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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I give her the note?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, and thanks for help in advance. Forgive me if this sounds way too cliche. Well, there's a girl I started to like Saturday. At first I thought it was one of those things where it passes in a day. But, when I woke up Sunday morning, she was all I could think about. It ... (225 words)

First time (69) , clueless... please share your experiences.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend wants to try a (69) and i'm up for it, the thing is I never gave him or anyone oral and I'm pretty inexperienced, unlike him so how should it go? I don't want to be under so that he doesn't smoother me and at the same time I dont want to be on top as I'm well ... (83 words)

My boyfriend's flat mate treats him like dirt and I'm slowly boiling up inside!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's flat mates. He has been living with them for 2 years now and they are not very nice people. He only lives with them because he has nowhere else to go. His parents live 4 hours away from the university and he has no other ... (961 words)

I want to know if there is any chance of us being together because I really like him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with a guy for over 5 years now and have been told he is interested in me as more than a friend. But we have only ever kissed when we are both drunk (him more so than me!) I know he is a shy guy sober and have tried speaking to him sober but he just ignores ... (107 words)

Should I just count my losses and give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - If a girl doesn't call or text does that mean she doesn't want you around any more? This girl and I have been talking and hanging out for about five months and we really hit it off but then all of a sudden she just stopped. She no longer calls or texts me. She never answers my ... (103 words)

I feel unable to let him go...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, I would really appreciate some advice here! I have been obsessed (this is an understatement) with this guy for a year now and for most of this time we have not been on speaking terms. He claims to hate me and my feelings towards him vary greatly between obsessive, ... (1507 words)

I have reached the age of legal consent and wanted to have sex with my long term girlfriend but I couldn't get it up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I turned 16 ten days ago, and that means I'm legal in my country (UK). I thought that when I was 16 I would not have a problem with having sex, as I did not have to worry about the law etc, but my girlfriend of 8 months and I tried having sex tonight, and failed. She is 17, so ... (426 words)

What is uncensored porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! I recently found out that my partner has a uncensored website. He also sells viagrra and something called cilas. Firstly what is uncensored porn? And is it ok for him to sell viagra? I've asked but he wont discuss business. He's now recruiting women to film porn with ... (76 words)

Has anyone ever been in a relationship with a male narcissist?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone ever been in a relationship with a male narcissist? If so, could you share any experiences? Behavior examples? Thanks!... (24 words)

My boyfriend hates my family because they're FAT!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend hates my family and I need some advice on how I can get him to lighten up and be nicer to them. My boyfriend was raised in an extremely wealthy family and also has the perfect body. My family is not super rich and my sister and my mom are both overweight. These are ... (351 words)

I'm falling for him but know I can't have him...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts, I'm having some love trouble with a guy that has a girlfriend and he and me have slept together many times, but he says to me that he can't leave her. But sometimes he says stuff like 'if we were together I will be there for you'. He said to me that he is ... (74 words)

Getting over someone I can never have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Two years ago I met this guy at work. There was an instant chemistry between us that I can’t begin to describe. I knew there was on my end, anyway; I didn’t find out until later that he felt the same way. I didn’t understand how I could be attracted so strongly to some... (460 words)

Porn and virginity

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I know this is a stupid question but I was asked to answer it and I actually couldn't answer. If a virgin watched porn and reacted to it, can this rip her hymen?... (34 words)

Is she REALLY happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (?) age 41-50 - OK, so this ex girlfriend has been stressing to me an awful lot lately on how happy she is. Cuz I guess about a month ago I asked her if she was in a roundabout way. But if someone is happy don't they just.. I don't know, say it once, and drop it? Why does she feel the nee... (224 words)

He gets frustrated waiting for me to orgasm.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When my boyfriend and I have sex he get frustrated because, he says he holds himself back just to try to make me comm , but he says i take too long and that i wasn't like that!... He is my first one and i dont know much about sex ... the point is i dont know what can do to make ... (71 words)

For the boys: Innocent or not innocent? Tall or short? Athletic or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know what the guys out there look for in a girl.. do you (guys) like girls that look more innocent or not innocent? do you prefer girls that are tall? or short? do you prefer girls that are athletic or not athletic?... (52 words)

How do I start to move on?? We have had so many problems.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - In a long distance relationship, been together for quite a few years. He just started this new job in another state four months ago. I see him every other weekend. We have had our ups and down believe me. This is just another bump in the road which I am quite tired of. I know ... (170 words)

Is he just joking about? Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, theres this boy i like and he likes me aswell. all week hes been saying hi to me and smiled and the usual stuff. then he said to everyone he really really likes me and blushes when he hears my name. and today he wrote on his hand our names together,and yesterday he said ... (210 words)

Do you think he cheated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my dilemma... Back in December my husband went to Japan for military duties for 2 weeks with 2 other guys. When he came back I found that he emailed to these 2 guys a picture of a local girl....I asked him who that was and he said she was working at the hotel where they ... (432 words)

I really really like her and don't no how to tell her or should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl at a party and got her number and we went out together and got on really well. i really really like her and dont no how to tell her or should i tell her? i dont no what to say or what i should do, should i ask her out or get to no her a bit more by sending her ... (81 words)

Should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for 4 years now for the first year we were just friend renting a 2 bedroom apt together. Recently I was let go from my job do to lack of money in the business. I have continued to work for the company on a comission based. This was 4 ... (112 words)

What to do, job, travel, course?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been looking for a job or a course for about 5 months now and i am totally sick of looking at jobs i dont want to do. i have been looking at courses too and feel that im just gonna waste my time doing a course. im thinking of working away for a bit, like a gap year! i ... (90 words)

Shaved or not shaved?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well,this is kind of eeky but i need to know the answer..do guys prefer a clean,shaved bikini area or is it ok to have hair down under?... (27 words)

29 and want to leave home for Spain, how do I tell my Mum?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really love my mom, but I'm having a problem with my mom and don't know how to deal with it. I've decided that I want to go study in Spain this year, in the fall. I've discussed my plans with my mother, but she is "freaking out." You may have the impresion that I'm ... (735 words)

I'm Muslim and want to convert to Judiasm - How do I tell my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a muslim who will no longer be following my parent's faith. I have never really felt tied to Islam. How can I tell my family that I plan to convert to Reform Judaism?... (37 words)

Erectile dysfunction - can anyone suggest a way to break the vicious cycle?

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1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, could any guys or girls out there give me some advice, please? I've been with my bf for 5 years, sex was great at first, but for the last year or so, not so good. My bf cannot maintain an erection, and now he's in a vicious cycle - he worries he won't be able to maintain ... (146 words)

I am not physically attracted to my wife any longer. What to do about it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this is horrible of me but I am not physically attracted to my wife anymore. since we started dating and now since we are married she has put on a lot of weight while I have now for the past four months have started a workout and diet plan that has gotten me in the best ... (82 words)

He doesn't seem to want to make love to me as often as he used to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now. We started having sex 10 months after we started dating, and since then all i want to do is make love to him!... everything was ok for 4 months but now he doesnt feel like doing it as much as he used to!.. he ... (83 words)

How should I do it? Do you think I should break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - In simple terms - my relationship with my boyfriend, feels like a friendship. I don't know; maybe I jumped to conclusions deciding I liked him, maybe I did at the time but not now, maybe I should have waited to get to know him better. When he asked me out I said yes because... (247 words)

Why did my best friend ask me if I would have sex with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my best guy friends and I have known each other since the third grade. For an entire five days of the end of eighth grade, I'll admit, I thought he was hot. But that was it! After that, we didn't do/think/feel anything, didn't confess anything, just went on with our ... (507 words)

Should we just ignore our issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It seems like no matter how often my boyfriend and I talk about our relationship issues and how to solve them it always turns out that nothing really changes. while we talking he tells me he understands me and all that but few days later usually he says I'm just over reacting, ... (122 words)

When a man has an orgasm. Is it the same feeling as when a women has one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When a man has an orgasm. Is it the same feeling as when a women has one? Also could a man have an orgasm without actually semen coming out! Say if u were sucking there nipples?... (36 words)

To cheat or not to cheat? That is the question!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i seem to be getting myself into abit of a predicament. im starting to get feelings for a girl who already has a boyfriend. we get on really well and flirt with each other etc. she also stays round mine every now and then and we cuddle up in bed but nothing else. about a ... (177 words)

Why does he act differently now he knows I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Before, my crush's friends used to act shy and awkward around me. Which I thought was weird because they were all outgoing. But once I told him that I liked him (he didn't say anything but he told my friend that yes, he liked me too), they started acting nice and make an effort ... (62 words)

My mum is sleeping with my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 months. We get on great and have an amazing sex life. When we have sex we always film it. It's just a bit of a kinky thing we do. My Mum, who's in her mid-forties, is always saying how good looking my boyfriend is and that she wishes s... (215 words)

I'm obsessing over a married man I had an affair with.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Call it obsession! I had recently ended my relationship with a married man. We stayed together for 6 months and ended up in beginning of January. I have tried many times to bring him back, however he advised to me many times to move on and help myself. I l... (152 words)

Why doesn't he care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6years now and things were great for a long time, he was always so caring and so loving and made me feel special by doing nice things for me. But for the last year now he has made feel as though i am nothing to him and he treats me like ... (528 words)

A question about virginity for all the boys out there

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is mainly aimed at boys but girls can answer too, i would like to know, if a girl said that she wanted to lose her virginity to you but didn't want to be in a relationship with you, would you mind? Or would that be a problem for you? Thanks.... (51 words)

Parenting advice please!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok some parenting advice please!!My daughter is 4 1/2years old and currently going to pre school 3 1/2 hours a day(due to start full time in sept). She is a lovely little girl but she has a very short attention span!Her teacher has told us that she just does not listen in ... (119 words)

Our sex life is terrible and to make things worse my ex who I had a very passionate sex life with is back on the scene!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is a wonderful, temperate, caring husband and father. He is such a great friend and I trust him completely, however, he hates and fears intimacy, sex and passionate kissing. We also have some problems in the communication department as he is a very dry and almost ... (598 words)

I need a job but I don't want to work because my boyfriend is already giving me everything I need!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

1 May 2009 (?) age 36-40 - i need some advice and no judgement please, my problem is, my boyfriend is taking care of me,very good care. what ever i neeed he provide, he's on the wealthy side, but i need a job, but i don't want to work because he giving me every thing i need already i am confused on what ... (96 words)

Am I wrong for wanting to start my life with the person I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been with eachother a year and a half and we are also living together(with his fam.)I work and i support him untill he finishes college. He just got a job, so i asked him... "when are we moving out?" he said whenever he wanted, that he wasn't ready yet. ... (144 words)

My fiancee's ex has realised what he is missing and is trying to get her back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My fiancee's ex cheated on her, drank excessively, and didn't contribute anything to their relationship. I work away from home, by away I mean different country, on a rather regular basis. Now that her ex realizes what he's missing, he wants to be around her. Here's the kic... (157 words)

His friends say mean things about me and my boyfriend laughs along with them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well... lets start simple.. im 13 and i recently got a boyfriend (about a month ago),,,and ill just add its not my first he is really sweet and has on his myspace that he loves me and that im his girlfriend and all of that kind of stuff. but at lunch he is alwaaaays wi... (178 words)

Hot supermodel type flirting with my boyfriend so I told her no to friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Three years ago I met a girl through my boyfriend's best buddy. She was really fun and nice. She is a hot supermodel type, and from Europe somewhere. She was very open; willing to do anything sexually, which I learned from her attitude and from her boyfriend (whom was ... (185 words)

My boyfriend has a major problem with commitment!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a major problem with commitment. I know he loves me but he pushes me away because of his past! One girl that he was with spilt her wrists because she was totally in love with him and he left her. And thats what she did. And he was with someone else for 5 years ... (240 words)

I don't know how to break my engagement to my parents!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25 and I have been dating a 42 year old man for almost 1 year. I live in a different state then my family and none of them have met him yet. He is the sweetest guy I have ever dated, he is respectful, caring and I love him. He asked me to marry him a few weeks ago and I ... (100 words)

Help me! Big crisis!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i hav been goin out with my gf for a long time but theres another girl who wants me and i dont know what to do someone help me please :(... (31 words)

His ex is wanting to play happy families!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya can sum1 pls help... ok ive bin with my bf for 6 years everything is fine we have two small children and he has two older girls from previous relationship ( he is older than me) then about two months ago one of his girls was found out to be off the rails( she was drinking, ... (329 words)

My boyfriend thinks it would be a turn on to watch me having sex with our dog!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I am 26 and have been with my current bf for almost 3 years. We have a great relationship, he is perfect in many ways. We get along great and have a great sex life. We are both very open at trying new things sexually and I will admit we are kinda kinky. About a ... (136 words)

I slept with other girls but we were not dating at the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in quite the predicament someone please help me. I have been talking to this girl (will call her M) for 11 or so months, she had a boyfriend off and on up until a month and a half ago. We would have streaks where we would talk and spend time together every day then periods ... (302 words)

How do we tell our parents that we are having a baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 22 and my girlfriend of 2 years is 20, my parents really like and her parents seem to like me. We just found out that she is pregnant, it was unplanned but we are very excited and are keeping the baby. How do we tell our parents and how will they react?... (56 words)

My ex-boyfriend is moving on too quickly and there's a possibility I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I recently broke up. It was a mutual decision to separate- we both just fell out of love with each other. Then last night, my best friend told me that he has been trying to make a move on her at school. I know we both agreed to break it off, but I can't help... (177 words)

How to get my boyfriend's attention back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How to catch my boyfriend's attention back? Hi! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost six months now and it seems like he does not care when I'm around and he'd rather spend the Friday night with his flatmates. He expects me to socialize, but really, sometime... (278 words)

I want to pretend I'm someone else online when I talk to my crush!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - so,my crush likes me back and stuff,but in the past month we haven't talked at all.he tried several times to greet me,but i acted like he wasn't there(totally ignored him,i know what a horrible thing i've done),so he avoided me and acted like i didn't exist.now,when he sees ... (112 words)

When I called him crying he said to me "why are you whinging?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help please .. I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore , we've been going out 3 years and im nearly 18 and he's turned 20 , he hardly talks to me , we used to talk everyday and now its not the same . I called him just before as I was crying because my dad is getting ... (144 words)

Everywhere I go I see couples and it makes me feel jealous! How can I stop feeling this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm struggling with single life. When I go out with friends, or when I hang around with my flat-mates I always see couples and it makes me feel jealous. Last night, I looked across the room and saw my flat-mate and his girlfriend playing together. They weren't doing an... (136 words)

Bad breakup - can this relationship be salvaged?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Was with a guy for 10 months - in the last 2-3 months he kept to break up with me sporadically just like that but mainly after we had a trivial fight..he would dump me by txt or by phone call..and we would keep to go back with each other once 3 days had passed cos the pain was ... (1027 words)

Another girl asks my guy out for a meal - he thinks they are friends but she doesn't even know about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi right ok so girls and guys. Girls if you asked a boy out for a meal would you be classing that as asking him on a date? guys if a girl asked you out for a meal would YOU class that as a date? a guy i was with told me a girl liked him she asked him out for a meal he a... (221 words)

Sex was amazing in the early stages but now we are both feeling frustrated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 21 and my bf is 20 we have been otgether for 2 years and have a child together. i also have one from a previous relationship. sex to bgin with in the early stages was amazing and would last all night for the last 9 months or so he loses his erection shortly after h... (119 words)

I have so messed up the best thing I had in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was married 15years, but known him 20 am now 42. It was a strong relationship and very happy with four boy,s the result . We had up and down's but mainly up,s , he was my best friend .Nearly two year,s has gone by now since we parted because i found alot of infidelity by ... (919 words)

My online guy suddenly wants to go out with me after his other girl dropped him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a guy I've talking with on line for abour 3 years, he has always told me he doesn't want to have agirlfriend or a serious relationship, we tried having a coffee together but it did not work really however we take on great just talking on the net. Recently he was ... (238 words)

How do I go about asking out a girl I barely know?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl at my school, I barely know her and yet I like her. The only things I know are her name and year (She's 2 years younger than me) because we both did an afterschool activity (I think she doesn't do it anymore though). I'm thinking of asking her out. Any adv... (84 words)

Sometimes I feel that it is all too much, do I still love him or...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - do I really still love my boyfriend? I mean don't get me wrong he is a great guy and we love each other but sometimes he can be really annoying. He is my second boyfriend and I'm his third girlfriend. We weren't friends that long before we started going out. We are both really ... (161 words)

Is he tired of "us" already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I used to have such fun together, but it very quickly went quiet. He's very busy and has a lot of pressure on him with his work. We have a new baby together. We're nice to each other and very rarely rowe. We had a break for 10 months then it was his idea to have ... (80 words)

Had sex, but he doesn't call?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with a guy that i really like too soon and after our intercourse he has been distant,he dosnt call or visit and when i do call he dosnt answer so i stopped.I was hurt and i just cant stop thinking about him,i want to for get him but i dont know how.please help me ... (65 words)

I think I'm ready, but how do you know if you're ready for a sexual relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, Theres been alot of boys who have asked me for sex, hand job, head job etc... But im still a virgin, i havent given head job or hand job or been fingered, the firther-est ive been is like kissing and its really embarressing. I feel that im ready for sex but im not fully... (78 words)

Why was he so giving in bed and not the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex was very selfish and basically used me for sex. I lost my virginity to him and he took advantage of that. He was, however, very giving during sex, which I find really weird. He would always go down on me and I only did it a couple times for him and he never asked or ... (71 words)

He's sooo clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the thing. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and let me tell you it was love at first sight and all. Its an amazing relationship. But something is starting to go wrong. He's becoming too clingy. My goodness is it annoying. I mean I see him every hour of the day ... (152 words)

My husband is very mean to me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F)

age - I have been married for 18 years and i am very frustrated and confused about my marriage. I love my husband but i am not in love with him anymore because of the way he treats me. He is the kind of person who punishes me when he does not get his way. He tells me he is not ... (265 words)

Is he not going to text me for a while since I did the same?

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1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so there's this guy I met him in a restaurant I always go to. He asked me for my number so he can always have my food ready before I get there. We started talking, and then he kept telling me he liked me and how he just needed to have my number and wasn't going to let me ... (316 words)

Tired of my boyfriend's immaturity

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1 May 2009 (F)

- I am so tired of my bf inmaturities and childish reactions. Yesterday morning he got mad at me and hanged up the phone on me, and has not call me since. I txted him last night telling him that I love him and that I cared about him. I also called him but he did not picked up ... (132 words)

I really like him, he used to like me, and I'm getting obsessed

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1 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi!! Ok so im only 14 and theres this guy that i REALLY like and ive liked him for a long time i think he used to like me back when we were 10 but well ... We were too young!! Anyways i cant ask him out because our family's are friends and if he said no it would be weird going ... (163 words)

I'm obviously in love, but I want to know for sure

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1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I remember something that I did with my boyfriend, I get this sort of warm feeling in my chest. What is this feeling, and what does this mean?... (29 words)

Am I too trusting?

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1 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - First off, I have trust issues, I have, as I like to put it, been scarred by women in the past. Never cheated on ( and trust me I know ) but just lied to, and I had to cut the rope. Recently though I've chosen to ignore my paranoia, it doesn't solve anything. So wh... (529 words)

My husband is socially useless

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1 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i just don't know how to help my husband. Hes socially inept, and i have almost a fear of him meeting anybody in case he humiliates me and himself. Hes a great partner and father, i cannot fault him. he treats me well and is committed to us and provides for us. He is an... (639 words)

My girl broke up with me for my cousin!

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1 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf of 3 years broke up with me :'( cause of another guy who is my COUSIN!!! i hate him i hate him i hate him. im crying right now and i miss her even though she hurt me and cheated on me with him twice and she just told me. gosh. what do i do. im heartbroken and i still love ... (67 words)

What do you think I should do in my position?

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1 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - One of my half brothers,who is much older than myself,is a millionaire.Me and one of my other siblings are unemployed.We have tried very hard to find jobs though,although i have low self esteem and suffer from depression.I feel really jealous of my brother,as he has afew big ... (369 words)

He wants anal without a condom

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1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have recently had anal sex for the first time(with condom). It was great, i felt no pain at all and he enjoyed it alot. We are gonna do it again this weekend, but he wants to do it without a condom and i dont want to. What can i tell him that will make him ... (93 words)

She's gonna think I'm hitting her up only for sex

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1 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a student at university and everyday i study in the library because of exams. and theres this girl who i think is really nice that i see there and i would like to get to know her. but recently a group of ppl in the library put on a porn video and raised the volume and ... (104 words)

Help for my friend!

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1 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Just a quick question I would like some advice on, its actually about a friend of mine. Him and this girl that he was friends with for a while maybe a year ended up dating for a few months and it was maybe 3 or 4 months. In that relationship they really liked eachother but ... (314 words)

What can I say to my brother to alleviate his guilt?

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1 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me... My big brother is a nursing student and while he was on duty one of his patients died and now he blames himself even though it's not his fault and it keeps haunting him and now he wants to quit and it's his last year...... (48 words)

He gave her his number. Is he just seeing if I will react to this or is this a sign that he is not serious?

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1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for about three months now. I am 18 and he is 27. We recently talked about our relationship and come up with the conclusion that we are exclusive but we realize that our relationship is limited due to our age difference and future changes. Recently he ... (210 words)

I have a crush on a student.

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1 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just need to vent!!! I'm a male teacher in his late 20's and I have a crush on one of my female students who is about to turn 18. It's not lust.... I just think she and I have many things in common and we seem to have a great connection. She is also very pretty. I am just ... (119 words)

Opinions needed... I don't know if he likes me?

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1 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay this is the continuation to my previous question basically i have this guy friend who i knew since last semester and we have 2 classes together this semester so we've gotten pretty close. I was convinced that he likes me because he's always staring at me, touching me(arm, ... (171 words)

I feel my partner is going through a crisis just now... what do I do?

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1 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 31 year old male who has been in a relationship for 8 years. We have 2 beautiful girls age 3 and 5. my fiance told me that she has had and ongoing affair with a man for about 4 months and will not break it off with him. she will not give me reasons why? other than she ... (225 words)