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writes:Im 16, soon to be 17. I've only had one boyfriend, which was in May 2008, but it ended before it started. We didn't kiss or get intimate in any way as it was my first. He was the only guy that liked me back.However, I really really want a guy. I do NOT "need" one at all. I can cope on my own, i am very independent, like spending time alone and with friends, i do NOT need attention from guys.But, lately I have just really really "Wanted" a guy.Please dont get me wrong, I will not need advice on being independent and not needing a man."The right guy will come along, just enjoy being a teenager" - That's something i am already doing, I know the right guy will come along, I just have to have patience. It's just the feeling of 'wanting' one.I dont actually understand why i've been wanting one lately as I haven't 'wanted' one before.Why could this be? Reply to this Question
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reader, anoms +, writes (18 February 2009):
 well i can only suggest valantines because i felt the same way, and its still a matter of needing comforting but it just hits home a little harder when you feel like everyone else is very happy with the ones that care for them, but cheer up and keep your wits about ya, your man could be just around the corner, gudluk.
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reader, EzraMayweather  +, writes (17 February 2009):
 maybe its because....hmmm.....uuhhhh... YOUR HUMAN!!! sorry sweetheart for the slight slap of reality, but your our human, no matter how much one says they are not interested in being in a relationship they cant help it because its in human nature to want companionship. thats what we are here for. to get together..love, reproduce and die! nothing more...nothing less!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, it wasn't to do with valentines day because I've never had a problem with it before. I actually slept for the whole of valentines day because I was extremely tired, not to avoid the lovey dovey stuff.
I just keep thinking I want one. Like, I want a guy to hold, be with, talk to me, be with me, comfort me, hold me, etc..
I really dont know why though.
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reader, anoms +, writes (17 February 2009):
well there isnt really a question amongst this post, your probably feeling abit of anxiety over valentines day passing you buy and no signs of a relationship on the horizon, keep your head up and stay possitive, youre very young so dont let this get you down until your my age lol, good luck.
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