasted quite a while but eventually things just got really messed up between us. It ended back in feb. So I've been single for about 4 months now and I do not like it. I... (208 words)

Is she sending a message?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's the thing. I've been spending a lot of time with a girl, and we've become very close. We've been friends for years, but we've become very close over the past six months or so. She knows I am attracted to her, but she has said in the past that she doesn't see me like ... (193 words)

I need to get him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I broke up with him, but now i regret it everyday. I miss him so much that I couldn't sleep. I keep on having nightmare or dream about him coming back to me. But he's not. He said he doesn't want relationship right now. I know he still cares for me. I'm not sure if he still ... (202 words)

My ex is trying to sabotage new relationships for me.

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22 May 2009 (F)

- Hoping for some help here and thank you to people who respond. My ex and I broke up some time ago. There are guys interested now but it seems if my ex is around, he rolls his eyes at my comments or is sarcastic..in front of the guys who ARE interested. He ended the relationship ... (110 words)

He ex says he has something to tell me, but wont say what. Why is he waiting so long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and I have not seen each other in a year now, we live in different countries, but still love each other, as we have both expressed it to each other. I had some issues and I hurt him very much, not by anything external of our relationship, but just by my own selfishness ... (225 words)

My son gets horrible bloody noses!

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22 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this is not related to sex or relationship, but i really need some serious input on this. my son is 6 years old and his nose pours blood all the time and his dr says that its nothing to worry about. Does anyone know what could possibly be a cause. Like this morning at ... (134 words)

Do you think that because I was worried about him he will think I have feelings for him?

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22 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There´s this guy I have feelings for who is a military stationed somewhere across the country. We met 2 years ago when he did TDY in my town. We kinda clicked since the moment we met, unfortunately he had to leave a week later with no chance for something more. We email an... (258 words)

After 10 years and two kids together, he still doesn't want to marry me. Should I stick with it or move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

22 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, I thought that at this stage of my life things wouldn't seem so bad. But Then again, maybe I'm just looking for problems like my bf says to all the time....that and I'm wrong!!! We've been together for almost a decade and have two kids together. I found out when I ... (142 words)

My guy is going on a boys holiday and I need to know how I can get myself to trust him.

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22 May 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have major trust issues! I've been with my boyfriend now for about 4 months and i love him very much. i don't think he has ever cheated on me and have no reason to believe he will. however he is going on a boys holiday next month and i'm finding it hard to entirely trust him ... (116 words)

How do they do pregnancy tests at a clinic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi there, My Girlfriend found out she was pregnant around 8 weeks ago now and told me she had an abortion 6 weeks ago (she didn't want me there) She said shes had her period a few weeks after the abortion too. I do believe her however this was such a big scare for me I wa... (119 words)

Should I keep trying to make this relationship work?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

22 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I keep trying to make this relationship work? I have known my partner for 9 years. We are in late 30s ealry 40s. We nearly got together twice before but remained close friends and then finally three years ago we did. She had many partners and used to confide in me somet... (1597 words)