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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Ladies, I have a lot of pubic hair which I want removed, how do I ask my mom to get me something that will take care of it, did you ever have this problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This question is only for girls. I am thirteen and going thu puberty... obviously. any way I have a lot of pubic hair that show on the bekini line and I really want my mom to buy me nair wax strips for bikini lone or something like that but I don't now how to appraoch... (157 words)

Really need some exercise tips, for specific results?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - With summer only weeks away im wanting to tone up and lose the fat around my thighs, as well as toning my bum, making it look 'lifted' as if fuller, but im not sure what would be the best way to achieve this?? I eat normally quite healthy, but to be honest, iv rarley ever ... (223 words)

I'm involved with my boyfriend, flirt with another guy I like, and make out with a girl who has a crush on me, drugs, bad grades and booze are my vices, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im just a complete waster. I do my A levels, got predicted and got good grades last year, now i'm in my final year about to leave for uni and have done nothing but drink and take drugs to the point where i just cannot be bothered with my a levels and see them as a joke, and i ... (492 words)

I am short of breath, have a sharp pain, doctor has found nothing, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm really worried about my health. There are times when I feel a little short of breath, and every now and again, I experience a short but sharp pain in my chest. It only lasts for a second or two and then it stops. I've been to a doctor about it before, and they... (101 words)

One child, one on the way, do not love each other, should we stay together for the sake of the children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a difficult situation - as I suppose everyone else here is as well. here goes: I'm 28 and in a relationship of 4 years (we are not married but have lived the life of a married couple for ~3 1/2 years). We have a 2 1/2 year old and one on the way (due in 4 months).... (418 words)

Does how much you gain during pregnancy reflect the size of your baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was 110 lbs. before pregnancy, and now at 8 months I am 135 lbs. Does how little I have gained mean that my baby will be small? The majority of the weight is what I have gained in the last 2-3 months (if that matters). So what I'm really asking (since I know none of you are ... (122 words)

In a long distance relationship, am I expecting too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been speaking to this guy for a couple of years now and love him so much, we are the same age but live in different countries, we always say that one day i'll go over there and we'll get married and settle down, but how realistic is this, am i leading him on and getting ... (65 words)

Why does he drag me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age - I will be forever indebted for a male/female perspective on this. I'm a 44 year old woman, the man i date is 48. He's in the Navy and nearing retirement. We met 5 months ago..neither of us knew what we were looking for. I've been divorced one year, him 10 years. The first ... (197 words)

Loving & patient in bed, complete opposite otherwise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - how can there be such a great contrast-- i've dated someone once who was on the surface, kind and sometimes genuinely understanding, we rarely if ever had a true fight (he never once instigated one, but was very passive aggressive i found), and when it came to sex, he could... (485 words)

Letting go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope someone can offer me some guidance or answers. I've been dating this guy for nearly a year. I love him and to me he's the only person I want to spend my life with. We're stuck in this long distance relationship. Anyhow, last time we met up, we talked about 'us'and ... (198 words)

How important is it that a girl is pretty?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i`m wondering how important it is that a girl is pretty? i`m a 17 year old girl, and i have never been in a relationship. i`m really ugly (people have called me man-face and so on) and fat, and have no selfesteam what so ever. i feel really alone, and i have lost absolutley ... (120 words)

He moved away and I think he might love me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Here are some of the background facts: He's in his early 20s and I am in my late 20s. He was a friend-of-a-friend who came onto me hard and heavy for a month or two, but then freaked out and ran the other direction for a couple of weeks, until I contacted him to help me out on ... (820 words)

I don't know if I'm really attracted to this other guy or afraid of commitment to my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Advice needed ... I have been with my boyfriend on/off for 2 years now and about 4 months ago we decided to give it a proper go and make our relationship serious. When we were not together we both were involved with other people. The guy i was with is a very good friend of mine ... (412 words)

Will he miss me and want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please, somebody help me. Me and my now ex boyfriend were dating about a year, we were really good friends before we got together and he ended up moving in with me into my flat pretty quick. Too quick actually... But we made it work. We went through a lot, he lost his driving... (800 words)

I need to be myself again and get my spunk back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hi I am 28 years old my Husband is 36 years old I love him to death but i feel like I am not me around him I lose my Spunk. He had a previouse relationship where his ex cheated on him and we have been together for 10years and i have put up with him being jealous and not ... (223 words)

I do all the work, my partner is lazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - when having intercouse i feel my partner is lazy wether i am on top /below /front /back i seem to be the one doing all the work we weigh the same and him being a man feel he should be stronger at times i jus dread sex cause i know what the routine is.we dont do sexy dressing ... (162 words)

Why do guys say sappy things like"awww" all the time, just wondering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! :D I was just wondering why some guys say 'awww' to almost everything you say? It happens to me quite often, mainly it is on msn. I wouldn't usually imagine some guys to say it, even some who are not necessarily tough, but would never say extremely sappy things (is sapp... (62 words)

He spends an hour on the phone with his female business associate, how do I deal with this monkey business?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My b/f who is 8 yrs younger than me started texting this business associate on the night he worked the night shift, then I found out he has been calling her on evenigs before he reaches home, on morning after I left for work. I confronted him and he says he does not remember ... (190 words)

Why does he want to know if my friends are fit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend hasnt really met my friends yet but whenever i talk bout he always says to me are they fit? This hurts me. Why would he be bothered what they look like? He says cos he like to get an image of what they look like! One time when he was out with me and a few friends. ... (111 words)

Should I tell him I want a baby?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and I will be 21 in bout 6 months. I am in college and I am in a 2 year relationship. We are happy and in love. He brought me a promise/ engagement ring about 6 months ago. We want to get married but we have to plan it. We are not married right now because we ... (109 words)

I'm attracted to women, how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i tell my bf i fantasise about him sleeping with other women? Will he freak out? How will he also react if i were to tell him im bicurious and admire women the same as he does? i dont want to ruin the relationship and he runs a mile. Im confused ....... (54 words)

Boyfriend and his mother are not kind to me throw my life up in my face

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriends mum really hurt me yesterday. She started a convo about domestic violence and stuff. But then she started mentioning my mother. My mum has done some terrible things to me, but i have also gave as much back. Bfs mum thinks i dont stand up to my mum enough and that ... (234 words)

Complicated 12 year relationship, we are not together now, but I need him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age - God this is complicated where to begin..my ex and I split 2 yr ago after a 12 yr on/off relationship. everything was wonderful until 4 yr ago when we bought a caravan to spend weekends away however, when we went on a saturday he insisted on returning sunday to have lunch with ... (428 words)

Fours years together, great sex before, now nothing, he's too tired, what is the problem here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everybody, I need some serious help, I have been with my bf for nearly four years and we just don't have sex anymore or we do its lucky if it once a year! Its that bad that it makes me think he is either cheating and getting it somewhere else or doesn't find me attracti... (186 words)

She has hurt me 3 times, I still love her, friends say don't, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated this girl for 4 years and we broke up in January. I was going to propose to her and I still love her. We started talking again in March and then she suddenly stopped. Well she got in touch with me just recently and acts like she wants to get back together. I still love ... (136 words)

Don't know what to say when he gets all mushy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this might sound silly to some but i never know what to say when my bf is being sweet to me either over the phone or in person , like he tells me 'i love you' with lots of passion all i can say is i love you too or more or w/e he would tell me sweet stuff like 'god i ... (138 words)

Is it illegal for a step-brother and step-sister to have a baby together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - is it illegal for a step brother and step sister to have a baby together?... (15 words)

Keeping sex all in the family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - okay i had sex with this woman that i knew for a while then i had sex with her teenage daughter now i want to have sex with her daughter's cousins who's 21 is it wrong because i'm not in a relationship with neither of these ladies?... (47 words)

He is too involved with his best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - for few days my boyfriend is kind of avoiding me and getting too much involved with his best friend. we are in relation for past 3months n he is not so open with me n i dont have much to tell him every time we talk and his best friend is really open with him and talk to him ... (152 words)

I think he was very rude to me after I spotted his white duvet a bit, what do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age - I hope people don't find this too personal a question but here goes. Recently I have had sex with my fiance and unfortunately I have started spotting. He has pure white sheets and I sat on a towel but two very tiny smudges got on his white duvet. I told him I could sponge it ... (240 words)

We are the closest of friends, but lately I cannot share with her as I used to, what is the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've known an unbelievable woman for over a year now. We have become each other's closest friend. I have never shyed away from sharing anything with her. But over time I developed insecurity issues and as my esteem and confidence plummeted.....I've never lied to her but ... (134 words)

Am I over emphasizing the need to apologize to my friend?

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28 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Is there a point where apologizing defeats itself and all you are doing is reminding someone of a negative incident in the past? I got into an argument and upset my closest friend. I didn't think she'd ever talk to me again. But showing how little I knew, she never stoppe... (201 words)

Angry, Hurt & Confused - Is this guy a player?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy through my best friend about two months ago; they were studying and both away from their hometowns. The first meeting was great and we seemed to click straight away - joking, laughing and a bit of flirting. At the time I didn't think anything of it. He asked ... (664 words)

We're sexually incompatible

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - during sex my boyfreinds ercetion seems to get worse and he keeps insisting that he is erect no matter how hard he tries i have now lost interset in having sex.i say lets try different positions but hes quite set in his ways , he likes playing with his nipples when having sex ... (104 words)

Is calling out because of an emergency a good reason to terminate me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this question i have has to do with work, i was put on a final write up because of my attendance so one of the managers from my job put me on the final write up and told me if i call out one more time im terminated so i ask her what if i have an emergency cause mind you i have ... (114 words)

I was treated unfairly by the police!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey this isnt a relationship question sorry. Right i went to a huge birthday party on the eighth of may and there was sixty odd people there, most of them either 16 or 17 and one 18 year old. (my mum bought my alcohol as im not eighteen for a few months, and she new ab... (446 words)

I'm lonely and depressed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I get so depressed this time of year.im a single parent with a 4 year old daughter. Its just when the summer is here i get so lonely. I would love to be in a relationship. I sit in and see people having bbqs. Going to the pub in the evening having a drink. I just miss those ... (199 words)

We're on summer vacation, now and bf hardly ever texts me! What's happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months. We are now on summer vacation and I won't get to see him as much. However he hasn't called or texted me. What should I do?... (36 words)

He's a FWB and dating others! How do I distance myself emotionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all, I have been dating a man I met online for about 6 weeks. It turned into sort of a "friends with benefits" situation right away, which was fine with me. He was only four weeks out from a messy marriage separation and I knew our relationship was never going to g... (194 words)

We have nothing to talk about

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya im 14 and i know i lied about my age but anyways ive been going out with my boyfriend for two weeks now and ive liked him for ages and we have went out before. but this time feels like we are girlfriend and boyfriend properly. we kiss and snog and hug all the time and ... (133 words)

He wants space and I want him back! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi...my boyfriend left me saying tat he needed space...and i still love him and i want to be with him..he says he also wants to be with me but at the same time he does not want to be with me..please tell me how should i get him back..!! i really love him alot... (54 words)

Do I dump my current bf and go for this other great guy? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am a thirteen year old girl, in a relationship with a great guy and i really like him. But yesterday, one of my best friends told me that the boy i have had a crush on since i first met him likes me. This boy is so much like me, we have so much in commen and we go... (195 words)

Is this cheating? Should I tell him? Please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met someone and we spent about two-three weeks hanging out and eventually being intimate, then that person left to travel for a few months. During that time we spoke on the phone every day, and at one point sort of verified a commitment to one another. However, one night I ... (228 words)

Tips on what men like in bed....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I have been with my boyfriend for a good while now and this is stupid but I figured I could get tips and advice here... So anyhow I was wanting to know what are somethings men like while in bed! Our sex life is wonderful and full of passion but I want to spice it up! Do ... (78 words)

I'm crazy paranoid...about everything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey... So I've been with my fiance for 2 years now and we have a one year old daughter... And we're happy, most of the time. The problem is that I'm crazy paranoid... about everything. HE dated a girl for 3 years before me and she's caused lots of issues between us becaus... (326 words)

Worried what my parents will think of my older boyfriend when they want me to marry someone of their choice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 17 ie turning 18 in this july.i have a boyfriend who is 32.we are in this relationship for about last 5-6 months.i love him very much but i am worried about my parents.actually my parents want me to marry a guy of their choice.well i too know that the age difference is too ... (121 words)

Should I expect more than this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been down a bit for the past while over my boyfriends friends and family. I feel like I dont fit in with them no matter how hard I try. The friends are very laddy and sometimes dont say hello to me - they rarely ask how I am and usually leave me out. I only ever see ... (145 words)

Orgasms and virginity

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i've had orgasms a couple of times before but no one ever touched me and i'm about to have the first sex , i dont know if im a virgin or not, so can having orgasms affect my virginity???? and if i am , will it hurt or bleed?????? im really scared ... (53 words)

Is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I been with this guy for almost 3years n I thnk he's cheating on me he did in the past and cuz he did it I did it bad cuz it hurt. But I think he is doing it again The reason why I say is cuz the past 2days he called me late n he said and yesterday he said he would call me ... (220 words)

My past infidelities are coming back to haunt me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for 19 years but we have been together for 24. 9 years ago I had an affair which my husband found out about and we put it behind us. However, I found out last week that he has been having an affair for the last 8 months. I have suspected all ... (353 words)

Racist friend....what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy I've written an article about this, but while replying to someone else I realized I have a problem..which might seem strange but yeah... Basically my best friend can be racist sometimes, and she just sees it as a joke and I don't really understand that. It's ... (521 words)

Broke up and now she wants the FWB

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I posted a question earlier saying that my ex GF dumped me almost two months ago, she starts talking to me again recently, and she wants to hang out. We talked last night and she says she isn't ready for a relationship with anyone at the moment, but she wants to be friends with ... (192 words)

He only wants me back now I'm dating other people!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

- My ex bf broke up with me, but now he wants me back. He showed no interest in me for so long during our relationship and kept pushing me away etc, no matter how hard I tried to be a good gf to him. Then he broke it off and didnt speak to me again. And now that I am moving on ... (185 words)

Is this guy a lost cause, destined to be an eternal bachelor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm sick of thinking about this guy and I would like some advice on the situation! I have seen a guy a couple of times now and at first I was happy for it to be a bit of fun. But now I actually quite like him, but I have no idea on how he feels about me! On the one hand he ... (632 words)

Tempted to cheat 2 years into a relationship, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i no you probably think I am being stupid, but I am such a worrier!! i have been tempted to cheat on my partner (a year ago)! has most people if not everyone in long term relationships been tempted to cheat at least once? and would this be something your partner would need to ... (205 words)

Worried about getting braces!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this is really long and bores you but I really need some advice. I've had a lisp since I've first learned how to talk, well it isn't a lisp it's with my t's and d's and I use the roof of my mouth to say them and not the back of my teeth but I went to see a speech ... (318 words)

Am I being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i really like this guy, i have just broken up with his best friend, and now even tho his best friend dumped me, my ex hates me. but his best freind is so nice to me, but only at certain moment, he only texts me or is nice to me when he wants to meet up. The rest of the ... (107 words)

First steps as a gay female....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im single. super single. have never been into a relationship before.. have quite a number of male suitors but am not interested in them! i think im gay, and i feel soo trapped. im tall with athletic body, decent looking, but have yet to attract any girls (not that i know of ... (68 words)

We are planning our future together but he cant seem to get over his insecurities!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I need some advice..my boyfrend and I are considering getting married, we have a joint savings account, we have chosen a ring etc, however he goes through these stages where he feels insecure and not strong enough for me, he feels like I am a much stronger person ... (196 words)

Is he messing me around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - He says he wants us to just be friends as there is alot of baggage between us on either side, so i agreed not really wanting to as i like him alot, but we still text, email loads and he said he wants to meet me for a drink next week before i go on holiday.....can this work? or ... (88 words)

I'm scared he will see me differently if he finds out my grades!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have become really close, and I trust him with everything except telling him my GPA. I know it sounds moronic but I go to a very good college where people are quite intense, and he's a pre-med near the top of the class. He also assumes I have a very high... (209 words)

How do I satisfy a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My last Question get satisfatory answer? Thanks to all? I am little confused about girls that when she has cum in sexual intercourse. normally it takes how much time to get girls have cum. can every girls have cum by sexual intercourse? what should I have to do to get girl f... (59 words)

Troubles with my boyfriends family....we just need to get away from them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i dated this guy in 2005 for a year and a half, he went to America the last six months of our relationship and in that time, his father tried everything to break us up.. i never knew why.. and he got it right.. we broke up for a year then last year december.. we ... (360 words)

He starts his day by looking at other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 24 and my bf is 25. We have been together for 10 months. 6 months into the relationship after he rejected my advances, I walked in on him getting off to porn. We have lived together for the whole 10 months we have been together and apart from the porn issue, we h... (540 words)

I really like him but I want more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age - Met this guy 2 weeks ago and got on really well... we arranged to meet again after he returned from a week away on business, but he texted me and said work was manic, and really he could only give me good sex at the moment. B/c I really liked him I said that was a start and we ... (177 words)

Confused about women's bodies and sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Dear Members? I am 25 years, I have lot of confusion about women body and their sex organs. because I don't have sex yet. so, can you pls tell me What is hymen? is this releted with menstruation? is it true that every girls have bleed in her first sex. and if it is ... (81 words)

Is it innapropriate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, is it inappropriate/creepy for me, 20, telling a 14 year old girl (albeit mature), that i think she's beautiful and if i were younger, i would ask her out? opinions to be appreciated... (36 words)

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. He is my first boyfriend. I am also a virgin. So I've always said I would not have sex until I was married. But more and more, it's getting harder between my boyfriend and I. Today, we were messing around and he took my ... (127 words)

Is it worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - hi everyone Three years ago my life fell to pieces. My grandparents, who played a very big part in my upbringing both died within 6 months of each other. My alcoholic abusive partner of 9 years went a step too far, finally admitting cheating on me (three days after my gr... (653 words)

I'm confused by the mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So, last night, my ex that I was with for 5 years came over to my house. He said he was coming over to help me forget at least for a little while about a friends death. He came over at around 10:00pm and left at around 2:00am. He did try to have sex with me, and I would tell ... (255 words)

Should we stay together?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have only been together for about half a year, but already i feel like a boring old couple i see on tv and think.... how unlucky. as he is hardly ever home because he has a job on the other side of wales by his dad i never know what he is realy doing, and in ... (294 words)

Am I in love too?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - we are on the same dormitory but diiferent rooms. we started hanging out until one day she wants to sleep beside me every night. i was used to it that she always sleeps besides me but then as months past by she told me that she don't want to anymore. well, i have some feeling ... (247 words)

Does he love me and just not know how to tell me?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been seeing a guy for about 3 months, I have fallen in love with him, but he does not know. I think he feels the same way, but im not sure. He recently told me he was moving out of state for about 2 months to straighten out his life, when I told him not to tell me when he ... (102 words)

Husband goes out clubbing without me every weekend!

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Last May my husband moved from the UK to Taiwan to get married with me. When he was in the UK, he probably went out to bars or clubs only once a year. Yet now he goes to a bar at least 4 evenings a week, and he wants to go out clubbing every weekend. I don't have any h... (483 words)

Teenage gossip politics all directed at me

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - about two months ago, one of my friends had given me one of her friends (*Paula*) facebook password- i wasnt sure why, but i never checked her facebook because i was never that interested in what she did on it. however, having said that- i went on yesterday because i was bo... (288 words)

Girls, would you be attracted to an average looking guy with a nice body?

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28 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently signed up to my local gym, and im looking forward to working out and getting "ripped", i dont want huge muscles but i want to be defined and have a flat chest/stomach, and strong arms. My question is to all the girls and i want a completely honest answer please: ... (149 words)

I have a massive porn addiction

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28 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, this is more confession than question but i would like some feed back so i have a pretty...well lets call it healthy, sex drive. i think sometimes it screws with me being happy with my life. i dare say i am on the boarder of being a porn addict. at times i will choose to... (203 words)

I am in love with my friends wife

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28 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a big question/issue. Myself and one of my friends met this girl at the same time and where I am a shy and reserved guy he is not and he hit it off with her right away. Well since then we have all been friends and I was developing a crush at the time when they decided ... (312 words)

Am I overweight for my age?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This isn't really a relationship question but this is the only place I can turn to, to get some advice. Idk what all information you need to tell me what I need to know but I'll just tell you everything about my body. I'm 13 years old, about 5'2, my bra size is a 36C, and I ... (73 words)

How do I handle my independent boyfriend?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my b/f for couple years , we had been talking and sharing some good and bad things together. When I met him in person, it was very hard for me to understand him.Our cultures are not be the same. Once I asked him to go out for breakfast, I looked after him by cleaning his ... (246 words)

What are the chances a girl keeps her virginity until marriage?

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28 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm just wondering how many girls keep their virginity until 20 + or until they get married ? I really have no idea about that so thanks for your answer by the way.... (34 words)

I am naturally pessimistic about life and the world

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - this is a broad question. i am aware that there are a million approaches to life, but my mind usually takes the most negative perspective first. if i try hard enough and am lucky, i'll force myself to look at it another way--and believe it. but typically, for instance, in relat... (208 words)

I was his rebound and he left me

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this guy last summer who had just gotten out of a relationship. He was very depressed and I seemed to make him feel better. I was basically his shoulder to cry on all summer. I fell more in love with him than I ever have with anyone! Physically and emotionally I was ... (182 words)

Chance and choice, how scenarios happen

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28 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I wonder how much our life effected by chance,and how much on our choices? Right now I think chance is more dominant ,than choice. Like a bad marriage I live in, can determine your life for years, and if you have children ,its not easy to get out, and it can put you in long ... (139 words)

What do you do if you can't get over someone?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - what do you do if you can't get over someone? I'm 14 (almost 15)and there's a boy i like who i kind of made hints that i liked him and i'm like 95% sure that he KNOWS I like him. I've waited for some kind of reply but nothing ever happened. He's never said anything to me. Inst... (265 words)

Dating for five months but no sex yet!

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for 5 months now and we haven’t had sex yet which isn’t exactly a bad thing but he always makes up some excuse like if my child wakes up or he drank too much or its too soon. We have had some foreplay but when I try to engage in anything he is limp ... (125 words)

Should I go back to being her friend?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I been friends with this girl for 5 years and we have never had any disagreements or fights. Well I introduced her to a friend of mine who wanted to talk to her. So they dated for 3 months before I got into it with her gf. The girl wants to be back my friend but I don't know ... (144 words)

Any advice for figuring out if he likes me?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, well...I'm 14 years old and he is 15. I have a crush on him but he is really shy. He stares at me all the time when I'm near him and when I look back he smiles. All the other girls like him too but he doesnt show any interest in the other girls. He follows me and w... (204 words)

What should I say when I talk to him to get him to stay with me?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So my bf wants a break because he misses what he had when he was single. He also says i pushed him into saying "i love you" (but he eneded up saying it after i let it go) When i asked, he said he still has romantic feelings for me, but he wanted this break to last for th... (189 words)

Will she come back if I give her space?

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28 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's this girl I go to school with since September. Around December, she was absent from school one day and I called her to make sure she was okay. Then I spoke to her at a school play. By about February, it seemed she just might like me. The little things she did. I ... (950 words)

Diet & exercise tips for 6 pack abs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, im 14 and can not find anything that sounds convincing or is true on building ab muscle. I want to get a 6pack (not to big, just a nice mild look on the skin cerface). I heard that a good diet helps.. can somebody please share any diets that i should take out wh... (173 words)

I want to tell him that I like him, but I don't wanna ruin our friendship....

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 15 in high school. ok theres this guy on my bus, and i really really like him. i never felt this way about anyone before. i just can't stop thinking about him. we talk and text and we're pretty good freinds. i told a couple of my friends that i liked him, but a lot of ... (229 words)

Can a guy really like you but never talk to you?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I like. I've been told he likes me too, but I'm not convinced. We are both really shy. He stares at me a lot and when I see him he looks away really fast and pretends to be doing something else. When we pass each other in the hallway he looks down at ... (404 words)

Should I keep having sex with my ex-girlfriend?

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28 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated a girl on and off for 5 years, starting when we were 17. She would leave me for other guys because it was attention from someone new; I think she was trying to reassure herself she was pretty. Then she would say she misses me, and I would get back together with her. All ... (436 words)

Follow my head? Or follow my heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - myself and partner have recently split up due to his paranoia,behaviour and attitude towards me,i went out saturday night and got talking to this guy he was very nice a real gentleman even sang to me which suprised me i was really flattered.he gave me his number and asked if i ... (147 words)

Best love match for a libra?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I wonder,if anybody has any idea what is the best love match for a libra woman? I don't think it is very serious, but I did see a few times in life it seem to work. So ,if you really don't like this question, than I understand, but if you believe in it, please let me kn... (61 words)

Could having an orgasm help my period start?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, im 14 and havent had my period yet! idk if theres something wrong with me but all my friends have it. Im not under developed. Ok but i was wondering if maybe an ogasm could have had an effect on me getting my period or not?? i need answers! thanks to anyone who writes ... (57 words)

Cannot let go of my first love

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28 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i can not let go of my first love. we have been dating for 5 months, we loved each other a lot, but we broke up because she would not stop flirting with my friends, and i could not stop complaining. after a few weeks of separation i grew weak and begged her to give me another ... (309 words)

Should I tell her I had sex with others while we were apart?

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28 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - If you lied to your significant other about what you did sexually during a brakeup period (not just a temporary split) , should the other person know everything? I wasnt fuly truthful to my g/f , she knows I messed around , but not that i had sex. SHould this ever be resolved ... (81 words)

I regret sleeping with him now and feel so stupid for doing so!

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am extremly worried. I done something that I feel completely silly about. I feel like such a silly little girl. Any feedback and comments would be very much appreicated. I have known this guy for a while and deicded to meet up with him for a few drinks, It was too ... (408 words)

Any nursing students out there?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Any nursing students out there.. how the hell do you remember all they abbreviations????? god I got an A on the first test and the second was awful because the teacher did not tell us what abbreviations where going to be on the second test.. I think I bombed it.. over 100 abbr... (56 words)

What went wrong?

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28 May 2009 (F)

- HELP! me and this guy have known each other for a very long time and I have always had mad feeling for him but was always scared to say anything to him until years later I was at T.G.I. Fridays an he finally said something to me we talked after that for like 3 days then he just ... (331 words)

Is this enough proof to get him in trouble?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my friend is 17. she is dating a 22 year old. this girl is my friend and this is my brother she's dating. recently he broke up with her and shes been so unhappy. i found out that her friends want to call the cops on him because of their age difference. Plus they find i... (140 words)

How reliable is this implant?

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi (: I've been with my boyfriend for well over a year; serious, stable relationship. I have the implanon implant in my arm - from about 6 months ago. We both want to have sex without a condom, because we're both happy and trust each other completely... we haven't done it ... (83 words)

I feel my boyfriend is withdrawing from me.

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28 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and we are in love. But I feel like he is withdrawing from me. His mom is severally sick and he can not go see her she is in another country. So that is one thing that has him depressed. We do not go out like we use to. ... (249 words)

He's 16 and I'm 13, we have never met...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

28 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Here's the thing, I was dating this guy, who is 3 years older than me via the internet and we had arranged to meet and that, it just never happened. Is this too dangerous for me to be doing? I really like him, and he says he loves me, like properly loves me. I dont know whether ... (68 words)

I guess she's not who I thought she was...

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28 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound chaotic and pathetic. Theres this girl I've known since September but since April we've been getting pretty close. Talking till ridiculous hours of the night and there hasn't been a day we haven't done this for weeks. I thought I was falling for her.... (219 words)