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writes:I dated a guy long distance a few years ago. He recently contacted me saying he was thinking about the past and could never forget me. He calls me beautiful and when we text he will type a 3 at the end. I asked him what our relationship was and he said he didn't know. And I asked if he talked to everyone the way he talks to me and he said no and I really believe him. But he said the reality is we are just too far away and we should keep talking as friends. We are still talking and he still calls me babe,hun, beautiful,etc. He told me one day we will see each other. I'm just confused. If he really had feelings for me would he turn down a relationship? And why does he still talk to me like I'm his girlfriend. I really think I'm in love with him. It hurts so much when he calls me beautiful and sends his little hearts at the end of messages. I just want to be with him. What do I do?
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reader, Pungie +, writes (1 June 2009):
I met a woman online in a silly game, and we had a wonderful relationship, I talked to her for 12 months before meeting her face to face, 9 months of that we considered ourselves monogamous- it has by far been my most fulfilling relationship.
When it comes to where to find love- you gotta sail those seas yourself. I never once have cheated on her, we're currently taking a break to make sure this is what we want before we go further, and I trust she hasn't cheated on me.
It's possible, but it's hard and takes patience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): You can't really have a real relationship with him when it's long distance and expect him to be monogomous. It's kind of a fantasy relationship really when you haven't met the person at all and it's just online. For all you know, he could have a girlfriend or not even be who he says he is. All you can really do is be a online friend but don't let it stop you from living in the real world like dating guys you can actually spend time with because that's what he'll be doing, except with other girls!
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